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StarX
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posted December 08, 2020 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have been single most of my life (I'm nearly 40). By that I mean most of my relationships have been short-term (3-5 months, with only a couple lasting about a year each). I have always wanted to find a life partner and start a family, but I feel this dream slipping away. It seems ever more impossible and, even though I've been on dates with thousands of men, I only very rarely meet someone where there is a mutual connection (maybe three times in my entire life).

I did a three-card (past, present, future) tarot reading, asking what is required for me to find my life partner/husband:

5 of Wands
10 of Swords
The World

I pulled three clarifying cards for, how do I achieve The World in terms of finding my life partner/husband?

The Emperor
4 of Wands
The Magician

I have been feeling for a while now as though I need to leave my current region - I'm not meeting people I'm compatible with here (and haven't really found or made deep friendships either). I've been here just over 8 years. But I don't have a clear direction on where I would move. Do you think the cards are showing me it's time to literally move on and start afresh somewhere new? How would you interpret the clarifying cards? They seem related to business more so than love.

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StarX
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posted December 09, 2020 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump...

This is what I pulled from various sources that resonated with me, but I'd love to hear others' interpretations, especially on the clarifying cards for how I get to The World. I like the way The World sounds as a future outcome, but wish I actually believed I could manifest this or knew how!


5 of Wands (Past)

"It can appear at times when you’re too busy watching what other people are doing instead of getting to work in building your own empire. If this sounds like you, use your jealousy as a compass, which highlights the things you want and go from there."

"In the past position, the Five of Wands means that you are dwelling on an argument or a falling out that happened long ago. While you didn’t realize it at the time, this incident greatly shaped the direction your life has taken. In order to grow and progress as a person, you must let go of this past conflict and forgive."

"This is likely a time for you to straighten out your own problems in your life or emotionally so that you don’t drag them into your next relationship. You want to be able to enter your next relationship with open arms and an open heart."

"...In the past position...it can mean that you have suffered strife, power struggles, contests, and competition. Look at the picture of two people stretched away from each other - it can indicate a struggle for success."

10 of Swords (Present)

"There are better things (and people) out there for you, you should go out and find them."

"...You are just going through a cycle of having to survive through desolation... Now you must figure out how to get out of this mess so that you can start anew."

"Let go of the fears that have led you to this negative thinking, the ones that helped to create your conscious choice that things would not work out."

"You need to take time to get to know yourself and find that inner love once again. If you do, you can finally attract the person that you are meant to be with once and for all."

"This Card can often suggest that you have come to the end of the road with your situation and like ‘the straw that broke the camel’s back’ you may no longer be able to cope.  There is a possibility that all you have worried so intensely about has now come to be.  It may no longer be in your head anymore but an actual reality you are being asked, or forced to face. It may be too much for you to take in, or deal with."

"It is very hard to see a way out of this and extra distress is heaped upon your existing burden, because even with the best will in the world, you are unable to do anything at all, which stresses you even further."

"It speaks of now having an opportunity to sort yourself out. Recovery depends on your letting go of and saying good-bye to the way you have been living and coping with things. Change is needed on every level for you, as what you have been doing up until now has not been working. You have been struggling to hold onto a way of life that has been systematically killing you. You must also let others in to help, you need to be open about your problems or issues and communicate your feelings. People cannot help if you keep them in the dark and try to cope alone."

"Life is changing for you and it is best to let go and trust that is all for the best. It indicates the death of a situation prior to the beginning of another...It is time to move on. Acceptance to the death and the changes it will bring is key here. Your thoughts about life have brought you to this place and new beliefs can take you out of it."

The World (Future)

"Often, The World comes up when a significant life’s ambition has been acted upon. Your thoughts have become things, and they have taken shape in real life. Your dream has been achieved, and you can now start to make new ones. The World card often makes an appearance after marriage or after a business goes from startup to sustainable. You must now get comfortable in your new life and begin making new goals."

"It is possible that you will start a new life in another country."

"While the path to the end is complicated and often torturous, you can be reassured that one day, you will stand on top of the World. You can end one journey and start a new one."

"The World means that your partner (or future partner) will provide you with all that you desire, such as more commitment. Their feelings are loving, and their motives are pure."

"In the future, you will find your meaning and purpose in life. You will end one difficult journey and begin a new life."

"Until now, you’ve been living without a clear goal or direction. Defining success can often be a difficult process, but with a clear endpoint you will be able to find your way to success and happiness."

"It often comes before travel and total fulfillment. When this card appears in your Tarot reading it means that your highest goals are soon to be achieved and it’s time for you to flourish."

"Despite the difficulties and hardships you’ve encountered, you stood strong and persevered. The seeds you have planted are now blooming and you are reaping the fruit of your labor. Everything has come together, and you are in the right place, doing the right thing, achieving what you have envisioned."

"If you don’t recognize this point of completion yet, the World card indicates that it won’t take long until you’ll reach that point. It encourages you to keep on going and to enjoy the journey."

"If you want to meet your soulmate, the World card suggests the relationship might be one that is grown from a distance (at least at first.)"

"When the World is present it says that things are definitely looking up and that what you want is at your fingertips, you simply have to reach out and take what you want."

"It can symbolize a prosperous end to an aspect in your life and new beginnings coming forth soon."

"The World also is a good sign of fertility in general. For women looking to get pregnant, it shows that the timing is also right."

"In the future position, the World tells you the need to keep your dreams alive. This is the green light that you need to do all things necessary to make the dream into a reality. The World can signify the end of a long and oftentimes tough journey, but it also signifies things coming together to ensure your happiness, success, fulfillment, and absolute contentment."

"In relationships, it can suggest a partner met while traveling or a partner from another part of the world. The relationship suggested by The World Card is mature, balanced, dynamic and extremely successful.  The couple in this relationship are extremely compatible. This relationship is bound to be long-lasting and happy."

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EmpressMendez
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posted December 10, 2020 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Traveling

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vansio
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posted December 10, 2020 03:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you written your list yet? http://www.oprah.com/spirit/martha-beck-on-how-magic-lists-help-you-get-what-you-want/1

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StarX
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posted December 10, 2020 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought traveling, too. Too bad we’re still in a pandemic!

I have made that list before. I probably still have it somewhere. Some of those things are intangible, like chemistry. Other things are pretty standard, like someone who is honest, caring, and a good person. Others are more specific, like someone who is educated, adventurous, is a planner and goal oriented, is healthy and active, and wants children with their partner.

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MoonMystic
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posted December 11, 2020 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello StarX.
I'll try.
quote:

5 of Wands
10 of Swords
The World

I pulled three clarifying cards for, how do I achieve The World in terms of finding my life partner/husband?

The Emperor
4 of Wands
The Magician




5 of swords ~
this is a challenge you've often faced. Now as things feel imposing with time, travel restrictions, you're knocked into 10 of swords, currently. feeling Defeated. feeling exhausting thoughts that are leaving you desperate to find your happiness as it feels time is ticking. Which you noted. It reflects here.
The world ~
is what you desire. It will require traveling but all these blocks are too imposing. Leaving you in the sword tortured energy. All that you might have to do is look back. The card before the World is 'Judgement'.
Something needs finished go move fwd. Even as it looks impossible, the doors will open ~once you close one on something you have not finished or closed the door on.


your clarifying cards,
Emperor is someone or an organization you still may be tied to? Could be a strong Aries , even your own father?4 of wands comes after him, finish unfinished loose ends with the Emperor and you will feel free to celebrate .

Magician, you need to communicate with someone to finish anything and use strategic planning. Travel and mtg someone should now bring open doors.
(kb is messed up)

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StarX
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posted December 12, 2020 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi MoonMystic, :thanks for your insights! What you said is very interesting. Something in me keeps coming back to the consulting business/sole proprietorship I started a year and a half ago. My main client’s head boss (I could see him being the Emperor) requested a phone call with me a few months ago, after I’d been working with them about 10 months. He told me that he’s really impressed with my work and that they really need me, and asked me what role I would like to play, and mentioned he’s hiring a new position (wasn’t clear if he was interested in me for the role based on the conversation). I followed up with him a few days ago, after this reading and post, asking for a follow up call, because it’s a logical next step but hasn’t happened because everyone’s been so busy. My current contract with them ends early next year.

I still don’t know what if anything this has to do with finding my partner/husband though! I’m not sure I want to continue working with them or to go after the position he’s hiring. What I’m doing for them (and the position they’re hiring) is only 1/8 of who I am and what I do. I also applied for graduate school for next fall, but I don’t know that it will get me where I need to be either. School would involve a move somewhere else, but I’m hesitant given my goal to start a family and everything school entails. I feel pulled in different directions and don’t know how to make a decision. Doing neither is an option, too.

You’ve definitely given me something to mull over! I will be curious to see if any doors open after a conversation with my client’s head boss, assuming we can get something scheduled.

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Randall
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posted December 22, 2020 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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MoonMystic
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posted December 22, 2020 09:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello StarX,
Please keep us updated. If you need another perspective, I'm around. Enjoy your holidays - NYE is near too! Hope your up coming yr will be wonderful.

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StarX
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posted December 22, 2020 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey MoonMystic, happy holidays and new year to you as well!

A few updates since my last post...I did have a call with the boss guy and it seemed to go well. Around this same time, I met a couple of guys, but not in relation to work. I’m wondering if the cards could have been pointing simply to my meeting someone around the same time as this work interaction? Or perhaps there are other elements I’m as yet unaware of or that have yet to manifest.

One of the guys I’ve met recently is originally from Greece but lives in Canada. The other one just moved to my city three months ago (he’s from the U.S. but used to live in Finland). So perhaps this relates to the travel indicated by The World, that I would meet some worldly men who have lived in other countries and cultures.

I’m not sure if either will be “the one,” but this seems to fit somewhat with the spread.

Oh! Edited to add re: the Aries comment - the Greek guy has positive aspects to my Aries moon (close trine via Sag. moon and sextile via Gem. sun-venus) and the other has his Aries sun nearly in exact conjunction to my moon.

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posted January 01, 2021 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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eloquent.__.sky
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posted January 01, 2021 04:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for eloquent.__.sky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Star,

I did a divination for you because I don't have your birth info, and I based on that I think you should trust the natural rhythm of life, and that in the right time and place that guy will find you!

I understand that it can be annoying never before having experienced something which lasts, but in your case, I think he's coming to you, it's not like you should be looking for him! So definitely listen to your heart when you first meet someone.

I also think he's going to be a powerful man and a very unique and special person!

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StarX
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posted January 03, 2021 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi eloquent.__.sky, thank you for your divination! It's hard to not look and feel I'm doing all I can, but I have also been feeling a call to go much more internal the last week and stop striving as much externally. I have been pulling The Star a lot lately (and also the Knight of Cups) in relation to love questions, which seems to coincide with what you're saying. Happy new year!

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posted January 12, 2021 06:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 21, 2021 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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