posted January 06, 2009 10:43 PM         

I just took a thorough look at your chart individually and I don't see any kind of move or geographic relocation for you. It's interesting that you say you have a "strange" feeling that you could "take or leave" the relationship, and that you usually aren't like that. Well, there's always a first time. Sometimes we don't like to admit that we just don't have strong feelings for someone because we wish our feelings were stronger or we just want to be attached to someone because we like the attention and a million other reasons.

Another thing to think of is that many people criticize long distance relationships because they are difficult to sustain but some people find it easier because being in each other's actual presence can be more difficult to sustain. Sometimes the intimacy is too much and therefore it's easier to be apart fantasizing that you want to be together.

I could be totally wrong but I would say trust your feelings about what you might feel.

Are you moving in together just so that you can set down roots in another city or are you moving in together to advance the relationship?

Your original question was if Saturn semi-square Moon was enough to sustain a long term committed relationship and I would vote no, but different couples have different needs. For example, does one of you travel often and the other one stays put? In that respect maybe it works for you. The other thing I see in the chart is that you do have strong feelings for each other and there is deep interest aside from just romantic feelings. Sometimes Pluto connections can act as a kind of glue, but I don't think I have enough experience just looking to the Pluto=other planets connection.

When are you supposed to move?

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posted January 06, 2009 11:26 PM         

However, planets do nothing, people do.

posted January 06, 2009 11:38 PM         

I hope you have a pleasant move.

I think it's past my bedtime if I missed a measurement as obvious as that. LOOOOL!!!

Good night all, pleasant dreams.

posted January 07, 2009 07:28 AM         

I keep thinking about the original post and how it's not a question. She's making a statement which is that she's preparing to move in with someone who she feels she could take or leave at any time.

The fact that she's the one who loves the least is a new experience for her but that doesn't make it any less of a valid experience that needs to be contemplated before moving in with someone you may not feel bonded with.

Even the synastry chart reflects what she states about her feelings in that there is no major Saturn connection between them. There's no glue.

What I see when looking at the Solar Arcs and hard transits to all planets, points and midpoints is that by January 19th she'll have Solar Arc MC=Sun/Saturn which suggests "Lacking the feeling of success; feeling devalued; working hard to win; the 'lone wolf.'"

How often have I been in a relationship where I felt like I was the only trying to make it happen. Why am I doing this move alone? Why am I making all the plans, etc.?

I may be completely off the mark but we don't post here for nothing, we come for insight and...well, it wouldn't be the first time someone changes their mind before they think it's too late or something.

posted January 07, 2009 11:36 AM           

and may be, scrappydog consciously think that she could live without him, and may be that's true, like if she cared less about him than the other way around, but may be it's just an impression, something she's denying.....

posted January 07, 2009 08:04 PM         

Ordinarily I would say yes about those Axis conjunctions but I think those are too wide. I actually have a conjunction with my ex-boyfriend who is now my housemate, we live really well together, so it's another type of glue. Our Asc's are conjunct by 2 degrees, our MC's are conjunct by 1 degree. But that's a good observation, who knows, maybe it works.

Hi Lara,

I was looking at this chart last night while I was half asleep and misread where the MC was. I was also thinking that transiting Jupiter was Pluto (LOL!) and Pluto was Jupiter. I needed to put my butt in the bed and I started making too many mistakes.

I can understand you feeling Pluto seven degrees off, but it's the exact hit that will get you moving.

posted January 07, 2009 08:48 PM         

I am in a relationship at moment with this guy and l don't have much saturn in our synastry. In fact apart from a few semi-sextile's we only really have saturn trine AC, saturn square IC/conjunct IC (double whammy) and saturn conjunct NN.

However, if l look at declinations we have:
saturn contra-parallel mars

posted January 10, 2009 03:08 PM         

In January of '06 it's not as clear to me. The only thing I could come up with Jupiter on your ASC/DC and then Mars came along about two days later. Mars acts as a trigger for certain aspects and since Jupiter does rule long distance travel plus the Mars trigger, maybe that's what did it.

But in truth, if you had come to me then and asked if you would move in January, at first glance I might have said no to a full move like that, maybe a vacation but I don't know if I would have said a relocation.

In your case with transiting Pluto squaring your natal Jupiter recently I would still vote no to a move because Jupiter rules your 8th house of finances so maybe you were getting some reward energy in the financial department, but maybe not travel. It might be something to watch, your Jupiter, in terms of traveling an moving.

posted January 10, 2009 03:23 PM           

i think that you do well on looking at the draconic sinastry.many times it shows the subtle energies present between 2 person´s.

Geo