posted March 10, 2009 05:18 PM         

what can i look forward to in my life?
i feel so lost and alone..
my dob is 15/03/1971
tob:03:45 am at Bombay maharashtra,India
I am a female who seeks hlep

will i ever become a mother i am already 37...will i ever remarry..will i be able to trust again?

will i stay here or will i be travelling abroad as i donot know what positives can i take back from my debacle..

i was a very well known lady and very disciplined and well liked before marriage..even my best fried seems to find me a untouchable now..please, help

i am requesting help desperately..
thanks
shabi

posted March 10, 2009 07:27 PM         

The full moon today in Virgo is conjunct Saturn, highlighting your plight even more.

It won't be like this forever. Saturn will move out of its opposition to your sun, and next year, when Jupiter will travel in Pisces, you'll have quite a few goodies coming your way.

posted March 10, 2009 08:47 PM         

I haven't looked at your chart yet either, though I hope to very soon, but I did want to try to comfort you in some way..

Don't you give up hope, because you are so much more than this! I'm in a similar situation, only I also lost my job today, along with other craziness in my life, but there is no way I'm giving up yet. I was talking to a friend today who told me about this Chinese saying - when you hit rock bottom, you automatically bounce back up. I truly believe that these challenges are sent our way to make us stronger. We must stand up to them, because these are tests in our path. I think of folks like us facing huge challenges as 'truly special' for getting to face tougher tests than others who may not have to; it's like we are the chosen ones. If we can keep our heads and get through the dark times, we will truly come out on top, and life will have to turn around.

It is a wonderful thing that your parents are behind you. Your friends are no friends if they cannot support you through this - I hope you find some new ones - maybe a support group near where you are, for starters? We are all behind you in this journey too, and would be glad to listen if you want to talk through it too. I'm caught up with so much right going on now, but I will try to look at your chart soon to see what's coming up for you..

posted March 11, 2009 06:37 PM         

To which she replied
"Hi Quinnie,
I don't have much time to read into her chart that deeply until the weekend, but if you want, begin by letting her know that transiting Jupiter will soon trine her Moon. Her Moon rules her relationship 7th House, so this is a reward aspect and may provide her with some relief quite soon.

You can do it, Quinnie!"

posted March 11, 2009 06:51 PM         

I am sending good thoughts your way ronitpf

I don't dare to comment further but I have no doubt that some of (more) experienced members will comment

posted March 11, 2009 07:06 PM         

I hope this helps!

posted March 12, 2009 09:44 AM         

i just hope i get out of this trauma

Thanks once again
members i beg you..please can u give explaination in laymen terms as i cannot understand these terms..i am asking you all to please spare time and help

please i beg

posted March 12, 2009 02:57 PM         

You have just come through one of the most difficult transits an adult will experience (Pluto squared Pluto) Then followed up by Pluto conjunct Mars.
You have already come through the worst....
Better things are on their way. Please be assured that you are a much stronger person now (though you may not feel that at times) You have been stripped of your previous identity quite harshly so you are no longer the same person you were before. You are renewed and will blossom from here on. Jupiter making a transit to your natal Moon will bring new growth but will be a wonderful experience, a time of nurturing and happiness, then the node will be aspecting your ascendant and you will look back and realise how much you have changed and evolved.
Don't worry good news is on it's way...And you through the worst.

posted March 12, 2009 04:50 PM         

Most important..betrayal and kids

my parents are continously worried about me...i feel so helpless..

posted March 12, 2009 05:13 PM         

Will you go abroad?..... Your planets in the 9th house(including your moon) say you can make a home anywhere so yes I have no doubt that you will. You want to. I sense a yearning to be free from your traditional roots as you will really feel much more fulfilled when your uniqueness shines. You need to develop your independance.

Will you have children?... Your 5th house ruler is soon to be visited by Uranus so this is awkakening an urge for children and certainly the potential for pregnancy is there.

Ofcourse if you marry the man in Canada you will become step mother to his two children. With regards to having your own children the potential is there right now and within the next few years.

The most important thing about betrayal and trauma is how you deal with it because your reaction will make you stronger and you will learn how to avoid it happening again.
You must trust.
A new phase of your life is about to start and everything you wish for is possible especially children.