posted January 20, 2019 08:38 AM            

Astrologically, who would be a good partner for me?

I promise to come back and update if I should ever find myself married, no matter when it is down the line

posted January 20, 2019 09:26 PM            

Search for natal Moon inconjunct Pluto and then choose cafeastrology.com. instead the link may say quintcunz for inconjunct. Scroll down and read what they say for that aspect. Moon opposite Saturn would be another one. With that Saturn opposition to your 7th house ruler this could be why there is a delay in you marrying. Saturn transiting in Aquarius should help next year to bring someone in, or when Jupiter goes into Aquarius in a few years.

posted January 21, 2019 02:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi HT,

Search for natal Moon inconjunct Pluto and then choose cafeastrology.com. instead the link may say quintcunz for inconjunct. Scroll down and read what they say for that aspect. Moon opposite Saturn would be another one. With that Saturn opposition to your 7th house ruler this could be why there is a delay in you marrying. Saturn transiting in Aquarius should help next year to bring someone in, or when Jupiter goes into Aquarius in a few years.

Hope this helps,
Spring

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Thank you Spring! I never paid attention to my moon inconj pluto properly. I also wonder if Venus inconj NN renders it harder for me to line up my romantic/sexual nature and life direction? Any thoughts?

posted January 22, 2019 02:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
The Venus inconjunct NN may make you feel uncomfortable in relationships (maybe subconsciously), and your dates may feel or see that, so maybe that's why things don't work out. Also, you have some career stuff--mars square pluto for instance, that make you driven to succeed there and you don't leave ample time to develop your relationships further.

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Oops... that is true. There have been times where relationships kind of became second priority because I favored my interests and career before. I guess I have some mistrust of romantic relationships, assuming they will end one way or another, but all tangible work one does is forever, and for other people.

posted January 22, 2019 03:14 AM            

Now you have Gemini moon and with the opposition to Saturn, so you’re quite detached. Not very emotional or in need of a close intimate bond/connections. With your venus R, this makes socializing, love, relationships, connecting etc. quite uncomfortable for you, you may deal with social anxiety or always feeling awkward with trying to connect with others. Makes you mistrusting as well. Lots of walls and barriers up.

Your exact mars square Pluto is interesting as well... were you abused at all growing up? This aspect is notorious for sexual abuse or violence. Mars rules your 4th house of home/childhood as well. This could make you fear or have intimacy issues as well obviously if that was the case which will make romantic relationship not a priority. I would caution you to make sure you don’t attract or have an unhealthy attraction to men who are selfish, abusive or toxic in any way. Because you’ll attract men like this more than the average women without this aspect.

posted January 22, 2019 03:54 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
You have Venus R, in Scorpio (detriment) as well... that’s tough. You will tend to face difficulties in relationships. Read up on Venus R.
Your moon being opposed to Saturn also shows difficulties in relating, letting down your guard and trusting/getting close to others as your venus suggests too. Your moon being your 7th ruler of reiationships and marriage.. this is all just exaggerated. Saturn also delays things, so opposed your 7th ruler, is you do get married (which looking at your chart idk if you ever will, I’m leaning more towards a no and I’ll tell you why later), its showing it’s going to be delayed. Meaning not until you’re at least 30 after your first Saturn return.

Now you have Gemini moon and with the opposition to Saturn, so you’re quite detached. Not very emotional or in need of a close intimate bond/connections. With your venus R, this makes socializing, love, relationships, connecting etc. quite uncomfortable for you, you may deal with social anxiety or always feeling awkward with trying to connect with others. Makes you mistrusting as well. Lots of walls and barriers up.

Your exact mars square Pluto is interesting as well... were you abused at all growing up? This aspect is notorious for sexual abuse or violence. Mars rules your 4th house of home/childhood as well. This could make you fear or have intimacy issues as well obviously if that was the case which will make romantic relationship not a priority. I would caution you to make sure you don’t attract or have an unhealthy attraction to men who are selfish, abusive or toxic in any way. Because you’ll attract men like this more than the average women without this aspect.

I’d suggest working on being comfortable opening up, being honest, open and vulnerable with others first and foremost. I think when you work on the intimacy issues that you most likely have based on the signatures in your chart, you’ll be able to attract and most importantly receive love and the type of relationship you want and marriage will more than likely ensue

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Huh, thank you! I am generally a very reserved and somewhat mistrustful person, you are right, Luna. I tend to feel more comfortable in either very familiar environments or professional environments where I know what the context and variables are.

And nope, no abuse whatsoever, I grew up in a home environment where I was deeply loved and cared for. I do carry around a bit of a dark cloud but I think that's more my temperament, my siblings are super well-adjusted, well-meaning and well-rounded people. I am more the loner and the free spirit, and the youngest.

I have not been abused or neglected in relationships either, I do find I'm always interested in men who are considered somewhat strange to other people though. People who either have very unusual interests, known to be socially strange, or stand out in their profession in interesting ways. They are sometimes divisive, either love or hate people - but this is regarding their own character or life choices, I always expect that I am treated very well in a relationship. So though I have been deeply loved (or at least intensely liked!) by my past and present romantic involvements, being involved with people like this does not always lend a hand to stable, long-term and traditional ways of relating. I do take responsibility for my choices and inclinations, but I sometimes feel weighed down. I feel like I'm constantly trying to juggle an unbound, creative and "mad" part of my life with a socially acceptable and upstanding public life. It can get tiresome and like a sort of double life.

I guess I wondered if romantically things will seem more stable and peaceful this year or the next few years... thank you!