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Joan
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posted December 24, 2008 01:13 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Pls, pls, could someone give me a short reading of my compatibility with this guy?

It's a weird situation, because I didnt start to notice him until we met accidentaly on the airoprt. We had been working in similar areas but didnt get a chance to talk much, until one evening I saw him at the airport. It is interesting that I had only taken that particular flight because I had to cancel my initial flight....on account of some issues that I had to solve and that required me to stay a couple of extra days. So, flight rescheduled, and there he was on the airport, much to my stupefaction!!

Ever since that moment, there seems to be smth going on between us, though it is quite a complicated situation, since he is in a higher position than me.

My birth dates are:

September 3, 1980, 9 AM, Bacau, Romania

His:

August 21, 1975, 10.30, Bucharest, Romania

I just want some basic synastry reading, because I dont understand what exactly is going on. I'm not sure of the nature of his interest.

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buena36
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posted December 26, 2008 04:55 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi,

Here is first your Synastry Chart:

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With love all things are possible!

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buena36
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posted December 26, 2008 05:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi,

You are both ASC Libra, what means you think similar.

About his higher position: ruler of your ASC, Venus is in conjunction with his MC, means that with him you can come to the higher position. He wants to protect you.

You have nice Saturn and Chiron aspects, what is important for long relationship.
Both your Saturn’s are in sextile.
Your Venus conjunction his Saturn: here is possible long term relationship.

His Chiron sextile you’re Moon: he is healer for your emotions.
Your Chiron trine his Mercury: you are healer for his mind, for the way of his thinking and talking.

Your Moon trine his Uranus: positive exciting relationship.
Your Neptune trine his Jupiter (in your 7th house): very good and romantic aspect. You want this man for your steady partner.
Your Pluto trine his Moon: sexual attraction.
Here is very nice love aspect: your Sun conjunction his Venus, called CUPID ASPECT!

You have also karmic aspects:
Your NN trine his Jupiter;
His NN in trine your Venus.

His Mars trine you’re ASC: great sexual attraction.

The houses are very important:

His Chiron, POF and Jupiter in your 7th house: Jupiter here means marriage.
His Moon in your 5th: his romantic feelings to you.
His Pluto conjunction you’re ASC: there was something in the air, when he has seen you.

His Sun and Venus in your 11th house and
Your Sun, Mercury, Jupiter and Saturn: you can be very good friends (beside all other aspects).
His Uranus in your 1st house: the attraction happened suddenly

Here is not good:
His Moon square your Uranus: danger of separation,
Your Sun square his Neptune: you can't see reality of this relationship.

As you have many good aspects, I am sure there will be some very good relationship. Don't think about his high position.

Wish you good luck,
Buena

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With love all things are possible!

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Joan
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posted December 27, 2008 04:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message
thanks a lot for your answers

they are very helpful

it is true that i am quite reserved, because of his position and feel shy and nervous in his presence, but at the same time i feel that he is protective of me

i just wasnt sure if there was any attraction on his part, or just on mine and didnt want to jump to the wrong conclusions

briefly, i didnt want to make a fool of myself in the eyes of someone superior (though not directly superior to me)

also, the chance meeting was an interesting element and but it opened my eyes to the fact that he had previously tried to get closer to me but i hadnt noticed this, as he is very discrete and i think a little shy too

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posted December 27, 2008 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meta_4     Edit/Delete Message
Buena,

Great interpretation!

Joan, i just wanted to add that the Mars/Venus square you have is an uncontrollable sexual attraction. It's impossible to deny. Now, i'm not saying that because you have this aspect you will enter into a physical relationship, or that you'll live happily ever after. I'm saying that the tension is there- but you must understand that with great attraction also comes great friction.

Best of luck to you.

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Joan
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posted December 28, 2008 04:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi, Meta

It's interesting what you wrote about denial, because what I am mostly striving to do at the present time is to pretend that there is no attraction (at least on his part), that i am probably exagerating some signals and that he only has some sort of professional interest.

It is however one very poor excuse and this becomes obvious when we meet, or when we happen to be in the same room.....i wonder if this denial thing has any chance of working out with the square present.....or if denying and pretending nothing is happening will only make things worse......

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buena36
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posted December 29, 2008 03:30 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi Joan,

As ASC Libra you both think similar. You are both afraid that there will be nothing between you two. I think it will be.

If you are so shy and he is the same, then stay close to him. Do it so, as you are always ready to be with him. Slow but sure. Today is no more important higher or lower position. We are not 300 years back, where prince should marry only some princess. Even they have changed the way whom to marry. Look in Europe, how many normal girls have married really prince!

Two ASC Libra; Vienna Libra as well! What a romantic situation!

Wish you good luck,
Buena

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Joan
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posted January 02, 2009 05:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi, Buena!

Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. Unfortunately, marriage is not an option in this situation, as he is married already. And I guess that is mostly why I am holding back. And to that, one must add the high position thing. It must be why u xsaid earlier that "i dont see the reality of this relationship"! it made me smile, because u were so right!

And I am also not sure I can be just friends with him, so maybe, on some level, I prefer to be nothing to him.

I dont know. I just hope the new year 2009 will bring some clarification of this situation.

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buena36
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posted January 02, 2009 10:20 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi Joan,

I don't look if somebody is married or not, I am just looking how two people are compatible.

Nothing is for ever! If he is married today, who knows what will be tomorrow?

I wish you Happy and Healthy New Year 2009!

Buena

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Joan
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posted February 09, 2009 05:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Hi Buena,
Since the situation has become somewhat desperate, I must come back with this post.

I cant stop thinking about him. There seems to be some obsession building up and also the tension is starting to become unbearable, at least for me.

And the most FREAKY thing happened to me on Saturday afternoon: I was just walking around a commercial street in Vienna, just shopping as I usually do on Saturday and I was just thinkng about him and about how nice it would be to take this walk with him on that beautiful day, and GUESS WHAT! there he was, with his wife, in the middle of the street looking at a window shop. I was petrified and could not believe my eyes....out of all the shops and streets and people one can run into in Vienna, it had to be him!!

Again another chance meeting! I am just starting to feel that god or someone up there is playing a sadistic joke on me.

They were far and I had time enough to pretend i didnt see them because i couldnt even say hi in the state of shock that i was in. I would have been pathethic.

So here is my question: how can I get rid of the tension and what is to do to stop the chance meetings from happening?

Is there any planetary explanation for the chance meetings that dont only seem to disappear but seem to become more numerous and shocking???

What is to do? How do I fall out of love?

I am just starting to feel that God or someone up there is playing a sadistic joke on me with the chance meetings. Is there any way to stop them from happening and get back in control of my feelings?
And what period are we in astrologically??? There seems to be some sort of astrological storm, as i see all sorts of things going array

I just feel trapped and dont know how to erase this uncomfortable inappropriate attraction.

Pls help!

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