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posted January 03, 2009 09:55 PM         

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I got this idea from a website FistOfLegend sent me to. There was an article on how the signs flirt.
So..
How do you flirt??

[I had to redo this thread because something weird happened to the otherone]

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posted January 03, 2009 10:51 PM         

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I blow smoke in their face. LOL.

Seriously?
If I really, really like someone I don't 'flirt', though I tend to ask extremely personal questions to see how they react. I alternate the grilling by making random jokes, usually something sexual. I'm big on eye contact as well.
Makes me seem like a complete freak probably...lol

Oh, and I always try and look my best...somehow try to pinpoint what they may like aesthetically and emulate it in some way (that's probably my Taurus rising and Mars in Taurus also)

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posted January 03, 2009 10:55 PM         

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I don't flirt. I seduce.

Sun in Libra
Venus in Scorpio

Actually, that's not always the case. People think I'm the biggest flirt on the planet when I actually feel like I'm just having a normal conversation. I tease all the time, but when I'm really 'flirting' (as in trying to get a guy to notice me) I first give them my complete attention. Then, I'll ask discreetly probing questions. When I feel that I've 'caught' the person's interest, I stand back and watch.

This usually works to my advantage because then the object of interest usually can't tell what my real intentions are.

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posted January 03, 2009 10:57 PM         

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MyVirgoMask

Wow, that's so weird how similar our posts are.

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posted January 03, 2009 10:57 PM         

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"I don't flirt. I seduce."

Yeah, that sounds about right ...

EDIT: Yes, it's funny how similar they are - Venus Scorpio isn't about any breezy flirting obviously LOL

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posted January 03, 2009 11:00 PM         

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I don't flirt. I seduce

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That was pure venus in scorpio.
I'm so jealous!!!LOL!

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posted January 03, 2009 11:03 PM         

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Good Girl, what sign's your Venus in?

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posted January 03, 2009 11:05 PM         

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I tease them. Like make fun of what they're wearing or something. I never really approach people, I just like look at them from across the room and wait for them to come to me.

Venus in Pisces, Mars in Sag. I think the teasing thing is my Gem ASC though.

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posted January 03, 2009 11:18 PM         

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I show them that I care.

I pick their brains and ask tons of questions to analyze them.

I joke around plenty, I make them laugh by being my sarcastic self which works just fine.

I try to touch them

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posted January 03, 2009 11:25 PM         

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VirgOh, you dirty boy you
...and I'm sure you get away with it more often than not.

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posted January 03, 2009 11:33 PM         

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you know how when you're kids you tease and hit the other person? well still holds true to me.
but this is more when the attraction is instant and i feel like i can't help myself and just act like an idiot. then i go home and kick myself thinking "did i really say and do all that?!!"

i've been told also that i unconsciously flirt. idk how i do it, just give them a lot of attention, hint at sexual things, which i do a lot regardless....

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posted January 04, 2009 03:37 AM         

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Er, yeah, sarcasm and groping, got to be a lethal combination.

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posted January 04, 2009 03:52 AM         

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posted January 04, 2009 08:06 AM           

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It depends on who is my target..
I don't have a definite style, I change a lot... sometimes I'm just very outgoing, eccentric; but usually very direct. (mars in scorpio/venus in leo). I let them know I'm interested and try to catch theirs. When I have them in my palm then I get bored.

I actually enjoy more the game of flirting than the "heavy stuff"..(aka- relationships) LOL
It used to be a problem.

What can I say, I'm an Aquarius ASC- hard to pitch down
(But when I fall for someone, I fall haaaard, (sun in cancer) yup )

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posted January 04, 2009 08:29 AM           

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Hmm..it depends. If it's someone I usually work with, I don't flirt...I just ignore them and only talk about work. Otherwise, I just try to make eye contact until they pick up I'm interested in them (surprisingly this works almost every time!) I never approach anyone, I'm just too shy for that lol. Once they approach me, I talk a lot, and make interesting conversation, trying to show them how 'smart' I am (I'm just TERRIFIED they think I'm dumb because I'm pretty naive and some people confuse that).
Also, people think I flirt all the time with everybody, even though it's usual conversation to me. I DO tend to tease guys I'm not interested in though. (Sun in Cancer, Leo Venus)

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posted January 04, 2009 11:35 AM         

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MVM:

My venus is in aquarius, so I use the "be a pal" system.

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posted January 04, 2009 11:35 AM           

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You'd probably never know.

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posted January 04, 2009 11:53 AM         

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I find when I don’t make any conscious effort to obviously flirt with someone, more often than not that is what attracts the individual to me. When I try to be flirtatious (whatever that is) I usually end up looking silly.

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posted January 04, 2009 12:00 PM         

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I flirt by giving them a lot of attention, and by teasing I think. A bit childlike maybe. A guy I know misunderstod me and thought that I liked him. I didn't, I just like him as a friend, but he started taking me out. So I had to tell him that I only looked at him as a friend. Then he said that I shouldn't giggle and blush so much, and stop being charming I know that I say things in a certain way sometimes that can easily be misunderstood. But I sometimes talk first and think when I get home. Then I start kicking myself for not being more careful
I'm a Sag with Venus in Sag, Moon in Leo, Mars and asc in Cap.

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posted January 04, 2009 05:28 PM         

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This may seem kind of different...but when I flirt sometimes I become competitive(especially when I really like someone), which to the guy comes off as being odd an abrasive. Like for instance I tried having a drinking contest with this one guy I know, and instead of gaining his approval and affection, I ended up scaring him something aweful.. Its hard for him to understand. But really I am just trying to impress an get him to notice me more.

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Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

"I was born when she kissed me. I died when she left me. I lived a few weeks while she loved me"

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posted January 04, 2009 06:46 PM         

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I live to flirt. Prefer flirting to the heavy stuff as someone (bad memory) pointed out in one of the previous posts

Aries Mars, Scorpio Venus. I've been told I'm aggressive. All I do is set my sights on someone and charm away

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posted January 04, 2009 07:10 PM         

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Blue moon:

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Er, yeah, sarcasm and groping, got to be a lethal combination.

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LOL! Where is your venus and mars?

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posted January 04, 2009 07:20 PM         

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I don't, I get very annoyed with people who try and flirt with me. It so irritating.

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posted January 05, 2009 08:45 AM           

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i guess I dont really flirt when I'm really interested. Maybe I try to impress them with s.th. job related, show how competent I am (venus in capricorn), but noone would probably be able to decipher this as 'flirting'. On the contrary....when I'm reeeeeeaaaaally interested my first reflex is actually to completely ignore them.

When I banter around with people and act 'flirtateous' it's a sure sign that I just feel relaxed around them....a sure sign that I'm not at all attracted..

sun, merc, venus in the 7th all in capricorn. cancer AC/ capricorn dc
mars in sagittarius conjunct neptune
uranus in the 5th

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posted January 05, 2009 07:44 PM         

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Annaf:

Flexing the job muscles for capricorn, that's something I never thought of.
Are you female or male?

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