posted May 27, 2008 08:22 AM         

I hope things work out for you.

posted May 27, 2008 09:19 AM         

Thank you for your kind words, charmainec.

I am beginning to feel a little more calm now I've vented.

I'm sure things will work out.

Being alone is an illusion as we are ALLone, as someone just pointed out to me.

It just helps to have that reassurance sometimes.

posted May 27, 2008 01:39 PM         

Hey maybe it will end up being the best thing for you! Youve been wanting to get out and meet new people, right? Maybe the new place you move to will be in a more populated area and you'll make some new friends and not feel so isolated.

posted May 27, 2008 02:04 PM         

I tend to panic at first when things like this happen.

It really does help to vent, so I'm thanking you guys.

My friend from Pennsylvania (not Transylvania ) is going to arrive here in an hour, she has come to stay with me for 2 weeks, then go off to stay with her other friends here for a little while. So I will at least have some company during this time.

I just need to try and stay strong through all of this.

Our world is changing!

posted May 27, 2008 07:39 PM         

it´s when we least expect that the Angels come to rescue us isnt it?

posted May 27, 2008 07:52 PM         

sorry to hear you are going through this temporary hurdle - which is what it is - ive been homeless before and found myself jobless at the same time and i was living in this disgusting makeshift studio (well thats what the landlord liked to call it) with no cooker, washing machine opposite the bed, no outside space and the local rubbish deposit spot smell coming in my window so i couldnt open the window in summer - was awful - but still someone elses paradise! looking back those awful experiences made me who i am now (without wanting to sound patronising) but i didnt have children so it must be slightly more concerning for you - but try not to worry too much - you're in england and have a support network you can use while you get back onto your feet - if you like you can email me and i will let you know about some assistance you can get while you're getting over this minor hitch - my email is nita777@hotmail.co.uk - also i am sure the landlord cant evict you even if youre behind with your rent until you sort yourself out - so what if he has to wait a while longer - hes gonna have to wait until you sort yourself out - i work in property so if you have any questions pls email me and i'll see if i can help

it is so easy to forget and slip into negative mode when problems arise - i remember what napoleon hill said about the mind - it automatically slips by default into negative mode for example like when you have a garden you have to plant the flowers but not the weeds - same with our minds we have to make a conscious effort to stay positive cos the negatives are already there! - i know you know this but its just a reminder cos when sh*t happens its easy to let our brains work overtime and in the wrong direction!

u already know fear is our worst enemy so try not to have dark imaginings - mine all came out to be over the top and waste of energy in hindsight - i used to be bent double in tears on the floor of my flat - i laugh about it now but i know how horrible it can be - but at the same time i think fear can be used positively to tell us to take serious action!

i feel lonely sometimes when im with people more than when im alone! - sometimes i feel even more lonely then - and then when i remember what i am connected to it dissipates...

"Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit" napoleon hill - he said another universal rule is when we have any problem in life and just cant see a way out - look around for someone with a problem that you can help with possibly - which i think you have already done cos you're always sharing uplifting info - and help them and lo and behold something will manifest that will help resolve your problem! watch out for good opportunities cos they're gonna come out of nowhere now...

you just need to figure out what to do, possibly a landlord who will accept housing benefit for a little while - i work in property so know a bit about this stuff - and the landlord can get the rent paid direct to his account so theres no aggro there - you can borrow a deposit from a scheme - its a good system for people who are genuinely in need and you are so dont feel weird about doing it - and with the housing market the way it is there are loads of "buy to let" landlords who will accept this - just need to find one - let me know if you need any help

you seem to me to be quite an angel so you will be ok cos you are tuned in so that higher assistance WILL assist

WILL IT - im a double scorpio - sun and moon so dont need any help there ha ha

i never dreamt i'd own a flat and last year i bought - after being homeless and jobless - fight it - dont let it get you down - dont think it has but i know how all-consuming these types of seemingly problematic situations can be esp when theyre to do with the roof over your head and family etc

also this custody palaver - my sisters just been through it and won - she really went through hell in an abusive marriage and today she's laughing - it will work out -dont imagine things that havent happened -

and if you cant change your emotion - i learnt this from anthony robbins - sounds silly but his answer is to move physically to move your mindset - dont sit still - walk around the room even and it will shake your thought off - sounds odd but it works - emotions - are e motions - i know you know more than me so i am saying this humbly and not trying to teach you anything - its just a reminder

best wishes - postive thoughts to you only

you're gonna be fine - email me any housing questions you have and this minor hitch will resolve itself with a bit of mindful action

so dont stress - fight it and win and you'll be laughing very soon with some even better opportunities in life and most likely a much better change!

posted May 28, 2008 02:29 PM         

Love and light to you LTT I hope everything works out.

posted May 29, 2008 02:49 PM         

i "retire" from LL.

take care,

posted May 30, 2008 09:08 AM         

take care BR

posted May 30, 2008 08:07 PM         

quote:

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The truth
is a brilliant, many-sided diamond.
The great life fills this gem and colors from every side.
Mystics, messengers, and sages and teachers of all ages, races and beliefs have spoken of a different face of this common Eternal Truth.

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Nice quote, LTT.

Is it yours?