posted March 17, 2019 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by dustib:
Awesome thank you!

So T has re-entered the picture after several months apart. My question is, what are his intentions and can I trust him this time around?

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Hey I’m back. Ok so I looked Into me t and where his head is at, his motives and if you can trust him.

I do see here that he is quite attracted to you and does which to “celebrate” with as he misses you and the connection. ( knight of wands/three of cups)

What concerns me is that I get an overall selfish vibe from this at the moment. He may not be doing this intentionally, but he is not in the headspace to be anything more than a potential physical thing with you right now as I strongly feel he is still attached elsewhere. He is completely focused on his own needs at the moment , and he feels he needs to feel the connection with you again to help him feel alive. ( hermit/three of swords/ king of swords)

Now, as for If you can trust him I’m
Afraid this read is saying “ only if he is free and clear”. Is he? What has he said? I still feel that while he does wish to rekindle this romance with you , he has a tremendous amount of anxiety In his life that is forcing his attention elsewhere. I would say to proceed with caution until you know for sure where he stands.....I don’t feel he really has a motive - more that he wants to reconnect.

I hope this makes sense

posted March 17, 2019 03:43 PM            

Spoon, baby and mirror

Yes he does but looks like he's trying to find the strength to approach you. He feels like he lost the perfect window of time to approach you he feels so now he has to find the nerve to do so.

Will he find the nerve to approach you?

Toad, flies and tombstone

Not anytime soon but yes he will eventually. Right now he's hiding out and feeling very annoyed with himself.

posted March 17, 2019 06:25 PM            

I will also tell you that he does still have feelings for you - he means it when he says that he does, he just really feels stuck.

Can I ask you what m’s feelings are for me?

posted March 17, 2019 07:57 PM            

He definitely feels you are a beautiful and confident person. He feels you are moving forward in life and have overcome several things showing you are a strong person which he admires. He feels there is a huge distance now between the 2 of you though. He feels you have been very successful as well. He feels tempted when he sees you but something is still holding him back. Do you ever see him out and about?

posted March 18, 2019 08:54 AM            

"But will he get to a place where he will at least communicate with me on her issues like we talked about today? Or am I just crazy to ever think we have a chance"

Yes, I do feel he will talk more about this- but not for at least 6 weeks, I feel. SO there will be contact, and I do feel you will see each other. The cards suggest that if you keep it non-physical for the first two/three times you see each other, then he will begin to open up. The key is , if you start saying you want a relationship, he will clam up because he need some time. Let me be clear, I am NOT suggesting you alter your behavior for him at all, just reading on the energy

SO- to answer your question, if he can somehow work his stuff through and disengage from her grip, I absolutely feel you have a chance.

OK FOR ME PLEASE- yes you are right, there is a physical distance but there are reasons for that right now...I have not seen him out and about, but will soon.
I guess my Q is similar to yours.

Does he feel that he would like to move forward with me, would he like yo have a conversation to clear things up- given the opportunity, would he?

posted March 18, 2019 12:42 PM            

Does he feel that he would like to move forward with me,

package, umbrella and heart
yes! but he's avoiding anything because he doesn't have the courage right now.

would he like yo have a conversation to clear things up- given the opportunity, would he?

devil, mirror and elephant

yes he would like to but again, he's doesn't feel strong enough to do it. he's scared of what might happen so he keeps everything to himself and avoids it

If you approached him, would he say anything?

parrot, giraffe and mirror