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Topic: A Fairy Tale with a Virgo?
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LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 01, 2005 10:49 PM
*edited a lot! I'm happier with it now.*A Fairy Tale with a Virgo? You’re a CONSTANT mystery I can always rely on you for stability But comfort is of no use to me Without romance and spirituality When the world outside gets cold I want to take shelter in your fortress Retreat with you to your soul I want to make love on the hearth Of your heart's burning flames Feeling the brilliant warmth envelop me Not in the confines, of your Sometimes cold mechanical mind Don't leave me shivering on your doorstep I can't take it anymore Let me settle in or just slam the door!
A Leo cannot comprehend this solitude It simply cannot be Whoever said "absence makes the heart grow fonder" Must not have been Fiery! Because your absence of heart Has left me sad, weary and confused Playing hard to get won't win me If only you were playing baby! Then YOU would lose! Sure, I get occasional invitations To your cozy mountaintop hideaway That once seemed so near For just a taste of the reason I’m still here Before I’m subtly asked to leave Like a guest who lingers long after tea Well let me tell you, You can’t just take my journey And make it into yours I have hopes and dreams And they don’t involve routines Your happy this way THIS way everyday at the same time Where's the spontaneity?
Listen my Virgo Baby Cancer moon You’re lucky to fill your position Next to my thrown I’m a Queen, that makes you King No, baby your a King in your own right But this Queen is not pleased All I ask is that when it rains, we sing When there’s music, we dance When there are stars, we romance Tell me is that too much?? Don't say yes, I'll be crushed!! All I’m asking is that you Keep this Lioness smitten Like a purring, rollicking kitten And in return well the rewards are priceless! If you took the time, You would discover treasures that Only wise men can see Once hidden in plain sight A woman in her purest expression Encompasses a love thats so divine Come on baby strip yourself of your Modesty and make sweet love With ME! *edited* I think for the better I just wrote this one. I want to start writing beause it really does feel good. Its nice to have you all to share it with ~I just realized I sound a bit arrogant, but I was mad. Me and my Virgo are going through a hard time right now and writing this just helped me clear my mind. I don't really think I'm a queen IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 02, 2005 02:05 AM
Can you read it again? I think its much better now IP: Logged |
Lauren Leigh Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Village by the Sea Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 02, 2005 02:23 AM
Oh how I understand this situation! Nice work LeoSweetHeart, good portraits of the general Leo and Virgo personalities. IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 02, 2005 02:37 AM
Thank you Lauren Thats always nice to hear. So you feel my pain? This is what I'm going through right now. I think I could capture the personalities because me and him together are the essence of the Leo and Virgo relationship. Before he was a believer of astrology, I read him our Relationship Signs summary and I swear you should've seen the shock on this poor Virgo's face. Like "it can't be true?!" IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 1218 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 02, 2005 08:04 AM
You captured this relationship so well, it's scary, but in a good way... I totally hear where you are coming from ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
Lauren Leigh Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Village by the Sea Registered: Dec 2004
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posted March 02, 2005 01:54 PM
LeoSweetHeart - Indeed I do and I'm waiting for it to go away! I hope you'll be feeling better soon, things like this can be difficult to get over. Opened his eyes a bit to astrology did you? Hehe. I can just imagine the look when you read that to him, a little something this maybe? lol! IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 02, 2005 04:32 PM
Thanks Virgo- Aries Artist Its good to know I'm not alone. Are you on the fiery side of it because of Aries or the Virgo side? Maybe you can help shed some light Lauren ugh its the worst isn't it?! I really love him, I just want more of him. I can't let go because when its good, its really good. Yep I converted a Virgo!! Yaya! yes thats exactly the expression I was referring to IP: Logged |
SunChild Moderator Posts: 843 From: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia! Registered: Jan 2004
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posted March 02, 2005 09:18 PM
Can totally relate! 26 taurus, NosiS, I did mention it was the planets giving us leo's the desire to consume our men! (do they have to be virgo?) LSH- Thanks for confirming it's not just me. Well done.Loves it ------------------ "And dreams, don't ever forget, are the first step in manifesting wishes into reality"-- Linda Goodman's Star Signs IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 1218 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 02, 2005 09:22 PM
LeoSweetHeart: well, to be exact, I have equal parts Earth (3 planets in Virgo) and Fire (2 planets in Leo and Aries rising), so I'd be glad to help wherever I can. In essence, I'm a walking contradiction, grounded passion and pride.Ok, throw me some Q's and I'll get to work answering them if I can... ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
SunChild Moderator Posts: 843 From: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia! Registered: Jan 2004
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posted March 02, 2005 09:24 PM
Amen! quote: All I’m asking is that you Keep this Lioness smitten Like a purring, rollicking kitten And in return well the rewards are priceless! If you took the time, You would discover treasures that Only wise men can see Once hidden in plain sight A woman in her purest expression Encompasses a love thats so divine Come on baby strip yourself of your Modesty and make sweet love With ME!
------------------ "And dreams, don't ever forget, are the first step in manifesting wishes into reality"-- Linda Goodman's Star Signs IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 03, 2005 12:17 AM
Ahhhhh I just wrote a long post to SunChild and Virgo-Aries Artist, but it was erased because I exceeded the smiley limit I can't help it if I like the smileys.IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 03, 2005 12:36 AM
Well it was something like this...Sun Child, thanks, your such a sweetheart Again you made my day. And ..yea I was wondering if you and your Virgo ever felt this frustration. It does sound amazing between you two, but then I guess we can have that too. Is this a Leo Virgo curse? No, theres free will right!? Virgo-Aries Artist, now that name really does suit you. So you are a walking contradiction, aren't ya. But do you realize the awesome powers of relating to both sides of my story, you have insight in the fire and earth hearts. That pretty neat. Haha but I can see where you might have a few arguments with yourself.... fire: "Aww I love how open and romantic he's being. He's so sweet to make me this dinner with candle light and soft love music. But all I need is the music of his voice" earth: "what are you kidding me?! Is this casanova out of his mind? As nice as it is to eat a nice home cooked meal, I can't stay up all night listening to his dreams, doesn't he know I need my eight hours sleep!" that is what I picture. j/k the question I had asked was...do you think my virgo could possibly want the same things deep down, but is just too stuck in his head to feel it? But then I said that still wouldn't help me. I just want a solution to this difference between us. Should I just bury these inner desires? He does offer me so much. Oh I don't know Btw I have a Taurus moon, so I'm sometimes tugged in different directions too, but on a much smaller scale than you. I am a Leo at heart. And Leo never fails to win the arguments because well she's louder. IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 03, 2005 12:37 AM
*edited* oopsies I double postedNotice how I was afraid to use smileys in that last one LOL. It went from like 12 to 4. I wasn't having another long post erased. IP: Logged |
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 699 From: ohio Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 05, 2005 12:33 AM
Hi, LeoSH.I was struck by this: quote: the question I had asked was...do you think my virgo could possibly want the same things deep down, but is just too stuck in his head to feel it? But then I said that still wouldn't help me. I just want a solution to this difference between us. Should I just bury these inner desires? He does offer me so much. Oh I don't know
I think I may know what you're talking about. I've noticed all these fire girls with these Virgo guys in this forum lately, so I don't know if I already told you I'm a sag and my bf's a virgo. Okay, intros out of the way But do you mean that you feel more passionate and you wonder if deep down he feels these things too, and if so, would it matter if he only feels them deep down? I'm wondering if this is your question because it's the same question I've been asking since the beginning of my relationship. I don't know how long you've been together. It's been a little less than a year for us and things are really starting to pay off! I could talk to you more about this, but I guess I may be totally off track in the first place... Anyway... I liked your poem very much! Keep in touch! IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 1218 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 05, 2005 08:47 AM
quote: the question I had asked was...do you think my virgo could possibly want the same things deep down, but is just too stuck in his head to feel it?
Yes, In my opinion, Virgos, the typical ones at least, think way too much...If you really wanna get to him (and believe me, if Virgos let you hang around them, they already like you as a human being), attack his senses...hehe. I mean, in a good way, like offering a really nice massage when he's really stressed-out. If he responds like I would, afterward he'd want to do something back for you, so request the same courtesy back, a massage. Virgo senses are extra sensitive, so with all that physical contact, it might break through that barrier of analysis, and just let him live in the moment. We appreciate things that have pleasant scents too, so if you just happened to be wearing some intoxicating natural essantial oil/perfume, he's likely to be further intrigued. I can't begin to tell you how the "right" smell tickles my fancy in away that nothing else can... Good luck, and keep us posted!
------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 05, 2005 02:11 PM
Hi Future Uncertain Your guess is right on! Thats exactly what I meant Me and my Virgo have been together for a year and a half, but lately I've been feeling worse about this problem then I normally do. I think I may be growing bored because his indifference. I am so passionate at times and when he can't match that, its sooooo frustrating!!!! Well its really good to know I'm really not alone and theres hope. I definitely want to hear more from you about your situation. Its nice to be understood. Virgo- Aries Artist hmm so thats the secret huh. In that case, I might need to brush up on my messaging skills and take out the oils with maybe some Enigma in the background For his last birthday, I actually got him a message and he did look like he was floating on a cloud when it was over. I can't wait to try this *rubbing my hands together*... muahahaha, this Virgo isn't going to know what hit him!haha Thanks for the advice hun, wish me luck.
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Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 1218 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 05, 2005 04:04 PM
Hehe,...me thinks he's gonna be one happy Virgo boy when it's over...::giggles wickedly::You learn fast, dear Leo lady... ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 699 From: ohio Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 08, 2005 12:32 AM
Hello, LSH. I didn't mean to leave you hanging. I hadn't had time to give your post as much thought as I want to. But, yeah... I'm feeling ya! It can be very frustrating sometimes. I don't know your guy's other placements, but mine has his moon in aries, so it give him a little bit of a passionate nature... sometimes. Unfortunately, this usually translates into passion for WORK! But not always. I am finding that the longer we're together, the more he comes to trust me, and the more he trusts me, the more he's been opening up. If you're like me, then your passions probably thrive on passion... kind of like the more you get, the more you want. I think fire girls crave that kind of heat when earthy guys tend to burn themselves out much more quickly. We're kind of like "Throw me a log! Gotta keep this fire burning!" and they're kind of like "Oooo, a fire. That was nice. Back to business." I think one of the hardest things about these guys, and a possible source of the attraction, is that when we do get them involved, it can be exquisite! And then, before you know it, they've had their fix and we're still hanging. It's knowing that we can get them caught up in our passions that makes us keep trying. I don't know... something about seeing these cool, collected men lost in emotion can be so intoxicating. Even more so than getting the same reaction from someone who is more likely to give into their heart more frequently. Know what I mean? Virgo men do have a certain mystery about them. Almost like they want to be found out, but you have to find the way and they aren't handing out how-to manuals. I've confronted my guy with this and he admitted to it. That's not to say that all Virgo men are created equally, but, you never know... Here's a perfect example. My boyfriend sometimes spends the night with me and sometimes I am thinking that I would like to spend some "alone" time with him, but he has certain shows that he has to watch. So last night I let him watch TV and I sulked off to bed alone. This morning I woke up and I was kind of ticked about the night before because...well... I think we could have spent the time more productively! So I told him this and he said, "Why didn't you say something?" And I told him that I know how much he loves his show and figured if he had something else in mind he wouldn't have wasted the night with my television. I said, "What was I supposed to do, say 'Turn off the TV and get naked and come to bed!'" And he said, "That's what I was waiting for!" You get my point. Mr. Initiative, he's not. I think he's always afraid of making the wrong move. You know how Virgos like to be perfect! I know this has gotten long, but I will say one more thing. I've talked to him a lot about my needs (like the passion thing and the enthusiasm thing) and he always listens, but doesn't really respond. But what I've found is that he takes the things I say and just starts doing them without saying so, which I don't always notice because, being a Sag, I'm not great with subtlety. But another thing about Virgo is that they like to know what you expect of them and then they like to do it. So maybe that could help you out a little bit! Whew! I may have given you more than you asked for, but I wanted to share my experiences with you in case they help you any. Let me know if any of this is true for you too! IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 18, 2005 02:16 AM
I'm sooo sorry Future Uncertain I haven't had internet access in a while, I would've gotten back to you a long time ago. Right now I'm at my boyfriends house using his internet, but I can't stay on long..so as soon as he fixes my comp, I will write you a thoughtful response (that should be soon) Sorry again. IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 18, 2005 02:16 AM
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future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 699 From: ohio Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 18, 2005 05:00 PM
Glad to hear from you, LSH! Take your time. I'll be looking forward to your reply!IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 351 From: California, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted March 24, 2005 11:06 PM
Future Uncertain I'm back!!! I finally got my internet working, or my boyfriend and the nice guy from Time Warner did, I'm technilogically challenged Anyways sorry about the incredibly late reply.Ohmigosh you are so right about the effect those earthy guys have on us when they reveal their vulnerable passionate sides!! They really do keep us wanting more and more. Its like a special treat when we get it because its so unpredictable. Actually some of the guys in my past who were really affectionate and all over me made me feel smothered after a while and I started taking them for granted. (not in every case though) With this Virgo, I don't think I could ever take him for granted, because I never feel full of his attention. But sometimes I feel so starved and lonely I just wish I could have a little more of him. The problem is I saw what he was capable of giving me in the beginning of our relationship, so I still have those expectations of him. For me, the passion and romance never has to die, but to him its totally normal to get used to each other. I hate that. I can totally to the night when you went to bed feeling neglected. Sometimes I want to stay up for a little while in bed and talk and cuddle and he just falls asleep withing minutes leaving me pouting silently on the edge of the bed. I'm glad that you and your man are feeling closer to each other and you seem to learning to balance your differences. I honestly don't know if me and my guy are going to be so lucky. As much as he keeps me wanting more of him and occasionally shows me his irresistable passionate side, I don't know if I would be more happy with someone who was more loving. I don't know if he's ever afraid to take initiative. I don't really get that impression from him. I wish that was the case because then it wouldn't bother me so much. Oh yea my guy is definitely addicted to his work too. He has a pretty succesful website for aviation and he's always working on it. He can't get enough of it, but he can get his fix of me so quickly. Sorry I'm being negetive, but right now we're not doing so good and I don't know if its worth all the effort anymore. I do love him, but we are sooooo different. I'll be feeling better later so I should probably talk about this when I'm thinking more clearly. But its really nice to talk to someone who understands where I'm coming from. Thanks sweety Monica Righ IP: Logged |
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 699 From: ohio Registered: Aug 2004
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posted March 24, 2005 11:57 PM
I'm in the same boat you are. We actually just broke up tonight. I'm not sure yet if it is for good... we're taking a time out to think things over. I don't really feel sad-- yet. I'm sure I'll be devastated when I wake up tomorrow and the first thing I'll think about is him, and then I'll remember. I just try to have faith that, for better or worse, things will end up exactly as they should. For now, we've laid everything on the line and we had a good talk about the things we need and how it's not really in our current nature to provide those things for one another. I'll keep you posted. I hope things work out for the two of you! take care IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 456 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted March 25, 2005 05:54 AM
Leosweetheart, loved your poem, really hit a nerve with me - I understand what you are expressing. Ive lived with Mr Virgo for 16 years, I very very passionate (Aries rising and loads of Scorp), and he has me at screaming pitch. I think often about meeting someone who could match my passion and I think in a very perverse way that is why I stay, aren't they just so bloody mysterious and challenging. Then he goes and clicks with a female (don't get me wrong completely faithful with me and loyal), but what do they have in common - CARS, yeah bloody cars, and no disrespect she is a bit of a wet blanket. He says of late, he cant stand my intensity and emotion - so what are we to do? I think SOME Virgo males can be very cold and logical and I wouldn't be lying if I said after all this time of being with mine, I do not know him - hope this helps honey - would love to talk further to you Sue xxxIP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 1218 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 25, 2005 10:27 AM
If you feel like he's "gotten used to you"...you need to listen to these songs by Christina Aguilera called "Underappreciated" and "Impossible"...go download them somewhere, I promise, you'll feel better She's a Sag, and knows where you fire sign women are coming from....IP: Logged | |