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Got Gemini?
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From: Mercury
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 13, 2009 08:14 AM
 
Lara just got me thinking. Do you guys think that if a person with a lot of stressful aspects in their natal chart would be more comfortable in relationships that had a lot of tension in them, and thrive with another person who also has a lot of disharmonious aspects in their natal?On the flipside, do you guys think that people with mostly harmonious aspects in their natal charts may thrive more with a person whom also has mostly harmonious aspects in their natal? ------------------
Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚
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MyVirgoMask
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posted January 13, 2009 08:21 AM
I don't know about comfortable, but if it's familiar they would be ...familiar with the energies. That's for people with more difficult aspects. Like if I have my Pluto square Venus in my natal and then have someone else whose Pluto does the same thing. I'm more used to that energy anyway. And sometimes it's just generational too.I'm not sure that people with lots of smooth aspects can handle tense aspects though. If you have a nice, easy chart, harsh aspects might scare the crap out of you. Or they might entice you. Depends entirely on the aspects, and the person, you know?
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Lara
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posted January 13, 2009 10:56 AM
YES l totally agree, as long as the other person doesn't have libra right opposite my aries stellium nor has a very suffocating and irritating square, opposition or conjunct to it.I love tension though cos trines just bore me zzzzzzzzz
way too comfortable. Give me passion and stimulation any day  IP: Logged |
good girl
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posted January 13, 2009 11:07 AM
I don't think it is a matter of weither or not they are comfortable, I think it is a matter of that is what they bring to any and all relationships.
No matter how favorable the other persons chart is in connection with theirs, I think it will be experienced as challenging. Because it is within them.I think positive charts will only stay attached to people with some what challenging charts or else they will move along, not relating to that kind of tension. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 13, 2009 11:18 AM
it's the same as a strong-minded woman won't be atracted to a wimp  I like men who have conjunctions in their chart and actually have ball$ between their legs, is that what you meant Good Girl? IP: Logged |
GemGemGem
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posted January 13, 2009 02:41 PM
Nicely put Lara! LOL!IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
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posted January 14, 2009 11:04 PM
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good girl
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posted January 15, 2009 07:39 PM
Lara:LOL! I agree! IP: Logged |
good girl
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posted January 15, 2009 07:40 PM
Lara:
Didn't you say on another thread you were a lesbian? Were you just kidding?IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 15, 2009 08:51 PM
HAHAHA i was kidding.. l couldn't be bothered to choose, seeing as l wasn't gonna GET SOME! lolHey, has anyone else notice that men with Taurus moon have incredibly large "bull-like" balls? EDIT: i apologize.. that last bit sounded so wrong!!! IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted January 15, 2009 09:16 PM
Hmmm... no, actually. I am a bit disappointed. Once again I've been given a defective batch for comparison.IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 15, 2009 09:33 PM
want me to Fed Ex him to ya? Hey, you know that guy l put the pics up of? Well, guess what! Turns out that my friend wanted me to do the synastry of ME and him cos he fancies me rotten LOL
So i'm having dinner with him soon hahaha IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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Registered: May 2009
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posted January 15, 2009 10:02 PM
Yeah I had a feeling about that.
I just didn't dare think it.
I hate you!
Meanwhile, I'm here in my ivory tower. SIGH.I'd better hear a full report, young lady!! I want to know what happens! IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 2747
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posted January 15, 2009 10:04 PM
BTW, what the hell happened with your man? I saw on another thread that you guys had a falling out? 
I'm sorry to hear it.
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Lara
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posted January 15, 2009 10:08 PM
well l had no idea and l phoned her and said "i can't give you a def AC" and she said "well is the rest of the chart compatible with you?" and l was like WTF? lol
Full report coming your way!
He told his friend apparently that he will wit for me.
awwwww
Well, l found out that my man was actually still living ith his wife!!! OMG
I have only been going out with him for a month so l just walked straight away. Thank god l didn't start to fall in love with him! IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 2747
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posted January 15, 2009 10:19 PM
Right, that sucks that he lied
But I think we Aries moons bounce back well when it's not for too long. I can fall head over heels for all of 4 months and then be bouncing around a few days later even though I was ready to die a few days before LOL. Jeeeeez, so this Mr. Aquarius seems pretty intriguing, Lara, and I have a really weird feeling that he can keep up with you and be exciting but also do his own thing, so you guys seem well-suited What the hell...I approve, I'm impressed, and enthralled IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 16, 2009 04:41 AM
quote:
I can fall head over heels for all of 4 months and then be bouncing around a few days later even though I was ready to die a few days before LOL.
LMAO
omg i admit to howling with laughter when l read this it's SO true and my friends are always shocked at the speed of rebirth!!! Totally with you on this one Yes, thanks MVM - could be interesting! I've decided, no more foreign men for me. That guy lied and then when his wife kicked him out he rang me last night and basically was talking as if we were still dating!
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Libralove09
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posted January 16, 2009 06:20 AM
lara, are you saying only guys with conjunctions in there charts are men with balls?IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 16, 2009 06:36 AM
nope... i'm saying that a guy with trines and sextiles can't handle me IP: Logged |
MoonPixie
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posted January 16, 2009 06:42 AM
I've noticed that I attract a lot of people who have venus square mars like i do, but i don't think i've dated enough to really say that we've found harmony in each others disharmony...IP: Logged |
Arnicka
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posted January 21, 2009 03:24 AM
well i have huge tight squares in my chart and for some reason when mine makes up a grand cross with someone else's the energy flows very smoothly....weird. and those with very mild charts have seemed to lack a certain oomph that i need, guess i tend to go with charts that match my own.IP: Logged |
amowls
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 21, 2009 03:26 AM
Well, as someone with Venus square Uranus, I need a lot of excitement in my relationships, so yes, the more effed up, the better.IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted January 21, 2009 03:49 AM
yeah l have venus/uranus and mars/uranus aspects so l like and am drawn to a pretty revved up free spirit!Of course sometimes my Taurus side dreams of a man who is surgically sewn to the side of my body fulfilling my every wish immediately and suffocatingly, but then luckily my own screams wake me from my nightmare IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?
Knowflake Posts: 455
From: Mercury
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 21, 2009 09:19 AM
Lara, sextiling trines comes eeeeeeeasy to me lamo!------------------
Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚
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