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dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:48 PM
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posted January 29, 2008 07:48 PM
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posted January 29, 2008 07:49 PM
BIZARRE DREAMS - Dec. 25, 2003So this is Christmas Day huh? I’m not impressed. Seems like all the other bleak & miserable days I’ve spent on this planet. Another day waiting for some word form a potential employer, another day wondering how I’m going to get by. Well, at least someone called to wish me a merry Xmas. That was nice at least. All in all I guess it’s not too bad. I’m not sick with the flu, I’m not dying from some horrible disease, I still have all my limbs & appendages. I guess I’m just lonely. I haven’t really eaten today. I mean I had some of the left over Chinese fast food from yesterday & I’ve been munching on my favorite food in the whole world, Cheez-Its (yum). Been drinking tea too. Certainly nothing special. No holiday feast by any means. I could probably go for a nice fat festive meal, but since this is all I’ve got, it’ll have to do. I don’t really have anything to say. Nothing new has happened. Maybe I’ll just go back to bed for a while. I’ve been sleeping A LOT. Been having bizarre dreams too. Yesterday I woke up after a little a nap, I had been having a pretty cool dream. It played out like the opening of a movie. It was a young girl, maybe about 17 or 18. She was climbing a mountain of ash & snow alone. Beyond the mountain there was a large menacing dilapidated castle. She was wearing these long tattered robes, underneath that was a belt with some pouches & hooks. Scattered all around her & slightly buried were all of these weapons. Broken swords, knives, bladed weapons, broken hand guns & shotgun, rifles. She was picking up whatever sharp useful things she could find. She would stop of examine any possibly useful gun. Making sure it was whole & unjammed. She was on her way to fight something. Some kind of great evil. That’s all I really remember. It was kinda cool none the less. Anyway… that’s enough of my ramble. IP: Logged |
dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:49 PM
A LITTLE GRIM - Dec. 26, 2003Definitely starting to look a little grim. I checked my bank account today. I have a nice balance of $144.00. After that, that’s it, that’s all she wrote. No more money coming in. I guess I’ll put up my toy collection on eBay tonight. That might nab me about $1000 I think, if I’m lucky, which I haven’t been lately. I’m out of cigarettes… I think I have about $5 in my pocket. I hope so. I’ve never tried quitting smoking before. I can’t imagine that’ll be a pleasant experience. One of the roomies left the front door wide open today. >rolls his eyes< Like any of us have cash to warm up the outside with our pathetic little gas wall furnace. It barely heats up the hallway it’s in. I didn’t see Chanel online last night. Kinda bummed about that. I think she was busy hanging with her brother. I should call her & see what’s up. Been chatting with a few very cute, very young (18-23) women online. That always makes me happy. I am such a flirt. lol… I’d rather talk to Chanel in all honesty. She’s my age & we have much more in common. I know my priorities are whacked. I spend too much time chasing chicks instead of finding work. I have been looking at the latest employment listings on craigslist & monster, I’m just not seeing anything that I’m qualified for. I should probably do what most people do & just bull**** myself into a job & then figure it out while I’m there. Not really my style though. I’m too ******* honest. Okay, well… I guess I’ll take a shower & shave or something. Go get smokes, come home, make my beef flavored ramen dinner. IP: Logged |
dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:49 PM
BOREDOM (AGAIN) - Dec. 27, 2003Oh the severe boredom of it all. I’m trying to figure out why I even bothered getting out of bed today. I need to do something. I want to go somewhere. That’s not going to happen though, I’m broke. I was hunting the job listings online again. I sent my resume out to a few of them. I posted it somewhere else as well. I still haven’t seen Chanel around. I did call her today & left a voice mail. Hmmmmm… starting to wonder about her. She’s probably not interested. She’s just being nice to me or something. I can never quite tell. Maybe I’ll just go back to bed. Stupid ******* holidays… IP: Logged |
dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:50 PM
FAILURE - Dec. 28, 2003So much for Chanel. I have failed yet again. I am once again the cause of my own misery. I would be lying if I were to say I was not hurt but this experience, but with each hurt I gain a little something. What that “something” is I do not yet know. How many times in a row does this have to happen? I can remember a time in my life where I did all the dumping. lol… Maybe it’s pay back. What has changed in me? What have I become? Reminds me of one of my favorite songs. I smashed myself to pieces I am gonna **** myself up I'm sifting through the ashes Oh what I have become I gave myself away now I'm nothing I let it slip away now I'm nothing All that I can do is break myself in two I ****** it all away now I'm nothing Wave wave wave wave goodbye Wave wave wave wave goodbye I look to others in the hopes of finding something inside of myself. Something I cannot find. Alone I must go, I journey into the darkness. What I will find there I do not know. I am frightened of what I may find. Who is the person I will become? Will I be strong enough to make the journey? I certainly have a perilous journey ahead of me. I have no job, no car, no family, few friends, no money & a long way to go. I have to ask myself if it’s worth the trouble. Maybe I should give up, finally kill myself. I’ve been talking about it for so ******* long. Maybe I can redeem myself by finally doing what I had always said I was going to do. Perhaps I am blind & do not see the beauty that is in the world. All I can see is **** , piles of it for miles & miles. I look behind me & see a steady unending steam of failures, one after another. It leads right up to my heels. Can I change it? Or will I just fail again? I am so filling with grief. I feel so utterly alone. I can understand why my father didn’t want to be there. He must have seen in me something so pathetic & worthless, it wasn’t even worth his time. IP: Logged |
dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:50 PM
EXIT STAGE LEFT - Dec. 29, 2003I guess it’s time to post something new… I’ve been getting complaints from my fans telling me that they’re tired of reading the old entries. Whatever makes the fans happy… So anyway, nothing new has happened. Not really anyway. I’m still unemployed, still broke, still single, still on my way to being destitute. I have decided to sell everything I have of value & move someplace else. I’m totally sick of California. There’s nothing holding me here anymore. The stupid material possessions I have mean nothing to me anymore. They are just meaningless reminders of a past childhood, long since gone. They are also weighting me down & keeping me here. I just want to get away. Away from the bitter memories of my past failures. I’m not going to find a job here. I’m certainly not meeting any women here either. So **** it… IP: Logged |
dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:50 PM
SO THIS IS THE NEW YEAR? - Jan. 1, 2004I think it’s time to post another boring journal. Let’s see… what has happened since the last time. Umm… oh yeah, NOTHING. I’ve been spending a lot of time chatting on www.spookyhotties.com (kinda like a gothic Hot or Not). I’ve have a picture posted up there & unbelievably I actually made the Top 10 Spooky Boys list. Maybe I’m not so hideous after all, but I guess it depends on what ya like. I’ve met loads of really cool people. A lot of really cute girls too, to bad they’re scattered all over the country & in the UK. Oh well, doesn’t matter anyway. I need to get my ass in gear & start selling **** . I need cash & I need to lighten the load considerably if I wanna move out of this **** hole. The job hunt is still unsuccessful. I did my telephone interview with the EDD, now they need to talk to my former employer & get their story on the deal. If I’m lucky, which hasn’t been the case lately, I’ll get my unemployment benefits. It’s not going to completely save my ass, but it’ll sure help. My cash situation is getting really scary. I haven’t paid any bills for December & of course rent is due. Last night for New Years I got a 2 liter of Coke & polished off my bottle of rum. I was hanging with Captain Morgan on the good ship Spiced Rum from about 9pm til 7am. Got a little drunk, not too bad though. Luckily I didn’t get a hang over or get sick. (unlike one of my friends, Jennifer, lol… repeat >BAAAAAAAARRRFFFF< 3 or 4 times, then pass out on keyboard). IP: Logged |
dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:50 PM
SOMETHING NEW - Jan. 5, 2004Okay… so maybe this time I actually have something slightly interesting to say. I’ve met a nice woman in TX that’s going to help me. I think I may actually be moving out there. She says she has a job lined up for me. Nothing too special, a retail management position in a small business that she’s part owner of. A video game & toy store from her description. I can do that **** with my eyes closed. More than anything though, I just want to be someplace else. I’ve lived in CA all of my life & desperately want a change. There’s nothing keeping me here anymore. I don’t feel that I am growing as a person. I feel stagnant & stale. Too much of the same **** all the ******* time. I never thought I’d ever end up in TX… that’s gonna be a little strange. I know the heat is gonna ******* kill me. I wilt when it gets over 80°, guess I’ll spend most of my time hanging next to the AC unit (nothing new there). Of course I’ll miss my local friends, but I guess there’s always the phone & internet. I certainly don’t hang with too many people in person anymore. It’s all about the lack of wheels thing. I’m stranded. I better get my license back for I head to TX, I would imagine that getting around in the biggest State in the US to be troublesome on public transit to say the least. I finally took a look at my over due bills for last month. Eeeeegh… **** me in the goat ass. The ******* telephone bill is over $400. How the **** did that happen? I never use the god damn thing. It seems there several calls to the UK back in late Oct & early Nov. It wasn’t me, now I have to deal with disputing it with the phone company. I tried to deal with it on Friday, but I was on hold for so long & I was already tired I just said “**** it”. So I tried calling again on Saturday, same old **** on hold for hours, finally got through… they tell me to call back during “normal” business hours on Monday. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr. I did however strip the phone of all the service I never use. The only reason I even have a land line anymore is for the DSL. Speaking of DSL, if I don’t pay the bill by Tuesday ..>click<.. gets turned off. Gotta take care of that pretty ******* fast. The roomies have their rent & bill money on time, but strangely I don’t. Hmmmmm, must be the fact I can’t find a job. I did however finally put my toy collection up on eBay. http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=3168112554 (buy me buy me) So anyways... I guess I’ll wrap this up by saying. I have a mad crush on Miss_E. >bites lip IP: Logged |
dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:51 PM
TX HERE I COME - Jan. 7, 2004It seems this Dallas, TX thing is moving full steam ahead. They are flying me out there for the interview & stuff starting on the 11th, then I come back on the 14th. They said they need me to start out there on the 24th. Which doesn’t leave me much time. I have so many bills here that I need to take care of. I don’t want to leave my roomies hanging. I still have that dilapidated ’84 Chrysler Laser sitting in the driveway, it was my mom’s car, but it hasn’t been moved in years. I guess I can try to donate it or something. Hopefully my eBay auction will nab me some fat cash. I think I’ll put up a few more things on eBay today. I still have a few toys here that I can sell off & some more miscellaneous video game memorabilia. I can take the pictures with out too much hassle, it’s just writing the description that’s a pain in my ass. I think I finally got my sleeping pattern back to something resembling normalcy. I woke up at 7am to day. I need to make some phone calls regarding the bills & go out & do laundry at some point today. I need to call an old friend of my mom’s & ask them to take my ferret, Cuervo. I’m really sad about that. He’s my little friend & has been for so long. I worry about him. He’s so very old for a ferret, about 9 or 10 years. Poor little guy. He’s lost most of his fur. My stinky little bald guy. He is such a sweet ferret though, always gives kisses, never ever bites. It’s probably better for him though. I want him to be taken care of & since I don’t know what’s in store for me yet I don’t want any doubt that he’ll be okay. I wish I could say I wasn’t scared of the change that will be sweeping me away. I am, but it’s something I’ve been needing for a long time. IP: Logged |
dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:51 PM
*SMACK* - Jan. 10, 2004Once again… just when I thought things were looking up *SMACK* psych… I have not heard from the future employer, I have not received a plane ticket to fly to Texas to interview for that job (I was supposed to leave tomorrow), I have completely run out of money, I am out of cigarettes, I am completely out of food, my eBay auctions have not been bid on & I think my ferret is dying. I’m not even sure what to say after that. I guess whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger right? IP: Logged |
dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:51 PM
FINAL COMMUNICATION - May 11, 2004 Contains difficult images. Watch at your own risk.
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dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 29, 2008 07:52 PM
LAST UPDATE - May 20, 2004Sadly enough Gene (this was his real name) has passed away. He passed on May 11th, 2004. He took his life by jumping from the Golden Gate Bridge at aprox 1pm. This is not a joke, believe me I am/was a friend of his and have confirmed this with the County Morgue. In loving Memory of Gene...you will be missed. - anonymous See more at: http://freekboyg.livejournal.com/3475.html http://www.mobygames.com/developer/sheet/view/by_score/developerId,12790/ http://imdb.com/title/tt0369711/fullcredits http://www.viopac.com/~kiadm/bissues.html IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 6418 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted January 29, 2008 08:55 PM
Daf, This is synastry.
I saw the documentary they made about all the Golden Gate Bridge suicides, where Gene was one of the people they profiled. Were you one of the people they talked to? If so, I have seen you. But, listen to this... I totally loved Gene when i saw that. I F*ucking loved and understood him. I even looked up his natal chart, cause they gave his birthday. I remember that he was a Sagittarius. I could relate to him so much. Was this your friend? I cried, and my heart was with him, as he contemplated the act, as he climbed to a ritual posture, and fell backwards, trustingly, into the divine abyss. I understood his fire. I understood his despair. Well, to some extent, in part, and in some way, I understood it deeply. And the dramatic flourish with which he "ended" it, feeling so alone, thinking nobody was looking, that nobody cared, - but all the while he was being filmed, and now so many people see and care for him. It was romantic. It was anything but romantic. It was a symbol of mysteries. I'm so sorry for your loss, my friend.
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dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 30, 2008 07:29 AM
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Heart--Shaped Cross Knowflake Posts: 6418 From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA Registered: Aug 2004
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posted January 30, 2008 09:55 AM
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MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 3203 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted January 30, 2008 10:03 AM
I smile at people all of the time. You'd be surprised how many people see it as a sign of weakness from a gullible lap-dog. If they can't sense my vibe they wonder if I'm insincere. Hmm, that's straight out of Linda Goodman on Libra. "...wonder if s/he could possibly be sincere... yes, Libra is oh so sincere." I've got sun, venus and uranus in Libra.And if you aren't smiling all of the time how can you help that one person who needs it? You can't always tell.
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dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted January 31, 2008 11:03 PM
Linda Goodman Fans Unite at the Original Linda Goodman Fan Site!IP: Logged |
goatgirl Knowflake Posts: 911 From: Anywhere Registered: Jul 2002
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posted February 01, 2008 12:47 AM
Oh this breaks my heart. Even with all the things that had happened to us in the last few months, we had each other, and other people who cared for us and our wellbeing. Gene ------------------ The truth is ... everything counts. Everything. Everything we do and everything we say. Everything helps or hurts; everything adds to or takes away from someone else. ~ Countee Cullen We are weaving character every day, and the way to weave the best character is to be kind and to be useful. Think right, act right; it is what we think and do that makes us who we are. ~ Elbert Hubbard IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 3203 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted February 01, 2008 02:16 AM
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dafremen Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted February 03, 2008 08:25 PM
The entire movie is available for free here:The Bridge Definitely worth the 95 minutes. daf IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Knowflake Posts: 3203 From: Registered: Dec 2005
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posted February 04, 2008 12:09 AM
Thank you, daf, I will watch it sometime for sure IP: Logged | |