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Topic: i'm a confused mess..read me please
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javaweb
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: Brooklyn, NY, US
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 10, 2019 01:45 PM
  
having relationship issues in which a third party is involved (a former female co-worker)....i realized he's been lying to me about some aspects his past which is now leading me mistrust his "friendship" with a former female co-worker. i know i definitely need time and space alone to clear my head but i am wondering if this relationship is worth sticking through -- whether it's be with him and move out, declare a break and move out, or end things altogether IP: Logged |
Jazabel
Knowflake Posts: 1512
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Registered: Apr 2013
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posted January 10, 2019 02:53 PM
I just pulled a few cards asking what you should do in this situation, and the cards are saying to not do anything at this point, keep your cards close to you chest (in the metaphorical sense) and avoid taking action in a time of distress, ask questions and gather facts. The cards are leaning towards the commitment at this time. IP: Logged |
javaweb
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: Brooklyn, NY, US
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 10, 2019 03:35 PM
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Originally posted by Jazabel:
I just pulled a few cards asking what you should do in this situation, and the cards are saying to not do anything at this point, keep your cards close to you chest (in the metaphorical sense) and avoid taking action in a time of distress, ask questions and gather facts. The cards are leaning towards the commitment at this time.
thank you. i feel that we need to work on communication, transparency and trust IP: Logged |
Jazabel
Knowflake Posts: 1512
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posted January 10, 2019 03:48 PM
Try to work on it, is what the cards are suggesting. And k ow your worth at the same time IP: Logged |
heartsandheels
Knowflake Posts: 129
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Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 10, 2019 03:56 PM
I got sort of the same thing as jazabel. I get that you need to separate your feelings from facts right now and look into what you really want. Ask yourself if this was the other way around would he still try to fix things with me? I see him getting kind of defensive and my cards tell me he has to establish his priorities. He does put his ex coworker on pedestal. He's going to communicate his side, but not well because he may not be truthful even to himself at first. He sees a lot of options for himself with and without you. 3 of swords, king of wands, 7 of cups IP: Logged |
javaweb
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: Brooklyn, NY, US
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 10, 2019 04:25 PM
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Originally posted by heartsandheels:
I got sort of the same thing as jazabel. I get that you need to separate your feelings from facts right now and look into what you really want. Ask yourself if this was the other way around would he still try to fix things with me? I see him getting kind of defensive and my cards tell me he has to establish his priorities. He does put his ex coworker on pedestal. He's going to communicate his side, but not well because he may not be truthful even to himself at first. He sees a lot of options for himself with and without you. 3 of swords, king of wands, 7 of cups
yea, i definitely need to clear my head...part of me feels they were meant together but he still wants me because although he does love me he wants to play it safe....
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heartsandheels
Knowflake Posts: 129
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posted January 10, 2019 04:33 PM
He does love you, but he's confused dear. He doesn't have a clear answer himself so he can't give one to you. I get that if you move out either way it's going to lead to a complete separation unless you push and push. I'm sorry. You should be a priority for him, but you aren't right now and when I concentrate on him and her I keep pulling the empress and the king of pentacles he does see her as his ideal woman and he is attracted. This has more to do w him than with you. Unless he prioritizes you I don't think this will work out in the long run. Good luck. IP: Logged |
javaweb
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: Brooklyn, NY, US
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 10, 2019 05:19 PM
Yes I feel that you both are on par...he is really confused and I feel that they should be together and I’m not sure where that leaves us....IP: Logged |
javaweb
Knowflake Posts: 1098
From: Brooklyn, NY, US
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 10, 2019 08:45 PM
I guess the real question is can he be trusted with this female friend...men are so exhausting smhIP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 16, 2019 05:06 PM
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