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Topic: U.S. must stop exporting weapons of family destruction
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venusdeindia unregistered
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posted January 28, 2009 09:43 AM
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U.S. must stop exporting weapons of family destruction By Uma Challa web posted January 29, 2007
Pearl S. Buck once wrote, "The lack of emotional security of our American young people is due…to their isolation from the larger family unit…no mere father and mother…are enough to provide emotional security for a child. He needs to feel himself one in a world of kinfolk, persons of variety in age and temperament, and yet allied to himself by an indissoluble bond..."
The much envied Indian family structure is, in fact, based on mutual tolerance and coexistence of persons belonging to different generations, and provides safety and security to individuals at all stages of life. The larger family also acts as a buffer to mitigate everyday stress and helps minimize conflicts between inexperienced married couples. This stable and time-tested cultural institution has suffered the most serious assaults due to the export of family-breaking ideologies originating in the Western world. Understanding and tolerance to build harmonious marital relationships, are now being projected as a form of slavery. --------- Well, it IS oppressive to expect women to love and be loved dont ya know , we are victims of too much family bonding -------- To make things worse, senseless U.S. anti- family laws, which have literally destroyed trust between American men and women, are now being thrust on India, without any heed to cultural relevance, social consensus, or the presence of a suitable law enforcement system for their proper implementation. -----------
Thats a mild way to put it girl, the U.S.has 2 classes , male and shemale, 50 % of the men have refused to make themselves bait to getting raped in family court in a no-fault divorce ,having sworn off marriage altogether.Its so bad, many men are dropping off the social radar,preferring to be sex-tourists it they want casual sex - they dont want to end up being one of the 50 % who end up in jail on false rape charges.
and the femninists who said SEX was a patriarchial means to oppressing women are now seething at the fact that 25 % of sex tourists are american men - who dont even want to use them for fornication let alone make a home with them 25 % of american marriages involve an american man and a foreign born woman, and another 20 % is between an american man and a woman of another race. these two statistics are enough to prove what the liberal Nutsiedaisies have achieved - an alienation between the genders much more stronger than between the classes.
------------- The heavily critiqued Domestic Violence Act is the Indian clone of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) which assumes that victims of domestic violence are always women. Further, it assumes that women are always honest, and, hence, requiring proof of their claims is unnecessary. The accused man, however, is presumed guilty until proven innocent. In an overzealous attempt to cover all forms of real or perceived violence against women, feminist organizations have drafted this ludicrous piece of legislation, which provides enormous scope for its misuse by unscrupulous wives/girlfriends (current or former) against men and their kin. Victims of female aggression (men, women or children) are offered no legal protection whatsoever. ---------- Hey dont you know women are ALWAYS victims , even when they mincemeat their own young ?
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venusdeindia unregistered
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posted January 28, 2009 09:44 AM
quote: Most importantly, the implementation of such laws depends on a law enforcement system replete with corrupt officials who, for their own monetary gains, embolden women to take undue advantage of the credibility granted to them by Indian law. The misuse of draconian anti-dowry laws, like Section 498A of Indian Penal Code, is so widespread that the Supreme Court of India termed the practice as "Legal Terrorism". It has been established that 98% of cases claiming any form of harassment under the anti-dowry laws are false, and are mainly filed by wives who seek to threaten, extort money from, and wreak revenge on husbands and their relatives, in case of marital discord. The Domestic Violence Act also lent itself to misuse immediately after its introduction in October 2006.The export of destructive feminist ideologies and anti-family laws has broken many Indian homes, depriving children of a healthy childhood. A report by the World Health Organization cited misuse of anti-dowry laws as a major factor contributing to the increasing abuse of the elderly in India. News reports also revealed that many falsely charged, poor and illiterate women are languishing in prison every year until they are bailed out or released. Many individuals have ended their lives unable to endure the humiliation of being arrested and the trauma of fighting false cases, which typically span 5-7 years. There is also an increasing number of unhappy women who, misled by false notions of liberation and empowerment, shunned the simple joys of family life that no women's organization can restore. -----------------
Best one yet...the pillpopping,chronically depressed,liberal nutsiedaisies are the last ones who will aloow any human to be oppressed by HAPPINESS that comes from family, you dumb,oppressed woman.
Hell, they are the ONES who singlehandedly transformed the U.S. from the land of dreams to the land of broken families and fatherless sociopathic men and women born out of wedlock ( to put it politely ) And they CLAIM they are the ONES who want what is BEST for us - never mind it might make us depressed.. well, depression is better than oppression right ---------------------------------
The Universal Declaration of Human Rights states, "the family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society, and is entitled to protection by society and the State." It also states, "men and women,…, are entitled to equal rights as to marriage, during marriage and at its dissolution." It declares that "all are equal before the law, and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law." Most importantly, it proclaims that "everyone charged with a penal offence has the right to be presumed innocent until proved guilty according to law." Amnesty International should recognize that all the above mentioned rights of thousands of innocent Indian men and women are being violated everyday under the guise of women-protection laws. Amnesty International should first examine the social and cultural implications of every legislation (domestic and international) that affects the family unit in any country, and ensure the presence of a reliable and efficient law enforcement machinery to implement the laws. Ignoring these crucial concerns and pushing for more laws like International-VAWA will only destroy many more lives and families. ----------
duh, families are OPPRESSIVE dont you know, a woman who is fatherless and loveless, fcuking every badboy across states and creating 70 % of society's criminals single handedly - is what a happy,liberated woman maketh...
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Uma Challa is an activist who fights against gender-biased laws which are harming the Indian family system. She can be reached at uma@498a.org.
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venusdeindia unregistered
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posted January 28, 2009 09:46 AM
Hysterically ironic aint it, after calling marriage oppressive and declaring its destruction as its main Goal in the 60 's AND succeeding , liberal feminism or what i call b1tchism is lending a helping hand to us oppressed third world weaklings ...By letting us lie through our teeth and use marriage as a money making venture like it is in the U.S...because we DESERVE as women to have the same rights that women in the West have.
Never mind that only 2 % of our domestic violence and Dowry statistics are TRUE ...whats a little collateral damage if it means a woman gets her way...
the U.S. IS the moral authority after all, so if liberal feminists say Family and men are oppressive - we oppressed women better know that our free-Will is a DUMB@SS and let our children grow into fatherless sociopaths driving us down the same hellpath the U.S. is headed.
Now THAT would be equality...wouldnt it ? 98 % of OUR oppressed women statistics are LIES..
50 % of rapes in the U.S. are lies and i havent even looked into DV and the like...woah...
Great Party the Pillpopping nutsiedaisies are throwing us - it WOULD be EQUALITY if WE too would be as depressed as them aint it
Talk about levelling the field so those worse off dont feel outta place.
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Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 28, 2009 06:30 PM
quote: By letting us lie through our teeth and use marriage as a money making venture like it is in the U.S...
Why do you use the plural and include yourself?? You have no sisters here IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 6024 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 28, 2009 07:24 PM
venus, i am trying to have a discussion with you on this - your other thread about how the well off women here in the us are staying married kind of contradicts this doesn't it? is the US forcing indian women and govt to behave this way? it is only since obama came in that we have again begun to recognize that countries who encourage birth control are deserving of aid AS WELL AS THOSE WHO DON:T now why we should give aid when we are trillions in the hole in the first place i don't know. it is not our job to tell you how to live in india, nor to give handouts when you (or yr govt)ask for them. nor is it your job to tell us how to live. you are a guest here and obviously you are upset - maybe it is the suffering you see in your clinic - but you are grasping at straws now. your thread about the rich women who are NOT raising one-parent children is in direct contradiction to the others that say it is the rich ones who are perpetrating this on the working classes. the fact is the working (and outofwork) lower classes in every country have the highest number of single parent families, the highest number of jail residents and the highest number of messed-up people period. it is not the women's libbers but the hoarders (as in mannu's thread about swiss banks) who are grinding poor people down; not the laws that stand up for women but the people who abuse those laws. and the laws were put in place because too many women were being abused in the name of loyalty to their families. please tell me what YOU (not some talking head) think about this? IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 982 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 28, 2009 07:31 PM
katatonic ~ quote: it is not the women's libbers but the hoarders (as in mannu's thread about swiss banks) who are grinding poor people down; not the laws that stand up for women but the people who abuse those laws.
This is how I feel in a nutshell -- thank you for clarifying it and describing it so succinctly quote: is the US forcing indian women and govt to behave this way?
Good note of just one of the many contradictions expressed by this poster: quote: Everyone has a choice . Every choice has a result thats either right or Wrong.
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sunshine_lion unregistered
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posted January 28, 2009 08:02 PM
prove it venus. back up your rediculas statement that 2 percent of those reported is true. call to clarification puhlease.
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3480 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted January 28, 2009 10:14 PM
Until you find a voice of your own, Venus, and not one that you're enamored with, I'm not buying this.IP: Logged |
Lavlee Newflake Posts: 2 From: Yes Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 29, 2009 12:19 AM
don't know why i still bother reading her bs posts. I will be kind to not say much anymore on this topic. I don't need to write an essay to prove some false point, v. I know the truth everyday, and its not the tone or direction of your posts.
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