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Topic: Lindaland Romance Help: Your experiences
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Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 17, 2009 01:02 AM
Hi everyone, I notice that a LOT of the astrology questions on Lindaland ask for romantic advice and help. I've gotten curious about the role Lindaland advice has played in improving everyone's love life--share your stories! IP: Logged |
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 144 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 17, 2009 02:44 AM
Zip. I still have the same old boyfriend I have had for 16 years..... EDIT: no-one else? IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 82 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 17, 2009 12:38 PM
At times there are questions in my heart and LindaLand is like a living magical book that answers my questions and gives me peace of mind. If I am troubled by, for example, a Virgo man or a man with strong Virgo or Mercury placements and I'm wondering if I should keep him as a friend or as a love interest or if he will be a kind neighbor or teacher to my child or whatever I am worried about... I will come with the question weighing on my mind and there will be posts and answers at LindaLand that give me insight much like Tarot cars will... on the archetypical energies, and the dynamics between them, in play at the moment for me. It often helps me realize what I need to learn.Also, the few times I have directly asked for help myself because I felt confused or lost... many people have said things that offer comfort, help me feel not so alone, and most importantly... remind me of the things I most sincerely want to believe in even if my faith is not as strong that day. I have always found this community to be a magical blessing in that way. I've also noticed that when no answers seem to be quickly available... the answer is often that I have some things that I am meant to share with others. It all works out nicely. As for astrological advice specifically working out, I think any advice given helps us to think about specific energies and often whatever specific energies are mentioned are the ones we can learn from if we meditate on those. We don't always get the answers to the questions we ask, but we get the answers we need for questions we didn't ask. I might wonder if "he's the one?" and I might get the answer that he's the one who you can work out this particular dynamic with or I might ponder if I am ready, willing, or meant to work out a particular dynamic at a particular time... and that was what I was meant to ponder at that time to lead me to the next step (or question) in my journey. I like what I wrote. It kind of just came to me so it's almost like I'm giving a thumbs up to an outside writer. I hope someone else enjoys it or finds it helpful. Love you guys, ~M
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emma_duncan Knowflake Posts: 24 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 17, 2009 12:45 PM
it provides so many differnt perspectives just broadens your horizon and way to view situationsIP: Logged |
future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 3 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 17, 2009 01:19 PM
I joined this website a few months after my boyfriend and I started dating... that was almost five years ago and we're married now, soooooo...He's a Virgo and I'm a Sag, so it's been quite complicated at times, but I really, truly believe that we would not still be together without the resources here. Sometimes it was astrological, sometimes it was psychological or emotional. But always, the advice has been useful and has changed my life! There aren't a lot of people I can talk to like I do the you guys here, so it's definitely given vailidity to a lot of my questions, concerns, and more. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 17, 2009 08:17 PM
Great posts.IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 49 From: NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 17, 2009 08:51 PM
*nod nod* no one looks at you like you're crazy here. Definitely makes me feel less lonely and comforted.anybody got a kleenex? IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 30 From: a previous life Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 17, 2009 10:46 PM
lindaland actually saved my sanity, literally! last summer. i went through hell and this is the first time i really understood the power of transits, thanks to some caring people here, blue moon is one of them. also koi and happy dragon. i had not been that depressed in years. a few comforting words carry a person a long way. it may be the only thing they hold on to, even if the person who said it has forgotten. believe it! if i would not have gone through what i had i would not be where i am today. i went through a maturing process, which takes pain and learning. life is better and i know if i would not have gone through that crisis, i would not have appreciated as much my blessing who i threw away. we are reunited and ill never complain about him again (okay lets be realistic. ill keep it to a minimum.)or take him for granted. dont even know why he came back, but hes back. i still hate chiron, though. IP: Logged |
babeefoxx unregistered
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posted February 18, 2009 02:04 AM
I joined Lindaland after getting into my relationship, a very complicated one. Meeting through a mutual friend, my Virgo lives on one side of the state (Los Angeles County), and I live in the Bay Area. He has truely climbed mountains for me, despite popular belief that Virgos are cold (He is a Cancer rising). Despite many of our polar differences, it somehow works. The only think now stopping us from being happy is the distance, which will go away this year. I don't know much about our synnastry except that our moons square (but oddly, since my moon is cancer , his asc is cancer, my asc libra and his moon libra), and a grand trine of my venus, his sun and saturn? I would like to know more! I believe he is put into my life for a very big reason. I get little signs from God all of the time Anyhoo! Can anyone help me with our aspects? ------------------ I love my Virgo <3 S: Aries ASC: Libra M: Cancer V: Taurus M: Gemini IP: Logged |
wheelsofcheese Knowflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted February 18, 2009 06:50 AM
I liked what Mel said here: quote: I might wonder if "he's the one?" and I might get the answer that he's the one who you can work out this particular dynamic with
and what taurusvirgoleolady said: quote: a few comforting words carry a person a long way. it may be the only thing they hold on to, even if the person who said it has forgotten
One of the most important things ever said to me by a person on here about romantic astrology combined the essence of those two quotes above (i.e. that I may learn something very important in my relationship and that yes, sometimes learning scares you out of your wits). Instead of running away from the relationship or pressing the self-destruct button I'm going with it, whilst honouring both his right to be weird and unpredictable sometimes and my right to be weird and unpredictable sometimes. This has meant that I have had some truly astounding moments of joy in the last six months, as well as some not-so-great moments. But as the same LL-er said, what time is ever wasted? I've been in some dark places since I joined up to LL but I realise that I'm not alone and that people understand. And I understand that sometimes people react differently to me in a given situation, which is a very mellowing experience. <<< that might sound like a really blindingly obvious thing but to me it wasn't. This place is great. IP: Logged |
cancerrg unregistered
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posted February 18, 2009 01:04 PM
very well said Mystic ! i have a lot to thank to all the wonderful people here ! Thanks LL IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 30 From: a previous life Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2009 01:28 PM
quote: I've also noticed that when no answers seem to be quickly available... the answer is often that I have some things that I am meant to share with others. It all works out nicely.
quote: We don't always get the answers to the questions we ask, but we get the answers we need for questions we didn't ask
MysticMelody, you are on the money. only the wiser know these important things! well said! not only on lindaland, but in other aspects of life. lindaland IS a blessing,true. for those who it is meant to be for...IP: Logged |
augentier unregistered
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posted February 18, 2009 03:06 PM
I frequent two boards that often have women asking for relationship/guy advice. Linda Land and another one I won't mention...On the other board, their advice is always: DUMP HIM. or, HE'S JUST USING YOU AS A SEX TOY, etc.. Linda Land users seem to take a different approach..patience, kindness, compromise and if things don't work out just letting them be. Linda Land advice regarding a major relationship I had (and am still kind of going through) helped me cope with the heartache and gave me better advice than I could have thought up on my own. ------------------ Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius Venus::Scorpio Mars::Pisces IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2009 03:14 PM
Heh...when I posted on another board about an unrequited situation, everyone was like, "He's just using you as a sex toy."The thing was, the guy had never even touched me!! I WANTED advice about how to attract him sexually. It was like they never even read my post. So often on boards, people don't address the question asked. Often the question is, "How can I attract this person?" and people answer, "You shouldn't try, you should move on." I almost never want strangers' opinions on what I should or shouldn't do...I want strangers' ideas on HOW I can get what I want, should I decide to take a particular course of action. I find that brainstorming openly with others, in that type of situation, can be sooo helpful in generating new ideas. Yet few are willing to do it. IP: Logged |
cheshirekat unregistered
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posted February 18, 2009 03:31 PM
I like LL alot better then the last message board I was on, it was reeking with flamers and people just being flatout rude, I remember people puttting eachother down in threads and not adressing the topic at hand and eventually I realised it really was not the astrological message board I was looking for like LL (actually) adresses atrological issues that plague me and I enjoy reading everyone's post and I can actually take something meaniful from it. Then just "your a critical non-emotional whorish retarded Virgo!" and when I was there I admit I was turning into something that wasn't pleasant because I always feel the need to defend myself but it got out of hand so here I am and thank GAWD! X3But I did come here for love advice on a Cappy and I enjoyed the advice I got on that issue. Edit:I hate the school comp >.> IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion unregistered
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posted February 18, 2009 03:37 PM
the support on this board is truly amazing, not just relationship advise, but even other things in life. zala, hd, iq. lexx and others have been there with insight and compassion and support in many situations in my life. my daughters accident among other things. i truly consider many of you my "friends" and speak of stuff that i keep inside most of the time. you know many things my real life friends have no clue about. i am greatful for this place.IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 16 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted February 18, 2009 04:28 PM
The support on this board is good, it's better than most actually. But I still think it could improve, I hate to see when someone is hurting and in need of help and only one or two people answer a question. It only takes a few minutes to try to help someone, it's not hard.IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 82 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 18, 2009 06:41 PM
"Linda Land users seem to take a different approach..patience, kindness, compromise and if things don't work out just letting them be." Nice Thank you for commenting you kind people. Hi Wheels!
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future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 3 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 18, 2009 09:04 PM
You said it, Augentier. IP: Logged |
Heart--Shaped Cross unregistered
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posted February 18, 2009 11:31 PM
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