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Topic: long term success with few saturn aspects in synastry?
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heart cakes
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posted December 30, 2008 04:46 PM
is this possible? i always hear that a lot of strong saturn synastry is important for long term success. we have a few minor aspects but not much major going on. so i have two questions: 1) is our synastry "strong" enough and 2) if these minor aspects are insignificant, can anyone encourage me with tales of partnerships that have persevered and succeeded brilliantly without heavy saturn influence?we have his saturn: opposite my moon (6), semi sextile my venus (1), Q my mars (1), trine my jupiter (5), conj my uranus (6), semi sextile my MC (1). my saturn: Q his mercury (0), semi sextiles his venus (1- double whammy, same aspect!), bQs his jupiter (1), squares his uranus (3), trines his NN (3). IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted December 30, 2008 05:07 PM
Opposition to the moon is quite enough, I'd say. And it really depends on your personality and what you like/can't stand with Saturn. Count the aspects to the personal planets, because I've found from personal experience that these are felt more. A couple I know that is happily together and has been for 20 years had ONE Saturn hard aspects in their synastry, I think, and it remember it seeming really kind of benign. I remember looking at their synastry and wondering HOW. lol. But their composite had one hard aspect to the Sun, I believe. It seems to be enough for them. Have you looked at the composite?
IMO, Saturn is good for binding, but doesn't always bind in the way you like. I have left a relationship after a brief time with a couple of strong Saturn aspects, so I would say Saturn increases chances of binding a tie and makes you invest emotionally, but it doesn't set in stone that the relationship will stay solid (nothing guarantees that).
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Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 30, 2008 05:14 PM
Hey Heart Cakes,
I hope you and your lil girl had a lovely Christmas  All the relationships l have had with lots of saturn binding l have hated, possibly because my own saturn is conjunct most of my personal/emotional planets! I am in a relationship at present that is wonderfully "non" saturnian and l love it!
We only really have saturn conj NN/anti-vertex/chiron/IC, and trine AC.
In composite we have saturn conj mars, semi-square jupiter and sextile AC! I think it all depends on your natal chart IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted December 30, 2008 05:18 PM
aww i'm honoured that you spent your 1111th post on me, myvirgomask  everything you said makes sense, definitely. our composite is similar in that there are lots of minor aspects (6), but there are a few major aspects too (sextile sun, sextile neptune, conjunct pluto). thanks so much! IP: Logged |
heart cakes
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posted December 30, 2008 05:21 PM
woo, lara! thanks! yeah we had a lovely love christmas..i'm hearing you on the breathability of less saturn aspects and it depending on your own natal. i'd always heard you "needed" major saturn stuff for it to be binding, so i was worried! hmm, well i have saturn in the 8th and he has saturn in scorpio so i think we have a common saturn NEED/energy going on anyhow and our natals are both very grounded (2nd house stelliums, both of us), but not particularily saturnian really. IP: Logged | |
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