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heart cakes
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posted December 30, 2008 05:25 PM           Edit/Delete Message
our sun is exactly my AC
our moon is exactly my chiron
our mercury is exactly my eros
our venus is exactly my uranus
our jupiter is exactly my chiron
our saturn is exactly my pluto
our neptune is one degree from my AC
our chiron is four degrees from my moon

whaaaaaaaat does this meeeeeeean???

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Plutonian Persona
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posted December 30, 2008 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian Persona     Edit/Delete Message
EEK! The three things I'd be careful of:

Venus/Uranus: This could be a sudden attraction that could end just as suddenly or it could dissolve into a platonic friendship.

Saturn/Pluto: There are strong karmic overtones to this relationship, especially on your part. Be careful and proceed with caution.

Neptune/AC: Very romantic at first, but could just be the famous Neptune fog; see Saturn/Pluto.

These descriptions are, of course, just starters to get you thinking. I'm sure there will be more in depth readings and if you have any specific questions, don't hesitate to ask!

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Lara
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posted December 30, 2008 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
what about aspects to his natal?

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afflictedvenus
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posted December 30, 2008 06:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message
I'd certainly want to know how those contacts to your chiron will play out and the comp chiron on your moon?
I'd be suprised if you weren't affected deeply by this person and it'll certainly bring your wounds into the light
what sign and house is your chiron in?
could neptune be redemption?

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heart cakes
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posted December 31, 2008 05:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message
okay wow i don't even know where to begin with explaining this relationship! to make it very simple, we've been friends for 4 years but there has always been this sort of sibling quality to our communication.. we're like opposites in so many ways and would bug bug bug eachother. about a week ago something happened that completely shifted things around and we found our common ground and achieved a balance, and suddenly we just understood eachother and feel completely at ease with one another. there is a real comraderie and everything that went before is now in proper perspective and i know that we can both see that the opposites were samenesses, underneath. it's the WEIRDEST thing. but it's definite and we see eachother every day and it has been verified via much silent/indirect (but potent; he is very very scorpio) communication.

interestingly, he is a libra rising with venus in the first conj asc (like me, except i'm sag rising) and i can sense this balancing as a theme in his life. i'm pretty sure he's liked me for a long time but i never really thought much about it cuz of this weird opposites dynamic we have. but we have had very similar backrounds, only with some aspects that are exactly, yup, opposite. we both reacted in similar yet also opposite ways too! too much to get into right now. anyway, the key is about the balancing of opposites that is at play.

so aspects to his natal from the composite are:

comp chiron trine his mars (5)
comp moon and jupiter conj his NN (4)
comp moon and jupiter opp his sun and pluto (1, 1)
comp venus conj his mercury (3)
comp AC is midpoint between his sun-pluto and mercury-saturn (2)
comp NN conj his MC (6)
comp eros conj his mercury (1)
(ooh i also just noticed comp psyche is conj my sun-moon midpoint at 1 deg!)

kay those are not including trines, sextiles, squares etc (sorry don't have time!)

but anyway, also in going with the balancing theme, he has venus opposite moon and when i read about this aspect on astrologyweekly, things started to make more sense to me about his (falsely) acerbic (vs. my jolly) nature, and that is when we started to understand one another, cuz i broke through. and suddenly, VERY suddenly!, i was deeply and strongly attracted to him. so i think this could be what my uranus conj comp venus was about!

we actually have a very lovely composite chart. lots of trines and sextiles. the only opposition is saturn/pluto opp moon/jupiter but it is in wide orb (11, 15- so wide i'm not sure why it's showing up!), and there are no squares. mega conjunctions and stelliums though, and in reading the chart i can see how it all plays out.

weirder still is the timing on it. i was internet-dating a guy for 6 months and two weeks ago i realized he's not really serious about anything and he's sooooo emotionally imbalanced (found out he's bipolar), and it just was NOT going anywhere. i tried so hard to make it work with him (he's an old friend), but it could not just get past a certain level. he is such an amazing, sweet, beautiful soul though and the experience helped me heal on so many levels, as it did for him. but the things he was lacking, this man has in spades. i dunno if it was loyalty to the other guy, or what, but i never really paid much attention to it until this frustration with the other internet relationship started to really kick in.

oh yeah and our natals have pretty good synastry i think, too.


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heart cakes
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posted December 31, 2008 06:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message
plutonian princess, thanks so much for your words of advice! i've already addressed the venus/uranus thing, but yeah i will be extra careful with that one. the thing is, there is a deep newfound respect between us, and i know it is real. it is very difficult to explain succinctly, but because of this sudden balance we've found, it's like we just understand eachother. we spend about 3 hours a day together (he's a semi-roommate) and i know this is a fact. on top of it, his NN is taurus, almost at the midpoint of my chiron and moon in taurus (conj both, 4 deg and 10 deg), and we both have sun/merc and other planets in stelliums in our 2nd houses. so we are both inclined to solid, simple trust and comfort. but my moon is exactly opposite my uranus so i know i do have to be careful, because i would probably be the one to run away if i got scared. luckily i am super-fixed (the majority of my planets are), and i do not leave a relationship unless it's very very obvious it's not going anywhere, and after MUCH effort to sustain it.

afflicted venus, i know, there is much chiron action going on here! it's so interesting too, cuz what propogated the balance had to do with his mom. she's my roommate and he comes over every day. it's very weird cuz she's the sweetest woman, she's so lovely, but something happened with her and him. we all got in a (very brief) argument that shifted the entire dynamic. oh gosh it's hard to explain without writing a novel, but basically because of this very brief argument and clearing we all had, there was a new healing and communication possible between him and i, that reflected both his wounds with his mother, and my wounds with mine, and that is how we found the common ground and respect.

i'm not sure if neptune is redemption, but certainly there is something very magical or fated happening! his neptune is conjunct my venus (2). and oh, weirdly, the stumbling point between us, i think, is that his mars is square my venus (and thus, his neptune). the weird thing is they are both anaretic degrees. his is 29 virgo, mine is 29 sag, and i really really feel this was part of the seeming conflict before. he's very analytical and astute and not prone to acknowledging the mystical (at least publically), while i am very outgoing and overly optimistic, bubbly and forward about my spirituality. but being at anaretic degrees, we're wrapping up those lessons to move forward into the next sign, so there is sort of a resistance to move forward, but an inclination all the same! and fortunately, my mars trines his venus (2).

it's kinda like, i'm all heart, and he's all serious. he couldn't see my serious, and i couldn't see his heart, and now we've both seen those things in eachother.

my chiron is 5 taurus, in the fourth.

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heart cakes
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posted December 31, 2008 06:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message
so yeah! all that said, i'm still tripping out about all the conjunctions of our composite to my natal!

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heart cakes
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posted December 31, 2008 07:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message
last night when he was saying goodbye he gave me a high five and we had the most amazing eyecontact and he clasped my hand..

oh scorpios, oh scorpios

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FistOfLegend
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posted December 31, 2008 07:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message
You mean the world to me. You are my everything. I swear the only thing that matters, matters to me.
Is you.

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Plutonian Persona
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posted December 31, 2008 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian Persona     Edit/Delete Message
I guess I am a bit of a princess!

Heart Cakes, just be careful of Neptune more than anything else; it is truly a heartbreaker (as I've found out the hard way again and again and again). Neptune is fated and it can be a wonderful experience, just ground yourself in reality every so often. Good Luck!

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emma_duncan
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posted December 31, 2008 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for emma_duncan     Edit/Delete Message
venus sq neptune..........yaiiiiiiiiiiiiik.....too bad

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asc/sun/moon: Capricon/leo/libra

venus virgo
Mars Taurus

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heart cakes
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posted December 31, 2008 10:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message
plutonian, haha, oops! heheh. thanks for the heads up. wellll.. i hear you forsure about neptune. holy doodle. last boyfriend was a pisces and let me tell you! i get it. oh hey also i had pluto through my 12th the last MANY years of my life (now in first thank the stars!!), so i've learned a ton about illusion. not immune, of course, but yeah my head is screwed on a lot tighter these days fortunately, too, he's extremely reality-oriented and i'm definitely noticing he's challenging my beliefs in good ways, so that's a help! but yes, VERY IMPORTANT REMINDER. thank you!

emma duncan.. uhmm, there's no venus square neptune in natal, comp or synastry..

fist, you are sure a fistful of something! weirdo.

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emma_duncan
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posted December 31, 2008 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for emma_duncan     Edit/Delete Message
ooops my bad
u said neptune conjuct venus

any way i hv neptune sq venus in 8th and it sucks.....

and i think in synastry its sign of unrequited love.....

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asc/sun/moon: Capricon/leo/libra

venus virgo
Mars Taurus

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heart cakes
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posted December 31, 2008 10:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message
emma, no problem. i read back and realize why you thought that and that i'd written it out confusingly. his mars squares his neptune, and my venus. sorry to hear it sucks. but hey it's in the 8th, so remember, transformation!

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