posted March 08, 2009 08:45 AM           

But – I feel some strong chemistry, a mixture between extremely warm/friendly/sympathetic feelings (from me for him) - AND a more or less erotic attraction too. I had some vision of the most comfortable and fulfilling “cuddling up kind of sex” with him, haha. Nothing much happened so far, we didn’t even really spoke to each other decently (met in a group of people) – but I’d love to get to know him better. I find him very witty and charming, intelligent and … kind.

Problem is: I am new in town (just moved here) – and I am not sure whether he is still with his (ex?)girlfriend or not. All I know is that he was very much in love with her, that they spent a long time with each other and that he used to say things like: “I wanna have a dozen of kids with my girlfriend.” There are rumours that they split a while ago, and that he suffered by that - but I don’t know anything more concrete until now – and I’m a bit shy to “investigate” further …

I know about his birth date and –place, but I don’t know his birth time. So I won’t post a synastry chart (because it’s not clear in which of his chart-houses my planets would fall.) But I’ll post some of his planet-placements here, in comparison with mine. Maybe some of you find the time to take a look at this … and share your spontaneous impressions with me?

For the first time I share my Sun-sign with a romantic interest! He’s a Cancer Sun too, just like me.

orbs 0.5 dg

His SUN (in my 8th house)
cj. my Sun
cj. my Sappho
cj. my Kitty
cj. my Guinevere
sextile my MC (exact)
sextile my Saturn
sextile my Anteros
sextile my Sirene
sextile my Casanova
sextile my Fate
sextile my Identity
trine my IC (exact)
trine my Hera
square my Destiny (exact)
square my Triumf (exact)
square my Amor
square my Cupido
square my Lovejoy
square my Swindle
square my Chaos
square my Sun/Eros
square my Venus/AS
square my own Name-asteroid
opposite my Romance (exact)
opposite my Venusia
opposite my Medea
opposite my Bondage

His MOON (in my 8th house) is probably conjunct his Sun, so it’s either in late CANCER or early LEO – which would make up for a conjunction to my own Cancer-SUN – and/or cj. my own late Cancer-MARS – and/or cj. my own Leo-MERCURY

His MERCURY (in my 9th house)
cj. my Isis
cj. my Husbandry
cj. my Desire
cj. my Amanda
cj. my Minerva (exact)
cj. my Sun/Venus
cj. my Venus/Mars
sextile my Lovejoy (exact)
sextile my Cupido
sextile my Adonis
sextile my Sun/Eros (exact)
sextile my Sun/Juno
sextile my Venus/Eros (exact)
trine my Amor
trine my Destiny
trine my Circe
trine my Libido
trine my Triumf
trine my Lovers (exact)
square my Anteros
square my Sirene
square my Proserpina
square my Melancholia
square my Pinocchio
opposite my Moon/Uranus

His VENUS (in my 7h house)
cj. my Sun/Juno
cj. my Mars/Juno
sextile my Amor
sextile my Destiny
sextile my Desire
sextile my Marriage
sextile my Corruptness
sextile my Damocles
sextile my Triumf
sextile my Mercury/Venus
sextile my Venus/Mars
trine my Cupido
trine my Lovejoy
trine my own Name-Asteroid
trine my Sun/Eros
trine my Venus/AS
square my MC/IC
square my Hera
square my Casanova
square my Fate
opposite my Moon
opposite my Libido
opposite my Lovers

His MARS (in my 8th house/close to 9th house-cusp)
cj. my Mercury
cj. my Husbandry
cj. my Don Quixote (exact)
sextile my Uranus
sextile my Karma
sextile my Sun/Moon (exact)
trine my Chiron
trine my Circe
trine my Life
trine my Urania
trine my Discovery
trine my Change
trine my Phoinix
square my Juno
square my Harmonia
square my Liebe (“Love”)
square my Happiness
square my Popularity
square my Wildcat
square my Geisha
square my Children
square my Moon/Pluto
square my Venus/Eros
opposite my Lust (exact)
opposite my Catastrophe (exact)
opposite my Abundantia (exact)
opposite my Ex-boyfriend’s Name-asteroid
opposite my Bonus

Some more fascinating placements

His CHIRON cj. my AMOR (exact)
His VERTEX cj. my AMOR (2 dg)
His CERES cj. my VENUS (4 dg)
His JUNO cj. my Sun/Moon-Mp (1 dg.)

In his own chart: His EROS cj my Name-asteroid (5 dg.)

In my own chart: His Name-asteroid in my 1st house, cj my Phoinix and Part of Change (1 dg.)

My last love experience was very hurtful and draining – and even though I am quite well liked by men … I found it hard to fall in love again with someone new, since my last break-up, about a year ago. At the end of this year I’ve got a very promising transit coming up, which will last for quite a long time (for 1.5 years): Tr. Pluto will trine my natal Venus and Juno. I hope (I believe!) that this will give my love life a boost again. So I wonder … whether this guy up here could be some … ouverture to this? Whether this attraction is just an eye-opener …? Or … maybe … the “real thing” already?

As always, your input would be very appreciated.

posted March 08, 2009 09:00 AM           

FOR HIM:

Tr. SATURN
- cj. his natal Psyche
- sextile his natal Sun
- square his natal Venus
- trine his N.N.
- oppos. his natal Eros/my Name-conjunction in his chart

Tr. URANUS
- trine his natal Sun
- oppos. his natal Psyche

Tr. PLUTO
- cj. his natal Jupiter&Amor-conjunction

FOR ME:

Tr. SATURN
- cj. my natal MC
- trine my natal Saturn

Tr. Uranus
- trine my natal Sun
- square my natal Moon

posted March 08, 2009 02:47 PM           

And now ... this very warm, obviously family bound Cancer-guy.

Strange! In my past (up until my 38th birthday last summer) it had ALWAYS been the playful, handsome, macho-like LEO-types ... some ARIES, some intellectual/stern/not-so-tender VIRGOs, CAPRICORNs.

Maybe I am overdue to re-think my partner-pattern ...?;-)