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blue moon
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posted February 16, 2009 05:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
This question is an offshot from another thread.

Do people you know with Sun and Mercury conjuncts lack objectivity?

The first person I can think of with this placement is my mother. Er, yes, she has Sun/Mercury Conjunct.

However, Pluto is joined in on the action so this changes the whole picture. She is very insightful, has a good understanding of other people, has excellent instincts. But objective, no, sorry, this is not a word I would use to describe her mental outlook or her communication.

Self-absorbed was another word used, not so sure this is the case. The overall chart would explain this I am sure, as would the free will factor.

Like everything, I think it can be used to its best or not so well. So not everyone is going to identify as strongly with the description suggested for this aspect.

But, anyone who says they ARE objective and rational, well, we only have your word for it, don't we?

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darkdreamer
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posted February 16, 2009 06:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message
I don`t think objectivity exists.

I`m not objective, but I am aware of it and try to come as close as possible.

I have Sun conjunct Mercury exact in Sag in 1st house.

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Lara
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posted February 16, 2009 06:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
OBJECTIVE: Uninfluenced by emotions or personal prejudices: an objective critic.

If l am 3rd party l can be objective. If it's about me and another then no
I find it hard to remove my emotions from the scene of the crime, or rather my sun/mercury in Taurus in 3rd or 10th house does.

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Got Gemini?
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posted February 16, 2009 07:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
I am a very objective person and my Sun and Merc are tightly conjunct. I've always been the type of person to look at situations objectively when necessary. When I first heard of this Sun-Merc conjunct lacking objectivity almost a year ago I really didn't understand why they said that.

My Sun and Merc are both in Gemini which is ruled by Mercury, the mental planet. So being objective comes easily to me. I very very very rarely react out of emotion or react to a situation emotionally. I've always observed and analyzed situations for what they were and reacted in what I thought was a rational or logical manner. I think my Virgo Asc (ruled by Merc) also plays a role in it. You have to think about it. I think our Asc plays a part in all new situations.

I know a few non-objective people and most of them don't have Sun-Merc conjuncts. But this is sometimes where astrology and psychology intertwine. I know I may get bashed for this but please understand I'm not being chauvanistic when I say this. But in my observations, most men I know are objective, a LOT more so then women.

One of my best friends is an Taurus sun but has an Aries Merc and Venus. That Aries abruptness sometimes gives him the flavor of being non-objective but when you listen to what he says, he is being objective.

There is another brother in my Masonic Lodge who is an Aries Sun and he also seems very subjective but when you separate the emotion he shows from the message he gives, you see that he does come from an objective standpoint.

Even my personality type is an ENTJ.

*Dodges blue moon's friendly jab*

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Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
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Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon)
And yes, i'm a guy!

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Lara
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posted February 16, 2009 07:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
actually GG l agree cos my taurus sun/mercury and aries venus can make me appear non-objective but l just find that most people don't actually listen properly lol

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afflictedvenus
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posted February 16, 2009 08:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message
quote: But, anyone who says they ARE objective and rational, well, we only have your word for it, don't we?

I think objective and rational are two different things,
I am very objective most of the time but if my feeling are provoked I have to work harder to be rational
I'm not convinced of the sun/moon blend being to lame for lack of objectivity because I've learned that if anything will upset the balance it's the emotions not the inner soul and I wonder if it's moon/jupiter that causes problems as jupiter rules sag which is the 9th and philosophy
most who are good with philosophy can be objective and I live with 2 sag's that are learning that it's not just about them so I believe jupiter has to be in the picture somewhere

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MyVirgoMask
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posted February 16, 2009 09:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
No such thing as objective. All who say they are, are subjectively objective .... But then it's all subjective, wouldn't you say?

Got Gemini, I've met some hysterical women, but on the other end of the spectrum I've met a lot more men who would like so much to think of themselves as objective because they sooooo stubbornly believe that any display of emotion isn't rational or objectiveness....which just isn't true.

For the record, I know women who can be a lot more level-headed than men.
And I know a fair amount of extremely emotional and non-objective Mercury conjunct Sun people, as well as a few who are objective. It's been a mixed bag.

I have seen a lot of tunnel vision with this aspect though.

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Lucia23
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posted February 16, 2009 09:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
I have Sun/Merc conjunct in Leo.

I agree with those who problematize the idea of "objectivity"--I think it's less about objectivity, and more about seeing things in a way that isn't completely self-centered.

Intellectually, I put a lot of conscious, conscientious effort into understanding things in a broad, deep, truthful way (8th house Sun, Sun-Uranus sextile.)

I feel like the more negative aspects of Sun-Mercury play out for me emotionally...I want what I want, when I want it, the way I want it, and I want to understand the other person's secret thoughts NOW.

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darkdreamer
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posted February 16, 2009 09:41 AM           Edit/Delete Message
MVM,

"No such thing as objective. All who say they are, are subjectively objective .... But then it's all subjective, wouldn't you say?"

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Lara
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posted February 16, 2009 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
LOL MVM, that is nuts and i'm subjectively objectively speaking here!!


Or course one can be objective... anything FACTUAL is objective.

Here's an example. "your definition of objective versus subjective is factually incorrect".
lmao

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blue moon
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posted February 16, 2009 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Tunnel Vision ~ I like that one. Worked well that could be determined, single-minded, goal-orientated.

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darkdreamer
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posted February 16, 2009 11:12 AM           Edit/Delete Message
MVM,

would you agree that absolute objectivity is not possible, since we are all part of the system, of which we evaluate parts?

What I mean is that as we are born into this world and come in contact with other people, our perception is being shaped. And the very existence of something like "perception" makes it impossible to be absolutely objective, because our perception is coloured / shaped by our experiences, values etc.
Even if we aren`t emotionally involved in a situation, we can`t put down the glasses through which we look at that world (our perception).

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Lara
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posted February 16, 2009 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
No but a fact is a fact, objectively speaking

There are plenty of objective people in the world, unless you now wanna disagree with Einstein's theory of relativity and every scientific fact lol

(yeah i'm playing devil's advocate - i like to be the black sheep and muddy up the field)

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blue moon
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posted February 16, 2009 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Some people are more non-absolute objective than others.

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Lara
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posted February 16, 2009 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
LOL
i can be pretty objective when l want to be. It's a choice!

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scrappydog
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posted February 16, 2009 11:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message
I think close ones definately yes, these are very subjective people and don't even realize it. Remember that blind spot that conjunctions can have and then involving mercury on top of that!

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darkdreamer
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posted February 16, 2009 12:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message
BM,

agreed.

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missneptune
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posted February 16, 2009 12:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message
This question can go both ways. A person with lets say Virgo Sun conjunct Virgo mercury will probably be far more objective than a Pisces Sun conjunct Pisces Mercury, but its important to factor other aspects Mercury makes, and I feel the Moon sign and placement either makes one more objective or subjective.

From my own experience I'm far from objective, and I have Sun conjunct Mercury in Leo with a 3 degree orb in the 9th house. However I'm not such an subjective person that I only think of my point of view, which is a problem when someone lacks objectivity.

Another aspect that seems to put a damper on objectivity is Sun conjunct Moon, no?

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MyVirgoMask
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posted February 16, 2009 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, MissNeptune, that is true. It does depend on the sign to an extent. My mother is a late Aquarius and early Pisces Mercury, and the two conjunct in her first house...she most certainly is *not* objective. She comes off as extremely anxious and emotionally reactive. I'm wondering if the first house turns up the emotional pitch or something if it's a water sign there...

I do know a double Taurus with Sun conjunct Moon, and Sun conjunct Mercury (also in Taurus). Bless him, he tries to be objective, and I think he can be to an extent (unless he's got an idea set in his mind - then, forget it LOL) . All three planets fall into the 11th house - I'm wondering if this helps him a bit. For some reason the 11th house seems like it would loosen some of that Taurean hold, maybe.

Interesting subject!

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