posted February 11, 2009 09:58 AM           

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I know that Jupiter is in Aqua and seems to be alot of good things coming their way..But wow my ex Aqua is back around me and on it..Says he is ready for love. I am skepticle and very reserved. He has never acted like this with me ever and this is year 5 that I have been knowing him. I know that he is a soulmate I knew that from day one. Anyone that has been on this forum for awhile has heard about he and I. I am just kind of shocked thats all..

So I was just wondering is this a individual thing or is there other Aqua's that value freedom and independence thinking about love and a relationship..

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posted February 11, 2009 10:14 AM           

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i think will be ready yes,

i receieved today a mail from one brasilian astrologer saying day 14 februaray of Saint Velntine will occur a rare configuration of planets in the sky:

all in 12h house of karma - all in aQUA:SUN,NEPTUNE,KIRON,JUPITER,NN,MERCURY in 29 cap .

She said we all should believe and ask LOVE.
that we should meditate and focus on the violet flame and ask the redemption of all karmas - ours and of Humanity as well.

She said that this configuration will release the karmic cycle we all have been passing through.

And as Aqua stands for universal love,i also think it is a good time to structure or re-structure relationships

This stellium will be passing though my 5H and my Bf´s 7H-what about your and your ex houses?

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posted February 11, 2009 11:02 AM         

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Mama Mia,
very possible. My Aqua sun guy has just done a temporary runner and yet he is saying to me "give me time and i'll love you how you want to be loved?!?!"

lol
May i ask you something? Do you think Aqua's like to play games and manipulate cos i'm not having any of it with him. I'm just giving him space to sort out his fears. He told me that l get to him and it scares him how much... classic case of fear of commitment no?

Good luck with your Aqua. 5 years is a long time and l admire you for holding out and trusting in him. Sounds VERY positive to me!

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posted February 11, 2009 11:19 AM           

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Lara, I don't know really whats going and not sure what to trust..I have not been with him in two years. We have kept in contact and I told him that I loved him and stuff, but lately he has been way more aggessive then I have ever seen. I am not a patient person at all and I have 0 tolerance for anything that appears to look like games and stuff. Part of his issues is that he is immature and thats what got in the way as well..

I am still not sure what I will do with him, but he is showing no signs of letting up. So we shall see, he will have to prove to me that he can be the man I need before I do anything and I told him that..

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posted February 11, 2009 11:29 AM         

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Gosh. Yeah i hear you - immaturity really sucks when you meet a good guy who suffers it.

So l guess all Aquarian men play games then if yours does and my 2 have

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posted February 11, 2009 11:41 AM           

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play games? what do you mean?

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posted February 11, 2009 11:45 AM           

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i think it's all other signs playing games with aquas!

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posted February 11, 2009 11:47 AM           

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Lara they are mental guys and well we may approach love with our hearts and they approach with their heads..I know that they test alot, that may have something to do with some insecurities or something.

Its no doubt these men can swoop you up into thier world of magic and euphoric and it may take a long time for a girl to get him out of her system if she has to..But when you get to the point where you can take em or leave your doiing pretty damn good. Ask me how I know...

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posted February 11, 2009 11:53 AM           

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The male Aquas I know seem to have a fear of commitment or deep bonding and never seem to admit it. Its like the head is always trying to over ride the heart no matter what. I know they are capable (everyone is) but for some its complicated for them to accept certain aspects of themselves. Also remember Aqua is co-ruled by Saturn and i have notice simular traits when is comes to love in dominant Caps and Aqua males. Sadly i feel to they play a game as means of testing.

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posted February 11, 2009 11:57 AM         

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I do find this in both Leo and Aquas that they are more confident this year in love and relationships..

In comparison, I find Leos Sun or Rising to be more relationship oriented this year..

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posted February 11, 2009 12:00 PM         

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praecipua,
i mean do they play games and mess with your head, say "please wait for me my feelings for you haven't changed" whilst they take some space and actually mean it or are they wanting you to massage their ego's?

I thought l knew Aquarian men pretty well but now i'm just so confused it's not funny lol
I hate games.

Mama Mia, yeah he's been testing me. He's very honest though yet emotionally he's confusing lol

Maybe it's just a fear of commitment. He says he will be back so l have to trust that!

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posted February 11, 2009 12:06 PM           

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Yeah they definetly have a fear of commitment and intimacy..Those are the hurdles that they need to over come. and it may take some time..If you can wait it out for him then good for you..I don't have the patience for that..I just went on about my business. Also though I think if they really think that you or know that you love them they will come back if they care as well..

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posted February 11, 2009 12:09 PM         

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I will wait it out Mama Mia. I think he's worth it and he said that he's not going anywhere.

I hope you are right and Jupiter in Aqua will give them the positive boost they all need

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posted February 11, 2009 01:45 PM         

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Mama Mia, you have to keep us posted about this Aqua man... interesting indeed that he suddenly decides to make an appearance again...

I hope all the Aqua Moons also get a little push by Jupiter...

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posted February 11, 2009 01:49 PM         

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I'm an Aqua that values freedom and independence and I'm always ready for love :]

I think it's because Venus is going to go retro soon.

Aquas aren't really game players, they just approach love situations logically so it may SEEM like they're playing games when in fact they are just being blunt and logical.

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posted February 11, 2009 01:49 PM           

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I wonder too, I have Aqua rising and moon, It may just be working on me as well..

"I think it's because Venus is going to go retro soon."

Hmmmm I met him during a Venus Retro as a matter of fact. I have seen a few couples get back together during a Venus retro only to break up again after it returns back..

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posted February 11, 2009 01:55 PM         

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Amowls, if they are blunt and logical (like myself) then why do they say "im taking some space and at the same time say that they still think the world of you and want to be with you and to be patient and the love will be what you want" lol

I'm scared of him manipulating me

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posted February 11, 2009 04:36 PM           

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oh that's simple, lara. it's cuz for us aquas, we HAVE TO mentally relate to our emotions, and we can only do that when we have space. so in fact, if he's saying he needs space and also telling you he wants to love you the way you want to be loved, he's probably taking the space TO figure out how to really be with you, and it's probably a good thing!

however, i have an aqua ex who manipulated me big time. i attribute it more to certain placements he had, and not the aqua in him at all, actually. so really it's a case by case thing.

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posted February 11, 2009 04:58 PM         

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Hey heartcakes

He didn't have libra moon, did he?
I love space so space is cool, as long as it's productive!
Thanks for explaining, i didn't realise that

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posted February 11, 2009 05:43 PM         

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there's too much space where I am hug anyone?

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Ascendant: Gemini
Sun: Pisces
Moon: Capricorn
Mercury: Pisces
Venus: Capricorn
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posted February 12, 2009 08:09 AM           

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lara, i don't think it is in aquarius nature to play game for ego. i agree that there is a fear of commitment, it's kind of scary because i think aqua's are aware of the meaning of a relationship, being there totally ( going over ego's need). so devoting yourself to someone in that way is a serious thing that can't be taken lightly.

i think aqua and taurus get on very well for the reason that both can be there after a long time has passed and would have left other sign wonder about what mean this need for space. obviously aqua are not perfect and they can learn from taurus that intimacy is not to be feared but enjoyed.

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posted February 12, 2009 08:12 AM           

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nyah, hug

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posted February 12, 2009 08:39 AM         

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tnx

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posted February 12, 2009 09:13 AM         

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praecipua, you don't know how happy l am that you said that. I adore my Aquarian and i'm sure that if he says to me that he's not going anywhere and that he won't feel any different about me no matter what l say l can TRUST him

hug Nyah!

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posted February 12, 2009 09:14 AM         

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Lara, he's telling you exactly what he thinks. He needs space to think. He's an Aqua. He's not pulling back to make you want him more.

Wait does this Aqua have a Libra Moon? I'm an Aqua with a Libra Moon ^_______^

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