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ripley
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posted January 22, 2009 02:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message
In members' personal experience what are the best/worst aspects to have in synastry? ie would person A's chiron falling on Person's B IC be good/bad? Would Person B's moon falling on person A's MC add intensity to the relationship? Both Plutos a few degrees apart,an aspect indicating karma? Would all these aspects (and some involving saturn) point to a very intense relationship but ultimately destructive one?

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savanna20
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posted January 22, 2009 02:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
Sun-Saturn bad aspects.Uranus-Venus is an unstable relationship.

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posted January 22, 2009 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
The worst?

Everytime I will go for wide orbs and unaspected planets. It suggest a lack of connection or real interest between two people.

Tight aspects tense or flowing at least show something, you can learn from the tough ones just like you can learn to get along with most people if you really try. Not always, but mostly.

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posted January 22, 2009 04:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message
I agree that very few aspected personal planets and/or wide orbs tend to indicate not that much chemistry, in my experience.

There are some specific aspects that I think really suck and have always been challenging for me in synastry..these include Sun square Mercury, Venus square Venus, Mercury square Mercury.

The Mercury square Mercury is the worst, i think, because I end up not being able to stand that person and it usually is because of the way they communicate with me. We don't "get" each other at all. Venus square Venus is challenging but can definitely work and some of my closest friendships/relationships have been with Venus in Aquarius people.

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
Mars::Pisces

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posted January 22, 2009 05:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
The hardest relationships for me were the ones where the other person had a personal planet in my 4th house. It has taken a while for me to get over those individuals.

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writesomething
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posted January 22, 2009 05:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message
I dont think theres a clear answer to this question. Some people depending on their charts can handle simplicity, and some need intensity. Some people work fine with boring synastry together. One thing that is always consistent is Saturn in the long term relationships, ive noticed...

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savanna20
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posted January 22, 2009 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
Amowls-did you ever get over any of them? I just realized my moon, chiron and True Node fall on my ex's 4th house.

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posted January 22, 2009 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with writesomething. It's completely personal...what works for me might not work for you, and vice versa.
And yes, Saturn does need to be present in some form for the relationship to have some kind of long-term potential... at least we know that much

For me, the nicest aspects have been 4th house-involved...contact with it feels very nice (especially something with the Moon or Venus in contact to the 4th).
I also like ascendant contacts - trines, sextiles, conjunctions from the moon or Mercury.
I LOVE Mercury-ascendant! It makes me feel like the person and I are on the same mental wave-length, and with the Moon on the ascendant, there's a nice feeling of being able to share emotional states.

I've found recently that I enjoy my Sun conjunct another's moon, it makes me feel very secure (maybe because my Sun is peregrine too?), but not the other way around - I don't like my Moon conjunct another's Sun...feels like a weird assault.

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posted January 23, 2009 03:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message
cant stand too much square in general, make me wanna kill the person whenever i fight with them!

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FistOfLegend
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posted January 23, 2009 05:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Chiron, maybe? I've been pondering the subject, and maybe the hard aspects are a source of wounding.

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posted January 23, 2009 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
Chiron heals too.

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FistOfLegend
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posted January 23, 2009 05:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message
How would you interpret Venus opposition Chiron in synastry? Is it both painful and healing?

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posted January 23, 2009 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I've had the conjunction to Venus as Chiron. It's no cake walk. It was EXTREMELY painful.
Just about every guy I've been interested in the past year has his Chiron opposing my Venus. I can't imagine it's too pretty, but I think there's an intense dialogue going on between the two. I'd say Chiron feels more, and Venus gets overwhelmed and freaked out that someone can see through her love games, and maybe wants to get real.
It's not a shallow connection by any means.

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FistOfLegend
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posted January 23, 2009 05:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Okay, what if Venus is met with a conjunction with Saturn as well?
Is that heartbreak or what?

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posted January 23, 2009 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
Long term relationship but also a relationship with someone older. I had that aspect with my ex who was 8 years my senior.

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MyVirgoMask
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posted January 23, 2009 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I think it's also important to keep the orbs tight with the Chiron stuff.

With Saturn in there, it would be long-term probably. But Venus might need more easy stuff too, otherwise she might feel unappreciated. A trine or sextile someplace would help balance it out. OR even a hard aspect to another more 'romantic' planet maybe.

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posted January 23, 2009 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
wow, chiron in conjunct/quincunx to venus is a cinderella aspect. I must admit, i've never had a problem with it

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posted January 23, 2009 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Did u ever read the Grimm version of Cinderella ? It was kinda like that for me

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posted January 23, 2009 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
wow
well i'm shocked MVM. After approx 2 yrs of studying MAGI Astrology l have never heard anything like it. re you sure you didn't have a stressful aspect or saturn sparking the venus/chiron?

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posted January 23, 2009 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for leapinglemur14     Edit/Delete Message
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posted January 23, 2009 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for leapinglemur14     Edit/Delete Message
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MyVirgoMask
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posted January 23, 2009 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, actually there was stressful Saturn stuff to the Mars AND Venus, Lara. It was unbearable. Maybe that explains a little more of why it felt like HELL.

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posted January 23, 2009 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
ahhhhh that totally explains it!
SATURN and MARS would make it a heartbreak

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MyVirgoMask
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posted January 23, 2009 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
It was certainly a pain in the ass

BOTH times I had Chiron conjunct Venus, I also had their Saturn square both my Mars AND Venus.
AARRGHHH!!!!!

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posted January 23, 2009 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
starts off heavenly and turn into hell!

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