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Topic: My dad died
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LunarLove Knowflake Posts: 852 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 31, 2019 11:57 AM
My dad passed away on friday. He chose to go and had the doctors turn off his heart machine. I was there before, leading up to it and afterwards alongside my mom and sister. My history with him is complex and he damaged me deeply but i always loved and thought of him.I hope that he is at peace. I want more than ever before to have my own family and to make friends/ be a part of a community. My family is not close to me and much trauma caused me to isolate myself so i do not have any support during this time. Thank you all for this forum it has helped me at my lowest points. IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 6340 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted March 31, 2019 12:05 PM
Lunar, much love to you at this time and I pray that you will find peace. Poochy💕IP: Logged |
Angelic star unregistered
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posted March 31, 2019 12:11 PM
Hi lunarlove m so sorry...it feels very premature here...I can try to channel your father for you if you want me to... Do you have a daughter also ? It feels like he was not quite done but he has some short messages...IP: Logged |
thequeen Moderator Posts: 5907 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 31, 2019 12:12 PM
All peace to you dear..Love and Light to your dad..I am sure he is in a peaceful and better place now.IP: Logged |
Dee Moderator Posts: 4275 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 31, 2019 12:50 PM
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LunarLove Knowflake Posts: 852 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 31, 2019 05:32 PM
Thank you all so mich for your kindness and thoughts. Angelic, i do not have any kids yet, so no daughter. I do not know the time frame where contacts or messages could be made, but if you have any message from him I would love to hear it.If it is too soon, I understand.❤️IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 3374 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 31, 2019 07:01 PM
Lunar I'm so sorry to hear about your dad! That can't be an easy thing no matter what. But I understand completely about the damage part... Same here from my dad. And also not close to my family. IP: Logged |
Springtimeflower Knowflake Posts: 3467 From: USA Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 31, 2019 08:11 PM
Sending you hugs Lunar.Take care, Spring IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 4410 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2019 10:12 PM
Sorry for your loss ღIP: Logged |
pixieangel Knowflake Posts: 1748 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 31, 2019 11:15 PM
Lunar, My condolences for your loss.IP: Logged |
LunarLove Knowflake Posts: 852 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 01, 2019 08:07 PM
Thank you all. ❤️IP: Logged |
Crystalm Newflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Mar 2019
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posted April 01, 2019 09:28 PM
Regardless of the issues you'd had with your dad, he's still your dad and I'm sure it's been devastating and difficult for you. Keep your head up and remember it's okay to feel lost. Express all your emotions and take your time, this is never easy. IP: Logged |
LunarLove Knowflake Posts: 852 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 03, 2019 07:20 PM
Thank you Chrystalm, it is true. It will be a process... thanks again IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 112087 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 20, 2019 11:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Crystalm: Regardless of the issues you'd had with your dad, he's still your dad and I'm sure it's been devastating and difficult for you. Keep your head up and remember it's okay to feel lost. Express all your emotions and take your time, this is never easy.
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Brendan34 Knowflake Posts: 537 From: Albany, NY, USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 11, 2019 10:54 PM
I hope you are managing alright. How are you doing now on a daily basis? Are you able to find other support systems over time or doing anything that has helped you along? Wishing you well.IP: Logged |