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LunarLove
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posted March 31, 2019 11:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunarLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My dad passed away on friday. He chose to go and had the doctors turn off his heart machine. I was there before, leading up to it and afterwards alongside my mom and sister. My history with him is complex and he damaged me deeply but i always loved and thought of him.I hope that he is at peace. I want more than ever before to have my own family and to make friends/ be a part of a community. My family is not close to me and much trauma caused me to isolate myself so i do not have any support during this time. Thank you all for this forum it has helped me at my lowest points.

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poochycat
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posted March 31, 2019 12:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for poochycat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lunar, much love to you at this time and I pray that you will find peace.
Poochy💕

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Angelic star
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posted March 31, 2019 12:11 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi lunarlove m so sorry...it feels very premature here...I can try to channel your father for you if you want me to... Do you have a daughter also ? It feels like he was not quite done but he has some short messages...

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thequeen
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posted March 31, 2019 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All peace to you dear..Love and Light to your dad..I am sure he is in a peaceful and better place now.

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Dee
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posted March 31, 2019 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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LunarLove
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posted March 31, 2019 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunarLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all so mich for your kindness and thoughts. Angelic, i do not have any kids yet, so no daughter. I do not know the time frame where contacts or messages could be made, but if you have any message from him I would love to hear it.If it is too soon, I understand.❤️

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dustib
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posted March 31, 2019 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dustib     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lunar I'm so sorry to hear about your dad! That can't be an easy thing no matter what. But I understand completely about the damage part... Same here from my dad. And also not close to my family.

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Springtimeflower
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posted March 31, 2019 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Springtimeflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sending you hugs Lunar.

Take care,
Spring

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ChildofVenus
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posted March 31, 2019 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry for your loss ღ

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pixieangel
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posted March 31, 2019 11:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixieangel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lunar,
My condolences for your loss.

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LunarLove
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posted April 01, 2019 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunarLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all. ❤️

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Crystalm
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posted April 01, 2019 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Crystalm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Regardless of the issues you'd had with your dad, he's still your dad and I'm sure it's been devastating and difficult for you. Keep your head up and remember it's okay to feel lost. Express all your emotions and take your time, this is never easy.

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LunarLove
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posted April 03, 2019 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunarLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Chrystalm, it is true. It will be a process... thanks again

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Randall
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posted April 20, 2019 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Crystalm:
Regardless of the issues you'd had with your dad, he's still your dad and I'm sure it's been devastating and difficult for you. Keep your head up and remember it's okay to feel lost. Express all your emotions and take your time, this is never easy.

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Brendan34
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posted June 11, 2019 10:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hope you are managing alright. How are you doing now on a daily basis? Are you able to find other support systems over time or doing anything that has helped you along?
Wishing you well.

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