posted December 29, 2008 09:14 AM           

My friend is in crisis and she doesn't know what to do?

She is divorced since 2003 and has two sons. The same year has met one man, born in Scorpio and has fallen in love with him. The problem is, that this man is using her (she gives him money as well). Now she is not welcome to visit her children, they live with their father. All her family (mother, father, brothers and sister) don't like this man and don't like what he is doing with her.

I have met her in the hospital, June 2005 and we became friends. She is very good woman and likes to help.

Now she told me again, that she has heart pains and nobody believes her. I was then in the hospital but she is every few months back in the hospital: because of taking drugs (too many) and because of heart problems.

I don't see here heart problems. I am afraid she is going to do something to herself although her Natal Chart doesn’t show that (I study suicide).

Thank you for any advice,
Buena

Her Natal Chart:

posted December 29, 2008 07:01 PM         

That is all she needs to do. However, it could be easier said than done. The man's influence/control is preventing her from seeing her children. So she must reverse this energy. Drive it back from whence it came.

She must use the power from a broken heart and admit he is the cause. She must tell him her heart is sick and she must leave to heal it. A wounded animal goes away to heal. Then she can rebuild and make healthy contacts again.

Her home base is the most important feature in her life. The hub from which her soul feeds.

She is 11 months younger than me - in the Pluto/Uranus generation. This is a strong placement energy to make changes for the better. Her NN, Moon and Par Fort. will drive her toward her natural destiny.

Her battle may come from her Venus/Juno square Eros/Uranus/Pluto - a desire to stay for the sexual thrill. But this should surely be overcome easily enough by her bad health. She must focus on home-building.

Hope this helps....

posted December 30, 2008 05:18 AM           

I have seen on the 2nd sight, why she did it.

If we look ruler of 8th from my friend, it should be in the 1st and not in the 3rd.

posted December 30, 2008 05:34 AM           

Thank you for comment.

I have found why my friend has Heart pains.
I am going every day to the magnet therapy and there is very nice female therapist. Two days ago I have asked her for birth details.
This morning she was there.

She has Sun and Mars in the 1st. First to be sure I was asking her if she has headache. She said: NO! Mars in the 1st in many Charts means, that person needs glasses. She has them.
After that I have asked about heart problems, as planets in the 1st mean some disease. She told me, that she has problems with her heart, but nobody can find the cause.

There we are: my friend (with Sun in the 1st) has really heart problems but nobody believes her. I didn't believe until today.

Now I am deeply in Medical Astrology and search all possible about that and then try to find the proof by the people if that is true or not.

Before that I was studying suicide. After explaining one case in other Forum, I have got critic that many people read the Forum and it is not nice to write about it. The person was dead and her Natal Chart was posted there from her sister. Her sister wrote me PM, I don't have to worry about all, as her sister is dead.
It is much different if I am going to say to somebody: you will kill yourself.

Buena