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Topic: Same aspect patterns in lovers/partners charts
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girlloveboy unregistered
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posted December 31, 2008 02:01 PM
Hi, allUntil now, i was in love with 3 guys - very different kind of loves - , and the most interesting similarity between their charts is, that all three has Neptune-Venus aspect. And for some reason, all of them seems to be unable to be in a normal and healthy relationship...just like me, unfortunately And i guess thats the main reason, why i attract them (i have Pisces on Desc, and Neptune square Sun) Guy 1.--> Neptune trine Venus – a real dreamer, lives in his fantasy world Guy 2.--> Neptune square Venus – has/had an obsessive and controlling female friend, who prevented him from having a girlfriend Guy 3.--> Neptune conjunct Venus - now has an affair with a married woman All of them got defensive and run away when they sensed the chance to fall in love, or the chance for a potential relationship with me. So sad And i couldnt yet figure out how to break this pattern... Any similar experiences?
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FistOfLegend unregistered
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posted December 31, 2008 02:28 PM
I've heard about the 'running away' theme. Venus falls in love with Neptune, who seems so ideal, but then Neptune disappears and Venus is disappointed. You should read the Venus-Neptune page on cafe-astrology.
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Plutonian Persona Knowflake Posts: 37 From: Denver, CO, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 31, 2008 02:53 PM
Time to harp again! My fiancee has the Venus-Neptune square and Pisces on the DSC: she's in a permanent fantasy world regarding relationships. We almost broke up on 30 November, because there's a lot of work to do in this relationship if we are ever to get married. The next day she's reading wedding magazines and planning to get married later on this year! I keep telling her she needs to ground herself in reality a little bit more, to which she replies, "I'm NEVER taking my rose-colored glasses off!" Well, you can tell where this one's going... Fist has a very good point with reading cafeastrology's description of Venus-Neptune. It's a great overview of these very difficult aspects to deal with! IP: Logged | |