posted March 22, 2013 03:58 AM
Saw the topic was closed and understand why. Hope this post from me is okay. Don't want to go against that :-)See the distraught so I would like to say this:
Lesson number 1. We are not ruled by merely outside forces, which means we are not a victim of circumstances. So the question 'does God hate me' shows you are feeling you have no control over anything. While really it is how we choose to deal with the circumstances and taking action. So instead of looking to put the blame on outside circumstances, you can realise your own responsibility which means looking honestly to yourself and ask questions: what would I like to change? What makes me unhappy? How have I been dealing with that and what positive actions can I take to change that? What was my part in this?
Example: in regards to the way you communicated to the moderators that welcomed you and now closed the forum...
A response I can imagine from you would have would sound like: "See! God hates me. No one wants to help me, why does this always happen to me, etc" and feel more anger.
While in reality it was the demanding behaviour and the rudeness of the message causing this response.
Second: there's always free will. So even if major things happen where you have no influence over, you still can choose how to deal with that. That will tell you the outcome of your life and how you live it.
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posted March 22, 2013 03:58 AM