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Topic: Natal Quincunxes, Semisextiles & Contradictory Synastry
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posted January 22, 2009 02:02 AM
Is there anyone else out there who has a fairly tight quincunx or semisextile in their natal, and who finds that this gives complex synastry prospects where you feel you can't ever have it perfect?... especially if the quincunx or semisextile involves personal planets...Like for example, girl has Venus at 29 Sagittarius quincunx Moon at 29 Cancer (which is semisextile saturn at 0 degrees Virgo) and meets guy with his Mars at 29 Aries square her Moon but trine her Venus, his Sun at 29 Sag quincunx her Moon but conjunct her Venus, and his Moon at 28 Scorpio trine her Moon but square her Saturn (out of sign). Or someone who has Sun at 15 degrees Libra and moon at 16 degrees Virgo. In synastry a person with planets in mid Gemini or Sag will make soft aspects to the Sun but hard aspects to the Moon. Conversely, planets in mid Capricorn or Cancer will make hard aspects the Sun but soft aspects to the moon... If you have natal quincunxes or semisextiles there's always difficulty mixed in with the harmony in synastry. It's always good/bad, not one way or the other. I'd like to hear from anyone out there whose had this type of synastry. Either as the person with the quincunx or semisextile natally, or as the person who had synastry with someone who had one of these aspects. How did it play out... was there any type of resolution. My quincunx and I are in it for life, so I'm trying to look on the bright side. IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 420 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 22, 2009 02:56 AM
yupI have natal venus at 21' aries and mars at 21' taurus! Moon at 23' aries which semi-sextiles my mars.. moon quincunx uranus moon quincunx neptune moon quincunx pluto venus quincunx pluto saturn quincunx pluto all within 2 degrees aaarrrggghhh
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posted January 22, 2009 03:40 AM
Interesting Lara,How has this played out in synastry? Like if someone made hard aspects to your mars and soft ones to your moon, or vice versa, did you feel it was like being between a rock and a hard place, like impossible to work out, or did it feel liked being sparked off and yet supported at the same time. I guess I'm asking if you felt like having both aspected (in hard and soft ways) was something you could live with in an ongoing way, as in daily. Or is it better in small doses? IP: Logged |
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posted January 26, 2009 03:04 AM
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blue moon Knowflake Posts: 144 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 26, 2009 03:11 AM
Human beings are contradictory. That's how this dilemma comes about. It also occurs because it seems to be based on the premise that ideally synastry should be full of flowing aspects. That's not something I agree with as I think all relationships need a certain about of tension to get anything done and to provide opportunity to grow. I like having a bit of a Square or some interaction with Saturn and his big boots. Being far from perfect I need it in my life. No relationships are perfect either, there is always going to be some area of compromise. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 247 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted January 26, 2009 04:47 AM
God I wish I know I'm barely starting to wrap my brain around the major aspects, and then look and discover that I have : Sun semi-sextile Uranus Sun quintile Neptune Mercury semi-sexile Venus Venus semi-sextile Pluto I'm not counting bi-quintiles. I know I have some kind of Yod in my chart involving Neptune, Jupiter, with quincunx to Saturn. It's not personal planets, soooo... I really don't know how ANY of that plays out in synastry. Nothing ever feels 'right' LOL. The whole thing feels muddled most of the time and I'm lucky to get by with just a whole lot of scraps IP: Logged |