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squirrel
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posted November 25, 2020 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for squirrel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi, guys!

it's me again

maybe someone could do a reading regarding my fiancee. suddenly he started to behave oddly. he became distant, not colder, but quite distant, somehow secretive. we live in different cities, but our communication and closeness was always really good, but recently that changed too. couple days ago he came to see me, unfortunately i've noticed that he hides his phone, he has turned off his notifications, but oddly, he is much more affectionate. i know that he had some health issues and some worries regarding a legal case, he explaines the change in his behaviour by being worried about it, and I'm willing to believe him, but there is something which isn't quite right there and me being a Scorpio Asc got really suspicous.
so please, if someone could see what is happening there.

thank you.

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softissues
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posted November 25, 2020 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for softissues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by squirrel:
hi, guys!

it's me again

maybe someone could do a reading regarding my fiancee. suddenly he started to behave oddly. he became distant, not colder, but quite distant, somehow secretive. we live in different cities, but our communication and closeness was always really good, but recently that changed too. couple days ago he came to see me, unfortunately i've noticed that he hides his phone, he has turned off his notifications, but oddly, he is much more affectionate. i know that he had some health issues and some worries regarding a legal case, he explaines the change in his behaviour by being worried about it, and I'm willing to believe him, but there is something which isn't quite right there and me being a Scorpio Asc got really suspicous.
so please, if someone could see what is happening there.

thank you.


Hi, that does seem really suspicious? Do you have a composite chart with the current transits available? Or did you mean another type of reading lol?

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vansio
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posted November 25, 2020 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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squirrel
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posted November 25, 2020 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for squirrel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any reading is very much appreciated!
Thank you for taking a look<3

edit: i'll post the composite when i figure out how sorry

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squirrel
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posted November 26, 2020 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for squirrel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[img]https://i.postimg.cc/tYvps4F6/Screenshot-20201125-222612.jpg[/img]

here is composite with transits. finally

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Stoika7
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posted November 26, 2020 11:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Looking at the Composite, with Neptune square Saturn/ASC the future of this relationship is very unclear, there's a strong unstable trait in this aspect, usually pointing to difficult committment on the long run... Mercury/Sun/Venus stellium is lovely and usually giving a "true love" feeling, but it's in the 12th house... this looks quite karmic and binding, but it also carries an unstable and unclear trait though... Jupiter square Uranus is usually not a favourable aspect for long term. Transiting North Node is conjunct MC and square the ADC/DSC axis, so it may announce a turning point. transiting Chiron/Moon is square Mars and transiting Mars is square Neptune, transiting Mercury is square Jupiter... this might suggest he's focused on his own issues but that he's actually holding something back or communication is not opening up at this moment, and there's trust issue.

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squirrel
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posted November 27, 2020 06:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for squirrel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Stoika7

Thank you for this thorough analysis! It's quite true what you said, it is really binding - it started suddenly and developed very deeply. I'm the one with trust issuses, my experience (unfortunately) taught me (trained me) to be very suspicious and to react even to a slightest change/shift in the energy between us.
Like I've written previously, he has some legal issuses (a court case regarding a financial settlement), a son he needs to support and some health issuses but he had it before and this didn't affect our communication or our closeness. Also, I have some issuses of my own which prevents us to live together (taking care of my elderly grandmother, who is like a mother to me and who needs constant care, I even quit my old job to be able to care for her fully and started a business of my own). But we knew that from the beginning and everything was fine until 1,5 months ago. Then something changed, suddenly again, and I don't know what to do, what to think or how to behave. I'm willing to do everything necessary to nurture this relationship, but not if it means to give up myself - again.

Thank you, again, dear Stoika!

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Stoika7
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posted November 27, 2020 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, yes, with Composite Uranus square the Moon/Jupiter midpoint, it looks things developed fast and intense. Chiron is also square to Moon/Jupiter midpoint, and it is in Taurus, so this suggests deep intimacy but also there could be challenging circumstances and other priorities in your individual lives interefering with the emotional stability. The stellium in 12th house also gives intensity of feelings, but the 12th house may carry an unattainable side, so something may not ever take off the ground or develope in a more stable situation, maybe cause of those other individual issues... The most concerning aspect, honestly, is Saturn square Neptune and the fact that transiting South Node is going to be conjunct to IC/Neptune quite soon... don't mean to dishearten you but this is usually a parting ways aspect, or it is possible that issues might have to be addressed pretty soon, with South Node/Neptune there's usually a letting go of something that is not working out...

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squirrel
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posted November 27, 2020 06:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for squirrel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh :/

That doesn't sound good. :/ I was afraid of this l. It's interesting that Uranus is transitting back and forth over my DSC, for quite some time now. I've seen my transits and Jan. 20th 2021 there will be a Moon, Mars (my chart ruler) and Uranus conjunction right on my descendant. Something will happen then. Well, I will hope for the best and try not to force anything. Whatever happens, it will be for the best.

Thank you again, this was very insightful and honest <3

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Stoika7
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posted November 27, 2020 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It doesnt necessarily mean break up, but Neptune/Saturn gives strong insecurities and unclear direction, South Node usually comes when something needs to be left behind one's back, so there could be a turning point or a change but that could bring more unsecurity than stability, in my opinion... Moon, Mars, Uranus on your DSC could bring changes, but it depends on what other aspects they form and other transits to your natal... I obviosuly wish you all being for the best!

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squirrel
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posted November 28, 2020 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for squirrel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hope that will be the case, we certainly need to reevaluate our relationship and to confront ourselves/eachother with that what bothers us.

thank you <3

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