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LeoSweetHeart
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posted March 01, 2005 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
*edited a lot! I'm happier with it now.*

A Fairy Tale with a Virgo?


You’re a CONSTANT mystery
I can always rely on you for stability
But comfort is of no use to me
Without romance and spirituality
When the world outside gets cold
I want to take shelter in your fortress
Retreat with you to your soul
I want to make love on the hearth
Of your heart's burning flames
Feeling the brilliant warmth envelop me
Not in the confines, of your
Sometimes cold mechanical mind
Don't leave me shivering on your doorstep
I can't take it anymore
Let me settle in or just slam the door!

A Leo cannot comprehend this solitude
It simply cannot be
Whoever said "absence makes
the heart grow fonder"
Must not have been Fiery!
Because your absence of heart
Has left me sad, weary and confused
Playing hard to get won't win me
If only you were playing baby!
Then YOU would lose!

Sure, I get occasional invitations
To your cozy mountaintop hideaway
That once seemed so near
For just a taste of the reason I’m still here
Before I’m subtly asked to leave
Like a guest who lingers long after tea


Well let me tell you,
You can’t just take my journey
And make it into yours
I have hopes and dreams
And they don’t involve routines
Your happy this way
THIS way everyday at the same time
Where's the spontaneity?

Listen my Virgo Baby Cancer moon
You’re lucky to fill your position
Next to my thrown
I’m a Queen, that makes you King
No, baby your a King in your own right
But this Queen is not pleased
All I ask is that when it rains, we sing
When there’s music, we dance
When there are stars, we romance

Tell me is that too much??
Don't say yes, I'll be crushed!!

All I’m asking is that you
Keep this Lioness smitten
Like a purring, rollicking kitten
And in return well the rewards are priceless!
If you took the time,
You would discover treasures that
Only wise men can see
Once hidden in plain sight
A woman in her purest expression
Encompasses a love thats so divine
Come on baby strip yourself of your
Modesty
and make sweet love
With ME!

*edited* I think for the better
I just wrote this one. I want to start writing beause it really does feel good. Its nice to have you all to share it with

~I just realized I sound a bit arrogant, but I was mad. Me and my Virgo are going through a hard time right now and writing this just helped me clear my mind. I don't really think I'm a queen

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LeoSweetHeart
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posted March 02, 2005 02:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
Can you read it again? I think its much better now

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Lauren Leigh
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posted March 02, 2005 02:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lauren Leigh     Edit/Delete Message
Oh how I understand this situation!

Nice work LeoSweetHeart, good portraits of the general Leo and Virgo personalities.

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LeoSweetHeart
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posted March 02, 2005 02:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you Lauren Thats always nice to hear. So you feel my pain? This is what I'm going through right now.

I think I could capture the personalities because me and him together are the essence of the Leo and Virgo relationship. Before he was a believer of astrology, I read him our Relationship Signs summary and I swear you should've seen the shock on this poor Virgo's face. Like "it can't be true?!"

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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted March 02, 2005 08:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
You captured this relationship so well, it's scary, but in a good way...
I totally hear where you are coming from

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We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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Lauren Leigh
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posted March 02, 2005 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lauren Leigh     Edit/Delete Message
LeoSweetHeart - Indeed I do and I'm waiting for it to go away! I hope you'll be feeling better soon, things like this can be difficult to get over.

Opened his eyes a bit to astrology did you? Hehe. I can just imagine the look when you read that to him, a little something this maybe? lol!

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LeoSweetHeart
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posted March 02, 2005 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Virgo- Aries Artist Its good to know I'm not alone. Are you on the fiery side of it because of Aries or the Virgo side? Maybe you can help shed some light

Lauren ugh its the worst isn't it?! I really love him, I just want more of him. I can't let go because when its good, its really good. Yep I converted a Virgo!! Yaya! yes thats exactly the expression I was referring to

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SunChild
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posted March 02, 2005 09:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunChild     Edit/Delete Message
Can totally relate!
26 taurus, NosiS,
I did mention it was the planets giving us leo's the desire to consume our men! (do they have to be virgo?)
LSH- Thanks for confirming it's not just me.
Well done.

Loves it

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posted March 02, 2005 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
LeoSweetHeart: well, to be exact, I have equal parts Earth (3 planets in Virgo) and Fire (2 planets in Leo and Aries rising), so I'd be glad to help wherever I can. In essence, I'm a walking contradiction, grounded passion and pride.

Ok, throw me some Q's and I'll get to work answering them if I can...

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"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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SunChild
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posted March 02, 2005 09:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunChild     Edit/Delete Message
Amen!

quote:
All I’m asking is that you
Keep this Lioness smitten
Like a purring, rollicking kitten
And in return well the rewards are priceless!
If you took the time,
You would discover treasures that
Only wise men can see
Once hidden in plain sight
A woman in her purest expression
Encompasses a love thats so divine
Come on baby strip yourself of your
Modesty
and make sweet love
With ME!


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"And dreams, don't ever forget, are the first step in manifesting wishes into reality"-- Linda Goodman's Star Signs

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LeoSweetHeart
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posted March 03, 2005 12:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
Ahhhhh I just wrote a long post to SunChild and Virgo-Aries Artist, but it was erased because I exceeded the smiley limit
I can't help it if I like the smileys.

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LeoSweetHeart
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posted March 03, 2005 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
Well it was something like this...

Sun Child, thanks, your such a sweetheart Again you made my day. And ..yea I was wondering if you and your Virgo ever felt this frustration. It does sound amazing between you two, but then I guess we can have that too. Is this a Leo Virgo curse? No, theres free will right!?

Virgo-Aries Artist, now that name really does suit you. So you are a walking contradiction, aren't ya. But do you realize the awesome powers of relating to both sides of my story, you have insight in the fire and earth hearts. That pretty neat. Haha but I can see where you might have a few arguments with yourself.... fire: "Aww I love how open and romantic he's being. He's so sweet to make me this dinner with candle light and soft love music. But all I need is the music of his voice" earth: "what are you kidding me?! Is this casanova out of his mind? As nice as it is to eat a nice home cooked meal, I can't stay up all night listening to his dreams, doesn't he know I need my eight hours sleep!" that is what I picture. j/k

the question I had asked was...do you think my virgo could possibly want the same things deep down, but is just too stuck in his head to feel it?

But then I said that still wouldn't help me. I just want a solution to this difference between us. Should I just bury these inner desires? He does offer me so much. Oh I don't know

Btw I have a Taurus moon, so I'm sometimes tugged in different directions too, but on a much smaller scale than you. I am a Leo at heart. And Leo never fails to win the arguments because well she's louder.

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LeoSweetHeart
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posted March 03, 2005 12:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
*edited* oopsies I double posted

Notice how I was afraid to use smileys in that last one LOL. It went from like 12 to 4. I wasn't having another long post erased.

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future_uncertain
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posted March 05, 2005 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, LeoSH.

I was struck by this:

quote:
the question I had asked was...do you think my virgo could possibly want the same things deep down, but is just too stuck in his head to feel it?

But then I said that still wouldn't help me. I just want a solution to this difference between us. Should I just bury these inner desires? He does offer me so much. Oh I don't know


I think I may know what you're talking about. I've noticed all these fire girls with these Virgo guys in this forum lately, so I don't know if I already told you I'm a sag and my bf's a virgo. Okay, intros out of the way But do you mean that you feel more passionate and you wonder if deep down he feels these things too, and if so, would it matter if he only feels them deep down? I'm wondering if this is your question because it's the same question I've been asking since the beginning of my relationship. I don't know how long you've been together. It's been a little less than a year for us and things are really starting to pay off! I could talk to you more about this, but I guess I may be totally off track in the first place...

Anyway... I liked your poem very much! Keep in touch!

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posted March 05, 2005 08:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
the question I had asked was...do you think my virgo could possibly want the same things deep down, but is just too stuck in his head to feel it?

Yes, In my opinion, Virgos, the typical ones at least, think way too much...If you really wanna get to him (and believe me, if Virgos let you hang around them, they already like you as a human being), attack his senses...hehe. I mean, in a good way, like offering a really nice massage when he's really stressed-out. If he responds like I would, afterward he'd want to do something back for you, so request the same courtesy back, a massage. Virgo senses are extra sensitive, so with all that physical contact, it might break through that barrier of analysis, and just let him live in the moment. We appreciate things that have pleasant scents too, so if you just happened to be wearing some intoxicating natural essantial oil/perfume, he's likely to be further intrigued. I can't begin to tell you how the "right" smell tickles my fancy in away that nothing else can...
Good luck, and keep us posted!

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As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted March 05, 2005 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Future Uncertain

Your guess is right on! Thats exactly what I meant Me and my Virgo have been together for a year and a half, but lately I've been feeling worse about this problem then I normally do. I think I may be growing bored because his indifference. I am so passionate at times and when he can't match that, its sooooo frustrating!!!! Well its really good to know I'm really not alone and theres hope. I definitely want to hear more from you about your situation. Its nice to be understood.

Virgo- Aries Artist

hmm so thats the secret huh. In that case, I might need to brush up on my messaging skills and take out the oils with maybe some Enigma in the background For his last birthday, I actually got him a message and he did look like he was floating on a cloud when it was over. I can't wait to try this *rubbing my hands together*... muahahaha, this Virgo isn't going to know what hit him!haha Thanks for the advice hun, wish me luck.


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posted March 05, 2005 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
Hehe,...me thinks he's gonna be one happy Virgo boy when it's over...::giggles wickedly::

You learn fast, dear Leo lady...

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"Most people love with restraint
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We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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future_uncertain
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posted March 08, 2005 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Hello, LSH. I didn't mean to leave you hanging. I hadn't had time to give your post as much thought as I want to. But, yeah... I'm feeling ya! It can be very frustrating sometimes. I don't know your guy's other placements, but mine has his moon in aries, so it give him a little bit of a passionate nature... sometimes. Unfortunately, this usually translates into passion for WORK! But not always.

I am finding that the longer we're together, the more he comes to trust me, and the more he trusts me, the more he's been opening up. If you're like me, then your passions probably thrive on passion... kind of like the more you get, the more you want. I think fire girls crave that kind of heat when earthy guys tend to burn themselves out much more quickly. We're kind of like "Throw me a log! Gotta keep this fire burning!" and they're kind of like "Oooo, a fire. That was nice. Back to business."

I think one of the hardest things about these guys, and a possible source of the attraction, is that when we do get them involved, it can be exquisite! And then, before you know it, they've had their fix and we're still hanging. It's knowing that we can get them caught up in our passions that makes us keep trying.

I don't know... something about seeing these cool, collected men lost in emotion can be so intoxicating. Even more so than getting the same reaction from someone who is more likely to give into their heart more frequently. Know what I mean?

Virgo men do have a certain mystery about them. Almost like they want to be found out, but you have to find the way and they aren't handing out how-to manuals. I've confronted my guy with this and he admitted to it. That's not to say that all Virgo men are created equally, but, you never know...

Here's a perfect example. My boyfriend sometimes spends the night with me and sometimes I am thinking that I would like to spend some "alone" time with him, but he has certain shows that he has to watch. So last night I let him watch TV and I sulked off to bed alone. This morning I woke up and I was kind of ticked about the night before because...well... I think we could have spent the time more productively! So I told him this and he said, "Why didn't you say something?" And I told him that I know how much he loves his show and figured if he had something else in mind he wouldn't have wasted the night with my television. I said, "What was I supposed to do, say 'Turn off the TV and get naked and come to bed!'" And he said, "That's what I was waiting for!"

You get my point. Mr. Initiative, he's not. I think he's always afraid of making the wrong move. You know how Virgos like to be perfect!

I know this has gotten long, but I will say one more thing. I've talked to him a lot about my needs (like the passion thing and the enthusiasm thing) and he always listens, but doesn't really respond. But what I've found is that he takes the things I say and just starts doing them without saying so, which I don't always notice because, being a Sag, I'm not great with subtlety. But another thing about Virgo is that they like to know what you expect of them and then they like to do it. So maybe that could help you out a little bit!

Whew! I may have given you more than you asked for, but I wanted to share my experiences with you in case they help you any. Let me know if any of this is true for you too!

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posted March 18, 2005 02:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
I'm sooo sorry Future Uncertain I haven't had internet access in a while, I would've gotten back to you a long time ago. Right now I'm at my boyfriends house using his internet, but I can't stay on long..so as soon as he fixes my comp, I will write you a thoughtful response (that should be soon) Sorry again.

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posted March 18, 2005 02:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
oopsies double post*

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future_uncertain
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posted March 18, 2005 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Glad to hear from you, LSH! Take your time. I'll be looking forward to your reply!

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LeoSweetHeart
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posted March 24, 2005 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
Future Uncertain I'm back!!! I finally got my internet working, or my boyfriend and the nice guy from Time Warner did, I'm technilogically challenged Anyways sorry about the incredibly late reply.

Ohmigosh you are so right about the effect those earthy guys have on us when they reveal their vulnerable passionate sides!! They really do keep us wanting more and more. Its like a special treat when we get it because its so unpredictable.

Actually some of the guys in my past who were really affectionate and all over me made me feel smothered after a while and I started taking them for granted. (not in every case though) With this Virgo, I don't think I could ever take him for granted, because I never feel full of his attention.

But sometimes I feel so starved and lonely I just wish I could have a little more of him. The problem is I saw what he was capable of giving me in the beginning of our relationship, so I still have those expectations of him. For me, the passion and romance never has to die, but to him its totally normal to get used to each other. I hate that. I can totally to the night when you went to bed feeling neglected. Sometimes I want to stay up for a little while in bed and talk and cuddle and he just falls asleep withing minutes leaving me pouting silently on the edge of the bed.

I'm glad that you and your man are feeling closer to each other and you seem to learning to balance your differences. I honestly don't know if me and my guy are going to be so lucky. As much as he keeps me wanting more of him and occasionally shows me his irresistable passionate side, I don't know if I would be more happy with someone who was more loving.

I don't know if he's ever afraid to take initiative. I don't really get that impression from him. I wish that was the case because then it wouldn't bother me so much.

Oh yea my guy is definitely addicted to his work too. He has a pretty succesful website for aviation and he's always working on it. He can't get enough of it, but he can get his fix of me so quickly. Sorry I'm being negetive, but right now we're not doing so good and I don't know if its worth all the effort anymore. I do love him, but we are sooooo different. I'll be feeling better later so I should probably talk about this when I'm thinking more clearly. But its really nice to talk to someone who understands where I'm coming from. Thanks sweety

Monica

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posted March 24, 2005 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
I'm in the same boat you are. We actually just broke up tonight. I'm not sure yet if it is for good... we're taking a time out to think things over. I don't really feel sad-- yet. I'm sure I'll be devastated when I wake up tomorrow and the first thing I'll think about is him, and then I'll remember. I just try to have faith that, for better or worse, things will end up exactly as they should. For now, we've laid everything on the line and we had a good talk about the things we need and how it's not really in our current nature to provide those things for one another. I'll keep you posted. I hope things work out for the two of you!

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posted March 25, 2005 05:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Leosweetheart, loved your poem, really hit a nerve with me - I understand what you are expressing. Ive lived with Mr Virgo for 16 years, I very very passionate (Aries rising and loads of Scorp), and he has me at screaming pitch. I think often about meeting someone who could match my passion and I think in a very perverse way that is why I stay, aren't they just so bloody mysterious and challenging. Then he goes and clicks with a female (don't get me wrong completely faithful with me and loyal), but what do they have in common - CARS, yeah bloody cars, and no disrespect she is a bit of a wet blanket. He says of late, he cant stand my intensity and emotion - so what are we to do? I think SOME Virgo males can be very cold and logical and I wouldn't be lying if I said after all this time of being with mine, I do not know him - hope this helps honey - would love to talk further to you Sue xxx

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posted March 25, 2005 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
If you feel like he's "gotten used to you"...you need to listen to these songs by Christina Aguilera called "Underappreciated" and "Impossible"...go download them somewhere, I promise, you'll feel better
She's a Sag, and knows where you fire sign women are coming from....

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