posted March 18, 2021 08:46 AM            

I am going through depression, I have had a traumatic divorce and I am single since then it has been 3 years. All the men I had been involved or had an interest did not reciprocate and actually acted very cruel to me. I am desperate if that is the right English word for the matter. As I am writing this topic my face is covered in tears. I am so sad and lonely I would like a guidance or an insight on this area of my life. If anyone could kindly look at my birth chart and my transits to give me an advice I will be so grateful. I have had two readings from Vedic astrologers who had said I would definitely have a committed long lasting relationship but it seems to never happen. Please help.

Many thanks

posted March 24, 2021 01:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi dear Clementine, sorry for the big delay!
Oh no, don't cry please, remember that everything is temporary in this life!

I see that since your Saturn return the stars have been tough to you, especially emotionally, Chiron also travelled through your Sun and square your Moon last year, and transiting Saturn is now square to your Pluto and to your Jupiter/Venus midpoint... so there is a block in your life, you're stuck. But it is a block that seems requiring a more in-depth resolution. There is a need for change inside yourself.
Transiting South Node is travelling through your 7th house, so it seems you have this difficulties in relationship matter since some time, and transiting North Node is travelling your First house... again tr. North Node suggests that your own self-assertiveness, your individual life path, needs attention now more than relationship matters. There may be something you might have to gain power about yourself. Maybe it has to do with self-reliance because your Sun is square to Uranus/Saturn in your 7th house... you may need to detach from an idea of happyness linked to relationship at this moment in order to find such emotional independence, or just to regain positive energies. Your Saturn square to your Aries Sun, and Chiron in your first house, may have hindered your personality to shine, which is what you need to re-find, your Self-value and assertiveness.
Transiting Jupiter will be sextile to your Juno and then to your Jupiter in autumn, and then it will head towards your MC next year, so there will be more chances and a more positive cicle will start for you.
Your Venus is in the 12th house and sextile North Node, it is a bit hard for you to find the ideal relationship, but you're naturally inclined for partnership, maybe it takes time and effort cause you have Saturn in the 7th house, this usually points to difficulties and suggests one may find more stable relationship in older age, but I believe you have all the qualities so don't see too dark, you just need to put yourself out there again, feel how beautiful and attractive you are, enjoy yourself even in loneliness, and you'll find someone alike. ❤️

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Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this reading. I was having those dark moments when a voice within me said to check this thread again. It gives me more hope and direction, hopefully I will be able to find someone that will love me the same way I will love him. May God bless you and the other astrologer's in this forum for the great charitable readings you provide to people in need.

posted April 06, 2021 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Bump!

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Thank you so much @Stoika, my father just passed away after having a severe heart attack last night. He was only 57 years old. I am very sad and now we will most probably have issues with heritage as he has another woman. I was wondering whether you could give me some clarity about heritage and legal matters? I hope this will be a smooth situation because we do not have the mind and emotions to be dealing with any legal disputes at the moment.