posted April 28, 2021 07:36 PM            

I'm writing this because I have the big neccesity to ask for help. The things between my partner and me ended in a abrupt way and without a bye. I'm trying to get a read about how is he feeling about me and if it does what kind of feelings? how is he feeling right now?. I must say between us and that is the reason of our distance, he decided to come back with his ex because of his kids (they werent not together for a long time and I'm so clueless about all this). The only thing he said is that the most important thing for him are his kids and he can't stand what is happening with them, but we didnt really talk about our relationship. I'm feeling pretty down because we were friends for almost 11 years, I was there for him and I tought he was also for me. But the way he behaved was just so clueless to me, he treated like i was just someone random and I just can't understand why he acted that way, I'm just trying to understand what were his reasons.

I have asked a few times to tarot, and I don't know if I'm too involved with this that I just can't get a proper meaning of the cards I got, its been a total mess.

I hope someone can help me.

My question is:

¿What are his feelings/toughts about me?
¿Why did the act the way he did with me? - ¿What were his reasons to take that decision?

My Name is Alejandra and I'm a Leo, His name is Roland and He is Aquarius.

Thank you so much, If you want to let your questions here, I happy can read for you <3

posted April 30, 2021 02:44 PM            

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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
Hello,

I'm writing this because I have the big neccesity to ask for help. The things between my partner and me ended in a abrupt way and without a bye. I'm trying to get a read about how is he feeling about me and if it does what kind of feelings? how is he feeling right now?. I must say between us and that is the reason of our distance, he decided to come back with his ex because of his kids (they werent not together for a long time and I'm so clueless about all this). The only thing he said is that the most important thing for him are his kids and he can't stand what is happening with them, but we didnt really talk about our relationship. I'm feeling pretty down because we were friends for almost 11 years, I was there for him and I tought he was also for me. But the way he behaved was just so clueless to me, he treated like i was just someone random and I just can't understand why he acted that way, I'm just trying to understand what were his reasons.

I have asked a few times to tarot, and I don't know if I'm too involved with this that I just can't get a proper meaning of the cards I got, its been a total mess.

I hope someone can help me.

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I am not a tarot reader, and after a while someone will come along to fill in the blanks of your questions.

I've seen you in Horary, with addressing Child of Venus, so, I know you work with astrology too.

Looking at your chart--
4th House, 7th House.
Saturn, Uranus transiting in a 'square'.

Uranus traveling in your 7th House can bring instability to any existing relationships. If something "isn't right" even within a very long-term relationship, then a breakup is more likely to occur during that particular transit.

You came together 11 years ago. Year 2010, Uranus in late Pisces was finishing its transit through your 5th House (Romantic encounters) 'trine' your Pluto Scorpio H1. {Your natal Pluto Scorp connects to your Mars Gemini with a 'quincunx' {something not-possible to see 'directly' ~~ either coming or going}.

You also just had your Mars Gemini 25+ Return {Mars conjunct Mars} (H7) .. You said this happened 'suddenly'. Transiting Mars (to your Mars Gemini configuration 'yod') could have been the "trigger"?

Your South Node Taurus 19+ is in your H7 {= married/committed relationships, partnerships}. When you started this thread, there was a transiting stellium of planets on top of your South Node.
{With transiting Uranus applying to it.}

Transiting Pluto Capricorn (and eclipses) have been stimulating your H3 'Uranus' 23+ r Capricorn {making a quincunx to Mars, -- for the other leg of your yod to Mars Gemini}.
Transiting Pluto is breathing on your IC 28 Capricorn.. 'home'. H4

A pastor I admire said this to his congregation. In partnerships, no 'breakup' is "sudden". He said that the leaving-partner had planned this and "left" {in mind and imagination, and planning} long-before the body of their person leaves.

I hope you'll get the answers you need, to comfort you.

Since you know how to 'read' astrology,
look at what's going on in Roland's chart too.

posted May 01, 2021 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:

I am not a tarot reader, and after a while someone will come along to fill in the blanks of your questions.

I've seen you in Horary, with addressing Child of Venus, so, I know you work with astrology too.

Looking at your chart--
4th House, 7th House.
Saturn, Uranus transiting in a 'square'.

Uranus traveling in your 7th House can bring instability to any existing relationships. If something "isn't right" even within a very long-term relationship, then a breakup is more likely to occur during that particular transit.

You came together 11 years ago. Year 2010, Uranus in late Pisces was finishing its transit through your 5th House (Romantic encounters) 'trine' your Pluto Scorpio H1. {Your natal Pluto Scorp connects to your Mars Gemini with a 'quincunx' {something not-possible to see 'directly' ~~ either coming or going}.

You also just had your Mars Gemini 25+ Return {Mars conjunct Mars} (H7) .. You said this happened 'suddenly'. Transiting Mars (to your Mars Gemini configuration 'yod') could have been the "trigger"?

Your South Node Taurus 19+ is in your H7 {= married/committed relationships, partnerships}. When you started this thread, there was a transiting stellium of planets on top of your South Node.
{With transiting Uranus applying to it.}

Transiting Pluto Capricorn (and eclipses) have been stimulating your H3 'Uranus' 23+ r Capricorn {making a quincunx to Mars, -- for the other leg of your yod to Mars Gemini}.
Transiting Pluto is breathing on your IC 28 Capricorn.. 'home'. H4

A pastor I admire said this to his congregation. In partnerships, no 'breakup' is "sudden". He said that the leaving-partner had planned this and "left" {in mind and imagination, and planning} long-before the body of their person leaves.

I hope you'll get the answers you need, to comfort you.

Since you know how to 'read' astrology,
look at what's going on in Roland's chart too.

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Dear, you are such an angel, thank you so much for your time to answer. And yes, in fact you are right, Astrology is so beautiful that can show answers very easily. He is living his nodal return, and absolutely the day that all this happened was the day that the transit north node sits on his natal north node (1h cusp of the 2th) It’s says a lot about how we aren’t def the right people in this time of the path and probably in the future. Saturn is also on his MC, opposite to his IC so it’s clearly a lesson also relative to his family. Pluto on his Venus too and now it’s retrograde. I wonder what would happen when Saturn retrograde again and hit again his MC. Also he is a Taurus Ascendant, his Saturn and Mars in Scorpio conjunct his DC. Uranus will hit next year his AC making an apposition to DC, Saturn and Mars. Also Transit north node will hit his ASC. I don’t feel like this will come easy for him. What do you think of this?

posted May 02, 2021 12:25 PM            

I felt in for you. What I feel from this person is that they withdraw themselves and in that sense it really feels like they are “hiding” from you right now.

What I also felt was that there was a connection (emotional), but they intended it to be in a “fun, light hearted way”. And I feel that what they told you (like: I am starting a new chapter of my life) isn’t entirely the reason.

For the time that you were together I do feel they acted on ‘passion’ and attraction and less on the ‘friendship’ part.

Which I understand is what makes this difficult for you.

posted May 02, 2021 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Laura222:
Hi Alejandra

I felt in for you. What I feel from this person is that they withdraw themselves and in that sense it really feels like they are “hiding” from you right now.

What I also felt was that there was a connection (emotional), but they intended it to be in a “fun, light hearted way”. And I feel that what they told you (like: I am starting a new chapter of my life) isn’t entirely the reason.

For the time that you were together I do feel they acted on ‘passion’ and attraction and less on the ‘friendship’ part.

Which I understand is what makes this difficult for you.

I’m wishing you good luck with the processing and I do feel you’ll get an opportunity to speak your mind! 💙

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Hi Laura, thank you so much for replying back and taking your time dear.

1. So what you felt was more like a relationship just for fun and having a good time? (Im just trying to understand your message)

2. You don't think the reason was a new path in his life?

3. You are very right about the last thing and Im realizing about it. But we were always so clear that we were friends first and then a couple. but you are SO RIGHT. :/ its a pitty he probably didnt see it that way.

posted May 02, 2021 03:24 PM            

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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
Hi Laura, thank you so much for replying back and taking your time dear.

1. So what you felt was more like a relationship just for fun and having a good time? (Im just trying to understand your message)

2. You don't think the reason was a new path in his life?

3. You are very right about the last thing and Im realizing about it. But we were always so clear that we were friends first and then a couple. but you are SO RIGHT. :/ its a pitty he probably didnt see it that way.

Thank you so much Laura. and if you speak spanish, you can answer me in spanish if its easier for you haha

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Hi Alejandra

Yes. That’s correct.

I felt that in a sense he took the opportunity with you based on attraction.

And I feel he likes to make it sound that it’s ONLY about their new path and ‘sadly you now go in different directions’.

It’s not that they are not on a new path. However, I feel they’ve not been honest to you about their initial connection (when it got more ‘romantic’). And they took their chance.

Which isn’t as nice unfortunately

posted May 02, 2021 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Laura222:
Hi Alejandra

Yes. That’s correct.

I felt that in a sense he took the opportunity with you based on attraction.

And I feel he likes to make it sound that it’s ONLY about their new path and ‘sadly you now go in different directions’.

It’s not that they are not on a new path. However, I feel they’ve not been honest to you about their initial connection (when it got more ‘romantic’). And they took their chance.

Which isn’t as nice unfortunately

How long were you in a romantic connection?

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Oh, for a very long time, almost 4 years. You are probably right, he just wanted to play with me saying all this things he said, but he wasn’t honest at all. I think he said it all for the way he behaved. 😔

I was always very clear with him, I don’t know why he just wasn’t you know, it’s crazy how people can act sometimes. I guess I wasn’t important and friendship either. (Before romantic, we were good friends).

posted May 03, 2021 03:11 AM            

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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
Oh, for a very long time, almost 4 years. You are probably right, he just wanted to play with me saying all this things he said, but he wasn’t honest at all. I think he said it all for the way he behaved. 😔

I was always very clear with him, I don’t know why he just wasn’t you know, it’s crazy how people can act sometimes. I guess I wasn’t important and friendship either. (Before romantic, we were good friends).

Thank you for your time again dear! ❤️❤️

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Wow. That’s insane! 4 years and taking up like that

I would not make it about not being important. Because otherwise you do not spend time with someone for this long.

Being treated this way is of course not ok. Even if the person gets confused about who their heart belongs to. In the other thread you asked if there’s an opportunity for friendship.

I do feel that’s the case. However, I would not take “confusement around commitment and where the loyalty lies” as easy.

posted May 03, 2021 03:18 AM            

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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
Hello,

My question is:

¿What are his feelings/toughts about me?
¿Why did the act the way he did with me? -
What were his reasons to take that decision?
<3

Blessings for you all <3

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Because of the 4 years I pulled more on your specific questions. Generally there are really good apprehensive spreads on this to get full understanding,

You really had that third party coming in here. And instead of communicating that maybe it had not been like before (the light hearted part), I really feel he just went for a “new connection”. Instead of improving what you gave together.

And that also fuelled their decision here. Like instead with dealing with what’s present and make sure that’s cared for and healthy, they rather ‘start over’.

Again, I do feel it’s not over-over (in the sense of clearing the air/speaking your mind).

Really sorry this happened