posted January 22, 2009 01:18 PM           

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So How do you know when an Aquarian man is in love? I've had an Aqua friend for many years and I sense that he cares more for me than as a friend, but I'm not sure. I'd ask him, but am afraid it will make our friendship awkward. Any clues?

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posted January 22, 2009 01:21 PM         

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when he suddenly ignores you

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posted January 22, 2009 01:25 PM         

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posted January 22, 2009 01:27 PM         

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lara, what about aqua girls?

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posted January 22, 2009 01:28 PM         

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no idea i'm not a lesbian

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posted January 22, 2009 01:31 PM         

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Well eventually he is gonna make a move if its noting but to try and steal a kiss or send it to you through a stare or something..Or you can try and kiss him that will tell you also..Thank god I was gifted with intuition and can instantly pick up on when a man is feeling me..Bc Aqua men can be hard to tell other wise..

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posted January 22, 2009 01:40 PM         

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not all of them though Mama Mia, would you not agree?

My Aqua man is so expressive and into me and he's got libra moon and leo AC.

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posted January 22, 2009 01:43 PM         

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Well 1 out of 10 is the way your Aqua man is the other 9 are hard to figure out for the most part..

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posted January 22, 2009 01:45 PM         

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Would you link it to how evolved or mature they are?

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posted January 22, 2009 01:46 PM         

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posted January 22, 2009 01:50 PM         

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lol you ever dated an Aquarian Leaping?

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posted January 22, 2009 01:50 PM         

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Perhaps or their upbringing or even their experience on how they have just dealt with romantic relationships period..What I realize is the first woman that a Aqua man falls in love with set the pace for all that follow..((Shrugs)) And yes if it was a bad experience for him towards the ending it will be hard for the girls that follow bc he is not going to want to open up again fear of being hurt..So soon as love looks like its about to enter he may take off..Those type Aqua's need lots of soul searching but bc they are so fixed and stubborn they have no idea how to heal..Evolvement plays a huge part in being able to love again when it deals with Aqua men..

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posted January 22, 2009 01:52 PM         

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agree.
nothing more to add apart from that they are an enigma to anyone who is remotely dependent as a person.

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posted January 22, 2009 01:54 PM         

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posted January 22, 2009 03:06 PM           

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I would say...when he starts making some mind.games with you,just to see how much you care or not...:P

my bf is aqua moon and before we date,he just tried to see how much i would DO for him...then i back off and said it was a shame to do what he did:that afterall..im not the prince who had to go after the Princess(him)
So..i made him taste his own "poison" and said he would never see me again.

he answered quite urgently asking my forgiveness and it was him who had to go after the Princess

Dont know about you guys but i think Aquas sometimes likes to play hide and seek.

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posted January 22, 2009 03:10 PM         

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Oh for sure they definetly do the whole smoke in the mirror thing..Thats why I said just kiss him, hell get it over with..IF he acts funny then you will have your answer and well bc they treasure friendship so much he may pull away for awhile but if he is really your friend and he knows that your his friend he won't stay away for long..

I have Mars in Aries I almost always go after what I want after to long, it can't sit in my face and me not reach for it if I want it, be it a man a car or a piece of lemon cake..:-)

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posted January 22, 2009 03:17 PM         

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They treat you like a friend

But it really depends on their placements.

I, for one, need a lot of reassurance for me to be affectionate. I don't pursue, and I make sure that the other person likes me back before discussing my feelings.

I havent officially dated any other Aquarians.

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posted January 22, 2009 03:52 PM           

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I don't know, but they do it at their own time. You have to follow their pace because they don't change for anyone.

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posted January 22, 2009 04:07 PM         

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I don't know, I've seen Aquarian men that fall all over a woman. I don't think ignoring a woman is a good clue. The Aquarian men I was involved with were EXTREMELY emotional and even clingy, which never fails to amaze me.

They do appreciate the friend factor, but they also like complicated women. My brother and stepfather are Aquas and they do not hide their feelings in love or act aloof at all. I've never understood the whole thing with Aquarius males seeming detached, I have never seen one this way in regards to love, ever. They're either full-on or don't bother at all. The nice thing about them is that no matter how emotional you act, it doesn't faze them...in fact, it seems to turn them on more LOL. I think they appreciate complexity.

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posted January 22, 2009 05:11 PM         

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MyVirgoMask,

what venus and mars sign did these aquarius men have?

I would think it depends a lot on what the rest of his chart looks like. I would doubt that a very fiery aquarius with venus in aries or mars in aries would play any ignoring games. I know a couple of aquarius men and they are all very different, no generalization possible. One aqua friend has moon and venus in pisces, mars in libra and he has always been very 'fluid' and passive in his romantic entanglements. Another aqua man I know also has venus in pisces BUT mars in aries, moon in sagittarius and this guy pursued me full force. Another guy I know has a very airy chart with venus in capricorn and he seems to be very aloof in relationship things. So just three examples and all very, very different.

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posted January 22, 2009 05:18 PM         

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I agree it depends on the chart thats for sure..My ex has moon and venus in Aries. and for almost a year he did ignore me but it was after we had been in a relationship and he was full of guilt bc he had left me to be with another woman and it did not work out between them and he realized the bad mistake he made and to top it off he was still inlove with me. So his way of dealing with it was to block me out..But since then he has never ignored me. I do the ignoring..

Aqua men with Pisces anything is a good thing for a woman..

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posted January 22, 2009 06:26 PM         

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mama mia,

seems your guy only ignored you after the event so to speak, after he messed up.

Yes, I agree aquarius men with pisces are a real treasure. the friend I mentioned with moon and venus in pisces is the kindest sould I've met. Creative beyond belief and almost telepathic in his feelings for others. Having said that...Mr. super aloof, the aqua with venus in capricorn happens to be a pisces rising. He does seem to carry some baggage reg. relationships. Such an attractive and intelligent guy, but hasnt had a girlfriend in years (not gay and no serial dater either).Seems to just really live for his friends.Hmm

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posted January 22, 2009 07:26 PM         

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I agree MVM, either on or OFF. They are like lights!

annaf,

aqua sun, libra moon, capricorn venus, sag mars. I am
taurus sun, aries moon, aries venus, taurus mars.

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posted January 23, 2009 12:13 AM           

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yea in my experience either like you or they don't, as stubborn as they are i've never seen one be halfway regarding their romantic interest. and if they like you, then you better brace yourself, and if they're not attracted then you're still "an interesting specimen" (read: friend). and whoever talks about them not being jealous, with the ones i've known, yes they are, yes they are. like i said before, i dont care how hard they try to hide it or pretend it away, its there. now what they choose to do with their turbulent feelings, that's another matter entirely.

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posted January 23, 2009 12:20 AM         

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Hello and Welcome to LL mysticgirl

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