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SunAscendant
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posted January 10, 2019 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've never felt more down about my love life than I feel right now. I've got transit Saturn baring down on my DC and Moon, transit Pluto leaving an exact square to my Venus and Saturn preparing to square my Venus in a few months time. Progressed Venus is exactly opposite natal Pluto right now too. I feel hopeless The only exciting transit that's coming is transit Jupiter trine Venus

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posted January 10, 2019 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Sun,

All those transits including your Saturn return in the future will help you to be the person you need to be for that special person. These transits will help you to take better care of yourself and to know what love really means to you. With Capricorn on your 7th house cusp, your partner will either be older age wise, or seem older to you or you'll meet them later in life.. not in your teens or early 20s.

Hope this helps.

Spring

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posted January 10, 2019 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Sun,

All those transits including your Saturn return in the future will help you to be the person you need to be for that special person. These transits will help you to take better care of yourself and to know what love really means to you. With Capricorn on your 7th house cusp, your partner will either be older age wise, or seem older to you or you'll meet them later in life.. not in your teens or early 20s.

Hope this helps.

Spring


I am in my late 20's actually

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Springtimeflower
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posted January 10, 2019 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You may meet them over the next few years, but I'm thinking you'll be married before the end of 2023.

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SunAscendant
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posted January 11, 2019 05:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
You may meet them over the next few years, but I'm thinking you'll be married before the end of 2023.

Thank goodness. Where do you think I'll meet them and where? My prog sun will conjunct prog venus (a usual relationship symbol) in a few years (might be 2023 but I'll need to recheck. Being a Cap DC person I def know I need to go through my Saturn return in 2 years when I'll be 29 before I get married, so your 2023 estimate (I'll be 31 that year) sounds like an appropriate age.

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posted January 11, 2019 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Sun!

Either through others or your career. It's possible that you could meet them through your parents and their associates, friends or coworkers.

Look to your 7th, 8th, 10th and 4th houses. You also have an intercepted 4th/10th house and for me that has or will be a new beginning. Mine is the 1st and 7th. Maybe your partner will live elsewhere and once you get together you will move and get a different job. Something like that.

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wayfinder
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posted January 12, 2019 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wayfinder     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Sun,

Seeing that your relationship house is ruled by Capricorn, this will most likely be a year of transformation for your sense of self and your relationships. This is due to the new Cancer/Capricorn eclipse cycle that has begun. The next couple years the eclipses will be on this axis and for you personally, effecting your 1st and 7th house.

The upcoming July eclipses specifically will be within a few degrees of your ascendant, and the second one on the 16th just a few degree away from your descendant. Work through any lingering blockages now to prepare yourself for inviting someone new into your life!

Hope this helps

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posted January 12, 2019 04:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by wayfinder:
Hi Sun,

Seeing that your relationship house is ruled by Capricorn, this will most likely be a year of transformation for your sense of self and your relationships. This is due to the new Cancer/Capricorn eclipse cycle that has begun. The next couple years the eclipses will be on this axis and for you personally, effecting your 1st and 7th house.

The upcoming July eclipses specifically will be within a few degrees of your ascendant, and the second one on the 16th just a few degree away from your descendant. Work through any lingering blockages now to prepare yourself for inviting someone new into your life!

Hope this helps


Thank you! Yes I noticed the Cancer/Cap set of eclipses coming up this year and assumed they'd either negatively or positively affect my love life. The past partial solar eclipse on Jan 5th was in my 7th house closely conjunct my Uranus-Neptune conjunction and closely opposing my AC/conjuncting my DC. Since this was a New Moon eclipse I thought it might bring newness into my 7th house matters, but unfortunately transit Saturn made it's 1st exact conjunction to my DC last Monday and in my opinion kind of negated any positive things the new moon eclipse might've brought. I'd been talking to a guy the past few weeks but after Saturn hit my DC on Monday we had a fight and now that thing is over . I'm wondering what the upcoming lunar eclipse on Jan 20th might bring me since it'll be closely conjunct my Chiron in my 2nd house... yikes... I don't need any more wounding from Chiron >.<

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posted January 12, 2019 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wayfinder     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very interesting!

Saturn is always a tough one but I think he'll ultimately reward you for hard work put in. You may not know what the lessons of this most recent new moon are until Saturn transits over that Uranus/Neptune conjunction this Spring.

The last eclipse cycle was on my 1st/7th house axis, I had a few happen that were really difficult. On the 3rd eclipse I had conjunction to my natal Chiron and it brought a soul mate into my life. It was not easy however, I had to muster the courage to get over some wounds and baggage in order to put myself in a place to receive the relationship. It came with a lot of realizations that I had been blocking real intimacy (even though in my head I desperately wanted it) I think Chiron is funny like that.

I try to remind myself that he is the magi and the shaman and to take an alchemical approach to any wounds that come up. With that square to your Sun (also the ruler of your 2nd house where the eclipse is falling) whatever obstacle that comes up in the moment will be to clear out any old baggage.

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posted January 13, 2019 05:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by wayfinder:
Very interesting!

Saturn is always a tough one but I think he'll ultimately reward you for hard work put in. You may not know what the lessons of this most recent new moon are until Saturn transits over that Uranus/Neptune conjunction this Spring.

The last eclipse cycle was on my 1st/7th house axis, I had a few happen that were really difficult. On the 3rd eclipse I had conjunction to my natal Chiron and it brought a soul mate into my life. It was not easy however, I had to muster the courage to get over some wounds and baggage in order to put myself in a place to receive the relationship. It came with a lot of realizations that I had been blocking real intimacy (even though in my head I desperately wanted it) I think Chiron is funny like that.

I try to remind myself that he is the magi and the shaman and to take an alchemical approach to any wounds that come up. With that square to your Sun (also the ruler of your 2nd house where the eclipse is falling) whatever obstacle that comes up in the moment will be to clear out any old baggage.


Thank you for the reminder about learning to thank and not hate Chiron. You're completely right. Now speaking of 1/7 axis eclipses, I came across this article about 1st/7th house eclipses often occuring the year or two before marriage. Perhaps that soulmate you met when you had an eclipse hit your 1st/7th axis could possibly be the one...

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posted January 13, 2019 05:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The last time the Cancer/Capricorn eclipse period came about was in 2000 and 2001 and 2009 and 2010 and most significantly in 1992, the year I was born, so I know Cancer/Cap eclipses are significant to me not just because they activate my 1/7 axis but also because the solar eclipse prior to my birth was in Capricorn and conjunct my DC. So I know cancer/cap eclipses always have something to do with love. The Jan 2010 Cap eclipse brought me my first bf as a senior in high school while I distinctly remember developing my first crush at age 8 during the Christmas 2000 Cap solar eclipse that was conjunct my North Node.

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posted January 13, 2019 12:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for erickaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When tr. Jupiter hits your natal moon that is an excellent time to meet a new love.

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posted January 13, 2019 02:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by erickaf:
When tr. Jupiter hits your natal moon that is an excellent time to meet a new love.

That's like a year from now. I don't want to wait that long

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wayfinder
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posted January 13, 2019 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wayfinder     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
The last time the Cancer/Capricorn eclipse period came about was in 2000 and 2001 and 2009 and 2010 and most significantly in 1992, the year I was born, so I know Cancer/Cap eclipses are significant to me not just because they activate my 1/7 axis but also because the solar eclipse prior to my birth was in Capricorn and conjunct my DC. So I know cancer/cap eclipses always have something to do with love. The Jan 2010 Cap eclipse brought me my first bf as a senior in high school while I distinctly remember developing my first crush at age 8 during the Christmas 2000 Cap solar eclipse that was conjunct my North Node.

Thank you for sharing that article, I have never heard that before but I do feel it represents my current partner and the direction of our relationship. We met on the August 21st Leo eclipse of 2017, it happened directly on my DC. We will experience the last of the cycle on (Leo/Aquarius) on January 20th!

I find this all so interesting, how cool that those memorable relationships came for you during those times. I pulled you a tarot card about this and I am getting September. I believe theres a good chance you will have some developments around the July 16th eclipse but will really start to see some effects close to the Pisces Full moon on September 14th.

The eclipse in July will activate the frequencies of your natal Neptune and Uranus and my guess is that because the September 14th Full Moon will be conjunct Neptune and both in conjunction to your natal Mars, that may trigger love. This is because Mars is the ruler of your Natal Venus in Aries.

This is all happening within degrees of your and 10th house with is governed by Saturn, which you have transiting exact to your DC. Transiting Venus and Mercury conjuncting your IC makes me think maybe someone will be "moving in" perhaps not literally but figuratively speaking.

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posted January 13, 2019 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by erickaf:
When tr. Jupiter hits your natal moon that is an excellent time to meet a new love.

I had this when I met my first and only love so far. Was a horrible toxic relationship though lmao.

I had transit Saturn in my 7th conjunct my DSC ruler and transit Jupiter exact tribe my venus as well though. Plus transit Pluto conjunct my venus.

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posted January 13, 2019 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by wayfinder:
Thank you for sharing that article, I have never heard that before but I do feel it represents my current partner and the direction of our relationship. We met on the August 21st Leo eclipse of 2017, it happened directly on my DC. We will experience the last of the cycle on (Leo/Aquarius) on January 20th!

I find this all so interesting, how cool that those memorable relationships came for you during those times. I pulled you a tarot card about this and I am getting September. I believe theres a good chance you will have some developments around the July 16th eclipse but will really start to see some effects close to the Pisces Full moon on September 14th.

The eclipse in July will activate the frequencies of your natal Neptune and Uranus and my guess is that because the September 14th Full Moon will be conjunct Neptune and both in conjunction to your natal Mars, that may trigger love. This is because Mars is the ruler of your Natal Venus in Aries.

This is all happening within degrees of your and 10th house with is governed by Saturn, which you have transiting exact to your DC. Transiting Venus and Mercury conjuncting your IC makes me think maybe someone will be "moving in" perhaps not literally but figuratively speaking.


Thank you for pulling a card. What card did you pull? Also, I think the July 2nd eclipse is conjunct my Ascendant. I'll check the July 16th eclipse as well. I think perhaps the way you're describing it it could be possible I meet someone in July and then by September we could move in. Having Neptune and Uranus conjunct in my 7th I know I'm prone to making sudden moves like that in my love life and would probably not rule out a shotgun wedding lol, but I would prefer not to, and I doubt with Saturn ruling my 7th and transiting it that I would have a shotgun wedding.

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posted January 13, 2019 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since everyone is so helpful let me just say thank you. I'll pull one card for everyone who has helped me. I use this gorgeous Mandala Tarot deck

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wayfinder
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posted January 14, 2019 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wayfinder     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't wait to hear how they play out for you!

I pulled the 8 of pentacles as a timing card.
usually symbolizes 8 months or Virgo energy, which made me look into the full moon happening that month and your chart.

Your tarot deck is beautiful!

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posted January 14, 2019 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by wayfinder:
I can't wait to hear how they play out for you!

I pulled the 8 of pentacles as a timing card.
usually symbolizes 8 months or Virgo energy, which made me look into the full moon happening that month and your chart.

Your tarot deck is beautiful!


Thank you! What question do you have?? I'll pull a card now . Yes this tarot deck is something that I couldn't find for the longest time but the guy I was dating at the time was able to find it on Amazon for a good price!

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posted January 22, 2019 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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