posted July 09, 2019 07:25 AM            

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Originally posted by ithinkimightbewrong:
i wanna say something along the lines that your mom likes to have freedome to indulge in fun/careles things in life...she doesn't like to feel restricted or to face responsibilities and i feel like she feels you kind of slow her down. either by judging her etc. i feel she feels that you put a block on her by asking her to be a good mom and to do everything in a propper way. to put it crudley she feels like you have a stick up your ass kind of thing...she doesn't feel being in a traditional mother role and the more you make her feel obliged to give that to her the more she pushes away, fights with you, resents/hates you for it.

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What cards did u pull? It’s definitely not like that lol it’s more of the other way around she’s old and traditional and she contradicts herself she thinks she is modern but honestly not that much. I also do not care if she acts like a mother I just want her to respect me & stopped rlly depending on her awhile ago maybe middle school/beginning of high school when I started working only rlly nneeded a place to live. She however sees me as lazy compared to my other siblings who live with my grandmother n r w lot older than me in their 30s.

posted July 09, 2019 07:34 AM            

I have 4 other siblings. 1 doesn’t talk to my mom anymore 1 keeps his distance the other is very attached to her and the youngest is with her all the time but she kinda manipulates her but not in a bad way just to get along w her better. She’s had 4 different marriages 2 abusive when I was in my early childhood. Pregnant as a teen, my grandmother was abusive as well. Grew up with no father. She’s a Pisces, isolates herself, in her 50s, and she does have a temper not just with me but with others as well. With me it’s just amplified though. She is an intuitive as well. I don’t hate her for the record even if I get angry at her I think she just resents hates me for a reason I can’t pin point

posted July 09, 2019 07:49 AM            

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Originally posted by ithinkimightbewrong:
hey i'll do it now..
my question is did c see my message

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Yes, but I feel they’re contemplating how to respond. Some sort of conflict either that you’ve had with each other or that c is having with themselves. They’re in the middle of making a few different decisions for themselves. Don’t push for a response because they’ll feel it’s over the top/over emotional. They’ll reply but don’t expect something mushy or even analytical I feel their response being semi indifferent at first. They’re also kind of busy. Or even if they aren’t aware of it, a lot of people pay attention to this person.

posted July 09, 2019 10:52 PM            

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Originally posted by heartsandheels:
What cards did u pull? It’s definitely not like that lol it’s more of the other way around she’s old and traditional and she contradicts herself she thinks she is modern but honestly not that much. I also do not care if she acts like a mother I just want her to respect me & stopped rlly depending on her awhile ago maybe middle school/beginning of high school when I started working only rlly nneeded a place to live. She however sees me as lazy compared to my other siblings who live with my grandmother n r w lot older than me in their 30s.

She’s also like rlly sick and doesn’t have any friends and doesn’t want any supposedly. She doesn’t go she doesn’t even go shopping besides groceries. Never rlly parties either except she used to go to dance clubs when she was younger or traveled except for when she was w one of her ex husbands. Ur right that she doesn’t like restrictions but I definitely don’t restrict her I’m not even home most of the time and she definitely doesn’t even text me

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