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naiad
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posted November 02, 2006 08:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i created this thread for the purpose of re-directing Pidaua's voluminous personal issues from other threads, where they frequently overrun and decimate the original topic of the thread.

i hope that this will help maintain the integrity of legitimate threads.

the following are a few of the threads that have gone wildly off track because of personal issues that have nothing to do with the topic of the thread ~

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum16/HTML/002682-3.html

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum16/HTML/002657.html

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum16/HTML/002868.html

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum16/HTML/001960-2.html

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naiad
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posted November 02, 2006 08:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
pidaua
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From: Arizona - Moving to Germany to be with Bear the Leo
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posted November 02, 2006 07:05 PM
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once again.... your response is 100% expected. See you make assumptions based on my posting and working at the same time. You then take what I said to someone regarding my education and background (which was to prove a point that I was qualified to speak on a specific subject) and use that as a way to imply that I am full of myself. Once again, you make an assumption to which I clarify and then you state I am now bragging. Don't make the assumption if you can't take the clarification.
When I posted to you about my window office it was in a sarcastic manner. I have never used my education or position over someone, yet you and a few others here have to keep bringing it up- which means it must bother you to no end.


You have also made these references to my husband - that is something you can't sweep under the rug.

What is it with you? You can't admit your own subversive tactics, you use people's workplaces against them, you imply that people are better of than they are without even knowing (as evidenced by you stating Bear was in an air-conditioned office). Are you that angry at the world?

***edited to add

This has gone on long enough. Feel free to bury it all again with your Eugenics articles. I am bored with it.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum16/HTML/002682-3.html

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naiad
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posted November 02, 2006 08:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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See you make assumptions based on my posting and working at the same time.

i don't make assumptions about your posting at work. i reply to statements you yourself make frequently about being at work and posting.

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You then take what I said to someone regarding my education and background (which was to prove a point that I was qualified to speak on a specific subject) and use that as a way to imply that I am full of myself. Once again, you make an assumption to which I clarify and then you state I am now bragging. Don't make the assumption if you can't take the clarification.

i have not ever stated that you are full of yourself. i say that you post lengthy and detailed and repeated essays about your education and employment quite frequently -- and you do. you yourself state your pride about these things. i've never said that you are bragging.

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When I posted to you about my window office it was in a sarcastic manner. I have never used my education or position over someone, yet you and a few others here have to keep bringing it up- which means it must bother you to no end.

i do not keep bringing up your education and work, you do. as i have said repeatedly, i couldn't possibly care less about these things. i respond to statements you make about your work. how you always misconstrue this as someone bringing it up independently of you in such an erroneous way is truly bizarre.

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You have also made these references to my husband - that is something you can't sweep under the rug.

if you'd like to discuss these references, please repeat them more specifically than you have.

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What is it with you? You can't admit your own subversive tactics, you use people's workplaces against them, you imply that people are better of than they are without even knowing (as evidenced by you stating Bear was in an air-conditioned office).

as i've stated, i don't use people's workplaces against them. the statements i've made about your workplace are in response to your repeated discussion of your workplace.

oh and what an outcry that caused about my saying that bear sat in an air-conditioned room as he posted at length in LL. i didn't make any reference to his office being un-air-conditioned. he did. i did not assume he was posting while working -- he clarified that!! the post was in response to Isis stating that we were all sitting in air conditioned rooms posting while he was off fighting a war, or something to that effect. a war in germany? haha....my post was a tongue-in-cheek response to her. why saying he posts in an air-conditioned room (i may have said house) like the rest of us is such an insult, i can't imagine. he clarified by saying that his office isn't even air-conditioned. it's as laughable now as it was then....poor military man, complaining about the un-air-conditioned office where he sits posting in LL while on duty. and though i'm not sure, i would even venture to say that it is not as hot in germany as it is here in the middle of summer. please, pidaua, do you really still hold such an unabating grudge about this??? and if so, why?

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Are you that angry at the world?

i'm not at all angry at the world. i love it very much.

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This has gone on long enough. Feel free to bury it all again with your Eugenics articles. I am bored with it.

i most certainly will restore the thread to its original intent. i am so glad that you are finally bored with this! i was bored with it from the first insult and absurd accusations you spewed.

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and
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posted November 02, 2006 09:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this is what PID needs:

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"-Khalil Gibran

"The only people I would care to be with now are artists and people who have suffered: those who know what beauty is, and those who know what sorrow is: nobody else interests me."-- Oscar Wilde-- "De Profundis"

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DayDreamer
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posted November 02, 2006 09:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
tru dat

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Mirandee
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posted November 03, 2006 10:20 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the attempt, naiad but turning threads into personal attacks is apparently what Pidaua lives for.

It's the internet and some people use it to work out their personal problems. You can pretend to be anything you want to be on the internet. You can say things that you wouldn't say in your offline life. Some people find it a safe place to work out their personal baggage on others.

It does get people off the topic that she doesn't want discussed. It's a tactic employed by misinformation artists but in Pidaua's case I think she just gets her jollies out of going on the internet and being what amounts to a schoolyard bully. It is a way to take out her inner anger in a situation where the person she attacks can not knock her down unlike it would be offline.

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naiad
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posted November 03, 2006 10:33 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey Mirandee ~ it's my feeble attempt to keep a few of the threads free of these personal arguments as i think this subject matter is important and relevant.

i would like nothing better than to discontinue this redundant dialogue about personal issues resucitated from threads from long ago.

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lalalinda
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posted November 03, 2006 11:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this thread is a personal attack
it needs to be deleted

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naiad
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posted November 03, 2006 11:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
in what way is it a personal attack?

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naiad
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posted November 03, 2006 12:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i would like for some of the threads that i've mentioned to be free of the personal attacks and arguments that decimate their content. bringing the personal issues, that continue on ad infinitum in those threads, here, is an appropriate way to do that.

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Mirandee
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posted November 03, 2006 12:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Though I acknowledge your intention here on this thread and feel it is with good intention, in one sense, I have to agree with lalalinda. She makes a good point.

Starting a thread about a specific person can be taken as personal attack because of course those of us who have been the brunt of Pidaua's personal name calling and attacks will give our thoughts and opinions about her and the motives of her attacks.

Though personally, I have given my thoughts and opinions about her personal attacks directly to her on the threads. So what I have stated here has already been said to her and is nothing new.

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and
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posted November 03, 2006 12:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
in the past, randall did nothing to lock or delete personal attack threads, especially one concerning mine, so what a load of BS.

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"-Khalil Gibran

"The only people I would care to be with now are artists and people who have suffered: those who know what beauty is, and those who know what sorrow is: nobody else interests me."-- Oscar Wilde-- "De Profundis"

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naiad
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posted November 03, 2006 12:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Starting a thread about a specific person can be taken as personal attack because of course those of us who have been the brunt of Pidaua's personal name calling and attacks will give our thoughts and opinions about her and the motives of her attacks. --mirandee


that's understandable. it would be perfectly fine with me if the thread were re-named something neutral such as

'the personal issues thread'

it would continue to be a place to bring personal issues, rather than clogging and destroying legitimate threads with endless personal arguments.

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lotusheartone
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posted November 03, 2006 12:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can't let it go, huh?

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naiad
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posted November 03, 2006 12:33 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
if you'll notice, i repsonded to the accusations and questions in one post above. and that was the end. i don't wish to continue the personal arguments in the threads with legitimate topics, or at all. if they are continued though, i think that it's more appropriate to respond to them here, rather than destroy the original thread.

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lotusheartone
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posted November 03, 2006 12:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you cannot control human nature..you must nurture it..LOve LOve LOve..

this is not LOve or understanding..
it's vindictive hate..think about
that Naiad. ...

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naiad
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posted November 03, 2006 12:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
if that's how you see it lotus, i'm glad you feel free to express your opinion here.

my intention is to divert the personal arguments that have no relevance whatsoever to the topic of legitimate threads to a location where we can discuss them more fully, and leave intact the original subject of the threads in question.

how you construe this as hate or vindictiveness i don't see.

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lotusheartone
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posted November 03, 2006 12:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess..nothing will make you see what you've said and done..and admit..that what you did was wrong..whatever!

I'm done. ...

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naiad
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posted November 03, 2006 12:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you lotus.

you're right -- i do not see how diverting personal issues away from legitimate threads in order to discuss them with greater attention is wrong.

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lotusheartone
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posted November 03, 2006 12:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
twisting and turning..to avoid the things you said to degrade Pidaua..to make yourSelf look better is ridiculous..now I am really done...
you are no better than Pidaua..and guilty of the same things you accuse her of...

That is the Truth. ...

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Rainbow~
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posted November 03, 2006 12:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lotus offers.....

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Can't let it go, huh?

....and I ask her

Why should that concerrn you, lotus?

If you consider yourself some kind of mediator, your remark was NOT the most tactful thing to contribute to this thread....

If however, if you just wanted to throw in your two cents (which is par for the course), it only adds to the
chaos which I'm sure you already know....

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naiad
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posted November 03, 2006 12:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i do not wish to avoid anything i said. i have rather created a place where we can do so with greater fcous. should you wish to discuss those things i would be happy to do so. i also believe that i am not better than Pidaua. i have stated that to you before. if however you wish to continue repeating it, i will continue to reply to you about it.

and again, i agree that the Truth is a very fine thing indeed.

if you wish to discontinue this discussion, i applaud you.

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Isis
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posted November 03, 2006 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This thread is just sad.

You're sad Naiad.

And anyone who thinks this thread is an ok way to communicate frustration with Pid is sad.

IMNSHO

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naiad
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posted November 03, 2006 02:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi Isis ~

i only wish to divert the pages and pages of personal argument from legitimate topics to a place where we can discuss them and not obliterate the original intention of the thread.

i am not sad about that.

in one of the threads i mentioned here, i posted in reply to a post, one post about eugenics. that seemed to disturb pidaua very much and she suggested that i start a separate thread for the purpose of discussing eugenics. i did exactly that.

how is starting a separate thread to discuss the personal issues and arguments that dominate a number of threads, with not one post, but multiple pages sometimes, and destroy their original subject matter, any different?

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naiad
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posted November 03, 2006 02:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
double

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