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Lara
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posted February 04, 2009 06:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
Do you attract similar types or the same planets in aspect with your personal planets in synastry?

I was looking into my old synastry's this morning as l was inspired by Leaping's thread and l was shocked!

I have zero air or water in my chart and l was amazed at what types l attract.

what types or aspects do you attract over and over again. Here are some of mine, as examples.


I have:
moon/venus/saturn/NN in ARIES
possible DC in Aquarius

HUSBANDS
1. moon in libra
2. venus in aquarius and saturn/neptune in libra

SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS
1. venus/nn in libra and DC in aquarius
2. mars/jupiter/uranis in libra
3. pluto in libra and moon in aquarius
4. DC in libra
5. venus/mars in aquarius

FLINGS or SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIPS
1. uranus in libra and moon/venus/nn in aquarius
2. venus/uranus in libra
3. neptune/saturn in libra and nn in aquarius
4. moon/uranus in libra and sun/nn in aquarius

amazing! I really go for the aquarian connection even though it squares my sun/mercury/mars/jupiter/neptune.

Then l looked at planets that hit my stellium by conjunct or trine (only fire signs). Again it was shocking and l will list these ones in terms of the quality of the relationship.

GREAT relationship (sex, communication, fun, loving)
1. sun/mercury in sagittarius and moon/saturn in aries
2. sun/mercury in aries

GOOD relationship (sex, fun)
1. sun/jupiter in leo and saturn in aries
2. sun/mars in leo and moon in sagittarius
3. sun/venus in aries and DC in sagittarius
4. sun/venus in leo and moon in sagittarius

AVERAGE relationship (good sex but no fun, although loving. communication awful)
1. sun/venus/mercury/saturn/nn in aries
2. sun/pluto in leo and mercury in aries
(mercury in aries leads to arguments and miscommunication for me it seems)

Amazing how many sag planets come up! I have no sag and no gemini lol


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koiflower
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posted February 04, 2009 06:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for koiflower     Edit/Delete Message
Interesting! It's good that you've zeroed in on the pattern.

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Iqhunk
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posted February 04, 2009 08:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Superb Pattern!
More than confirms the Leo Ascendant.

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Lara
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posted February 04, 2009 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
That's exactly wht i thought... i mean there is some libra there too but the aquarius is just everywhere hahaha

Thanks IQ and Buena

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Lara
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posted February 05, 2009 06:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
I looked at patterns in houses too

Guy 1
His venus in my 3rd
His sun/mars in my 4th
His moon in my 11th
My sun/moon/venus/mars in his 9th
Relationship: we travelled constantly and worked together. Our relationship was creative and lasted 6 years. We broke up as we became brother/sister.

Guy 2
His sun in my 1st and my moon/venus in his 1st
His venus in my 2nd and my sun/mars in his 2nd
His mars in my 4th
His moon in my 12th
Relationship: went well until l caugh him cheating.

Guy 3
His mars in my 3rd and my moon/venus in his 3rd
My sun/mars in his 4th
His venus in my 6th
His moon in my 9th
Relationship: we were in separate cities and the love was intense. We broke up as we were too young to know better.

Guy 4
My moon/venus in his 1st
My sun/mars in his 2nd
His moon in my 6th
His sun/venus in his 8th
His mars in my 11th
Relationship: l always felt like l was doing all the work and having all the doubt.

Guy 5
His moon in my 4th and my sun/moon/venus in his 4th
My mars in his 5th
His sun in my 6th
His venus/mars in my 7th
Relationship: was sweet but it just never felt quite right to me.

Guy 6
Husband nr 1
His moon in my 1st
My moon/venus n his 6th
His venus in my 7th and my sun in his 7th
His sun in my 8th
Relationship: great until we married and then he tried to control me and sex became crap

Guy 7
Husband nr 2!
His moon in my 2nd (he married me for money!!!!!)
My moon/venus in his 6th
My sun/mars in his 7th
His venus in my 8yh
His sun in my 9th
Relationship: passionate for a while and then became an absolute NIGHTMARE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Guy 8
My now ex sex buddy
His sun in my 1st
His venus in 1st conjunct my AC exact
His moon in my 6th
His mars in my 7th
My mars in his 8th

Guy 9
My NYC boyfriend
His sun/mars in my 1st
His venus in my 2nd
His moon in my 5th and my moon/venus in his 5th
My sun/mars in his 6th
Relationship: obsessive and hard to move on from.

Guy 10
My youngest son’s dad
His sun/venus in my 9th
His moon/mars in my 10th
My moon/venus in his 11th
My sun/mars in his 12th
Relationship: he lived all over the world and as l found out, had girlfriends everywhere and was keeping me a secret…

Guy 11
Current man – guy with the gun! Lol
His moon in my 3rd
His mars in my 5th
His venus in my 6th
His sun in my 7th and my DC in his 7th
My moon/venus in his 9th
My sun/mars in his 10th


What is up with ALL this 6th house stuff!!!!!!! It’s a pattern for me and obviously not a good one!
Anyone know why so much in 6th houses pls?

BOTH men who have cheated on me had my planets in their 12th!

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amowls
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posted February 05, 2009 06:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
6th house relates to Virgo which should be your 2nd house cusp? You are a Taurus Sun and would naturally relate to 2nd house matters.

Just a guess.

The only patterns I can make out is there are a lot of Virgo Moons/Risings in my life (male & close same sex friendships). I'm guessing because Virgo is on my IC. Leo also figures predominantly, I guess because opposites attract (and if they're Rising my Sun is in their 7th) plus my Moon is in the 5th which is naturally ruled by Leo.

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Lara
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posted February 05, 2009 07:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
Yes Amowls, virgo is my 2nd cusp and my 2nd's natural house ruler is taurus

you are so great at spotting these details, thanks!

Doesn't 6th matters in synastry mean that l am either in service to him or he is to me though, creating an unequal relationship?

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Lara
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posted February 05, 2009 07:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
This is so interesting, l wish i'd done this years ago

Out of all 11 men

3 have planets in my 1st and l have planets in 1 persons 1st
3 have planets in my 2nd and l have planets in 1 persons 2nd
3 have planets in my 3rd and l have planets in 1 persons 2nd
3 have planets in my 4th and l have planets in 1 persons 4th
2 have planets in my 5th and l have planets in 1 persons 5th
4 have planets in my 6th and l have planets in 3 persons 6th
3 have planets in my 7th and l have planets in 3 persons 7th
3 have planets in my 8th and i have planets in 1 persons 8th
3 have planets in my 9th and l have planets in 2 persons 9th
1 has planets in my 10th and i have planets in 1 persons 10th
2 have planets in my 11th and l have planets in 1 persons 11th
1 has planets in my 12th and l have planets in 1 persons 12th

hmmmmm

1st Leo
2nd virgo
3rd libra
4th scorpio
5th sag
6th capricorn
7th aquarius
8th pisces
9th aries
10th taurus
11th gemini
12th cancer


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MyVirgoMask
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posted February 05, 2009 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Damn girl! You've been busy with this study!! Nice job though!

I wish I knew all the birthdays of my exes to do this, but alas...

6th house stuff, eh? I might have the generational stuff fall in there (i.e. Pluto, Uranus in Libra, since Libra rules most of my 6th), but I wonder about so much personal stuff falling into the 6th. I don't like luminaries falling into the 6th personally, it feels odd..that is, unless maybe it's the 6th and conjunct the 7th, like it's almost out of there.

I don't like 12th house contacts either. Every time I've had it, something was fishy (well it is a fishy house, being Pisces and all )

I'm getting a good feeling about you and gun boy And no, not just because I think he's cute (though he is ) ...I feel he's more unconditional or something, just a weird feeling I get. But then, you know I like Aqua guys, to me they're the sanest guys sometimes!!!!

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Lara
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posted February 05, 2009 09:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks MVM... well it was hard work but worth it. So interesting to see the pattern of the actual relationships in the houses! It really works lol

The gun guy is so lovely although he's managed to really **** me off yesterday but l don't wanna talk about it on LL... so i'm not really sure what to do about him now.

Anyway, he really doesn't wanna lose me so i'll give him a 2nd chance but he really upset me... damn Aquarians can be so honest sometimes it's hurtful.

ps. it's amazing how people with planets in your 4th and vice versa can give you a comfy relationship but one that gets too bland and boring!

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MyVirgoMask
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posted February 05, 2009 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I'm sorry to hear he's been acting up...
Yes, they can be too honest sometimes, almost like they need a filter or something lol.

4th house stuff is nice, but I've never had it long-term. I have friends who've been together forever with a bunch of 4th house stuff, but they're pretty low-key water sign people and like being in their own little world

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katatonic
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posted February 05, 2009 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for katatonic     Edit/Delete Message
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Lara
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posted February 05, 2009 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
YUP!
Anyway it's cool now.. my Aries stellium kicked him into shape and now he's back to his bumbling Aquarian self, orbiting all of my planets hahahah

LOL

I like 4th in small doses. I love 8th!

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