posted March 05, 2009 05:57 PM           

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I feel as if I'm dating one of these particular men. Its becoming difficult for my Scorpio sun/Aries rising mentality to grapple with I feel like my girlfriends, roommates, any girls when we're out; in general are just excessively touchy with him, give him alot of attention, etc. Very uncomfortable for me. Is it his sun in first? I don't know. But its torturous. I guess my real question is it something in his behavior.
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posted March 05, 2009 05:58 PM         

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Scorpio jealousy on your part?

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posted March 05, 2009 06:33 PM         

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He probably likes the attention, but just because other girls are all over him doesn't mean he's doing anything particularly wrong. Does he initiate the flirting?

My boyfriend enjoys flirting/talking to women at bars and parties, but it's all stupid bid to make me jealous (he has Mars opposite Pluto both squaring Venus). Of course, being an Aquarius Sun, I'm just like "haha whatever dude" and ignore it.

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posted March 05, 2009 06:37 PM         

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Here's a message: you can't tell whether it is him that is doing this or not on the basis of a chart. You can't also tell whether it is you who might have a wrong view of this.

What I will tell you is that it seems that he can be quite charismatic. He has Sun in the first, which rules his DC. He has Mercury conj his Sun, which rules his 5th/8th. He also has Mars in the first and Aquarius rising. This all points to a projection possibly of uniqueness, charisma and directness and a confident talker (Mars rules his 3rd). This does not however definitively point to the fact that he encourages this or is a player.

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posted March 05, 2009 06:42 PM         

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What you are describing is a very standard Pisces man situation..

I can show you examples from Libras to Aqua women who have dated Pisces men but eventually realized it is in nature of Pisces to love 'One to Many'..

No need to worry.. generally, they are very loyal and understanding.. but yes, they have the charm.. everyone gets attracted to!

There is no solution except you would need to cage him inside a bit more and clearly show him that you don't like him loving 'One to Many'.. JUST BE REAL WITH YOUR ISSUES BECAUSE JEALOUSY will PILE UP.

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posted March 06, 2009 10:58 AM           

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No need to worry.. generally, they are very loyal and understanding.. but yes, they have the charm.. everyone gets attracted to!

Yep I have this alot, I am just being friendly..

There is no solution except you would need to cage him inside a bit..

Nope that would never work, you can't cage in a Pisces..Especially one with A Aqua rising and Mars in Aqua..

What you can do is express to him how you feel when this kinds of stuff happen and I am sure that if he really cares about you and your feelings he will try and adjust things so that you feel a bit more secure..

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posted March 06, 2009 07:45 PM           

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It's definitely a Pisces thing, especially mixed w/ a scorp moon. My ex is a Pisces and alllll of my female friends would drool over him, blatantly. Your guys sun/ moon combo makes him that much more appealing. Don't worry, though this doesn't mean that he will wander, the scorp moon should make him steadfast.

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posted March 06, 2009 09:10 PM         

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LOL amowls!

My guy attracts lots of attention too and he is Libra sun, Cancer moon.
Just remember that you have something over all these girlies: it's YOU he's going home with

Of course if you wanna show these girls whose top dog you could swagger over to him and say 'take me home baby, I'm so hot for you'

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