posted February 25, 2009 04:40 PM           

To look cool? Mysterious? They're facebook pics, think of myspace and all the "cool" posing.

posted February 25, 2009 04:44 PM         

Advice: You are doing this waaay backwards. Hang out with him, regularly and IN PERSON, for a few months. Sleep with him or (if you are one of those who does not have sex with people before you are deeply committed to them) make out with him. Ask him about himself and his life and passions, tell him about yours.

And THEN analyze his chart and your synastry.

posted February 25, 2009 04:57 PM           

I'm just asking for a few ASC guesses.

I'm not building a fantasy, I'm simply stating what I've seen and/or witnessed.
Me building a fantasy would be thinking of a relationship/putting him on a pedestal and all sorts of similar crap.

posted February 25, 2009 05:04 PM         

If you don't know someone well enough to do that, it seems intrusive/stalkerish to post pictures of him on an internet site without his permission, even if he has posted them elsewhere on the net.

Sorry for defensive mode too...I've recently had a run-in with a stalkerish fan. He's a perfectly nice person, not a psycho, but I value my privacy.

posted February 25, 2009 05:20 PM           

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it seems intrusive/stalkerish to post pictures of him on an internet site without his permission, even if he has posted them elsewhere on the net.

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How many of the members in here that have created similar threads, have asked for permission? I won't keep the pics up for too long anyway.

FFS I don't stalk people, i'm not out of my mind and If I do fawn over a certain individual in a certain way, that's my problem.
Right now, I just want a few suggestions, just like everyone else in this place, a tiny bit of help.

posted February 25, 2009 10:03 PM         

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PS His profile was private, we are facebook "friends" now, so I'm making small [baby] steps of getting to know him better I guess.

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Good! One more thing on the Neptune, and then I'll get out of here and leave this thread alone...

I know from personal experience (mine and friends) that obsessing about a guy BEFORE or DURING that crucial stage when you're just getting to know each other can actually screw up/diffuse your energy and the vibe you send out, and keep the two of you from ever really getting together.

Studying a guy's chart or your synastry, scrutinizing his behavior with friends or online, googling him, reading his FaceBook page---before you are close in real life, these activities can cause you to create an image of the person in your mind. If you ever do get to know the person after that, they will pick up on the weird energy of those activities and your attitude about them. If you've ever been on the other side of this, you'll know what I mean. I've been on both sides of it.

Strong Neptune contacts make you likelier to build up a fantasy of the person, and with those you have to be especially careful to keep the relationship, friendship, or even just aquaintence-ship grounded in reality. It's worth being careful about.

Throw a little party, invite him via Facebook, see what he's like.

posted February 26, 2009 06:05 AM           

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it's weird some people jump the gun on one type of behavior in posting and then dismiss it when others do it, have seen this happen a lot, eh, ive done it once or twice myself.

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I made one chart for noon and a random one for 10 pm

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posted February 28, 2009 07:08 AM           

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i think, long horsey face and when they're viewed from the side they look more plump than when viewed from the front, as in double their size from the side. if that makes sense.

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