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Topic: Scorpio vs Virgo - Where'd the SEX go???
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JMommaSlim
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posted March 17, 2009 11:40 AM
Okay! If you've read any of my last posts (which are far and few between) you'd know that after a year, or so of pushing and pulling, I finally had my Virgo man propose (YAY!).Now, there’s one problem though! When we started courting, sex was incredible. I mean it still is, but like my posts …….. far and few between. I’m not the type that has to have it EVERYDAY (though it would be LOVELY ….. I’m a Scorpio ….. I don’t think I can help it. LOL!), but sex once every week - every 2 weeks is driving me crazy. I think I read somewhere that Virgos don’t tend to stress sex too much. Is that true?
Don’t get me wrong. I love my Virgo to death and there’s no way in hell that I’ll cheat on him because of the lack of sex. Hell, when we do “do the deed”, it’s still INCREDIBLE, but it’s not as often as it used to be. When we first started dating I told him I had 2 fears of getting married. One was divorce and the other .. the LOSS of sex. I’ve even brought it up to him before about us doing “it” more often (being careful not to nag, LOL!) he listened, we did it, and then I was left with the feeling that he only did it because I said something about it, NOT because he wanted to. To be honest I think I’m just driving my-self crazy and READING way to deep into things. I’m not sure if it’s because I’m a Scorpio .. the EMOTIONAL aspect .. or because I’m a woman .. Again, the EMOTIONAL aspect .. LOL! I can’t win for losing! LMBO!
We both work, (both being military) we both have p.t (physical training) EARLY in the A.M., we both get off around the same time, I clean, cook, fed him, the kids and we’re both in bed by 9, 10 the latest (kids in bed and sleep by 8). There were times he would drive to my house at midnight and we had to be up at 4:45 A.M, but wouldn’t be sleep until 3. Now since I sleep with him every night (his request) things have changed. I think I’m going to stay at my place for a while. I always tell him this ‘ish is backwards. Isn’t it the man who usually complains about not “getting any”? LOL!
Thank for letting me vent!!! HIM: Virgo Male, Born 9-17-79 Jersey City, NJ 1:38 AM Me: Scorpio Female, Born 11-12-81 Columbus, GA 12:28 PM (his daughter & I have the same birthday .. except the year of course .. I feel bad for him, LOL!) IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted March 17, 2009 11:51 AM
Well congrats on the proposal!As a Virgo female i can assure you, I have had many drought with males so no, it's not always the guy who complains  And I think it depends on the person. I dunno. I'm Virgo with Mars Taurus and Scorpio Venus. My biggest sex drought was when Saturn square both my Mars and Venus in transit. I was married. It was not good. The sex suffered. I can't blame it on Saturn because it was just a reflection of what was going on. I don't know what you guys were used to? How often? Once every week sounds semi-normal if you've been together a long time. I'm not saying I'd like it 
My sex drive is all over the place = 8 times a day followed by a week of nothing LOL, More than a week of no nookie? No. Uh-uh. But then, that's me. He might b a different story. You would know better than I. If his drive is less and dropped off suddenly, look into transits. And also, you never know. Some people slow down sexually at a point in commitment. Not an astrological thing at all tho. Oh, and forget his sun. What's up with his MARS. And his FIRST HOUSE. Look at the transits to that. Forget the sun sign stuff, that's just bogus. Virgos needs sex just like everyone. We aren't made of steel wool. I'll strangle the next person who writes a damn article insinuating that Virgos don't think sex is important. The hell it's not. IP: Logged |
JMommaSlim
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posted March 17, 2009 12:04 PM
LOL! I didn't mean to insinuate that it was Virgo thing. I apologize, and I get mad when people say Scorpio’s are liars and cheaters, when I know not ALL of us are.
It used to be 3-4 x’s a day for 3-4 days out the week. Then it went down to one time, once a week. :O( I don’t know! Oh well! I guess I’ll see what happens, maybe I’ll try something new ;O)
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MyVirgoMask
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posted March 17, 2009 12:13 PM
Oh, I didn't mean you! I just meant articles about Virgos lol...and I know what you mean about Scorps. It is unfair  But I do think maybe looking at the transits would help, maybe. IP: Logged |
JMommaSlim
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posted March 17, 2009 12:17 PM
Yeah it is! I'm not that great at reading transits, but I'm sure I can figure it out.IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted March 17, 2009 05:54 PM
Hey hey. Another Virgo here. (Another female though sorry!)I can honestly say I don't think not wanting sex is a Virgo thing!!!
It's probably my favourite activity in life.
Also, in my last relationship I had a higher sex drive than my boyfriend. If it was plentiful at the beginning and has just worn off now that's probably just the usual thing of 'can't keep your hands off each other' stage wearing off. Unfortunately, this probably means this is his natural sex drive... unless he is particularly stressed at the moment? Holding back his true desires in bed? Could you pop up his chart for everyone to look at? Might have some clues. IP: Logged |
JMommaSlim
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posted March 18, 2009 11:47 AM
I'm thinking it might be the stress thing (I'm hoping it is). He's had some things happen at work, but here's his info none the less.
Sun Virgo 23°44'34 in house 3 direct
Moon Leo 8°32'29 in house 1 direct
Mercury Virgo 27°12'38 in house 3 direct
Venus Virgo 29°54'39 in house 3 direct
Mars Cancer 25°22'06 in house 1 direct
Jupiter Leo 27°32'08 in house 2 direct
Saturn Virgo 18°05'16 in house 3 direct
Uranus Scorpio 18°05'11 in house 5 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 17°48'31 in house 5 direct
Pluto Libra 18°08'05 in house 4 direct
True Node Virgo 8°28'30 in house 3 direct
Ascendant Cancer 23°46'35
2nd House Leo 13°32'10
3rd House Virgo 6°51'45
Imum Coeli Libra 6°30'55
5th House Scorpio 13°07'43
6th House Sagittarius 21°09'42
Descendant Capricorn 23°46'35
8th House Aquarius 13°32'10
9th House Pisces 6°51'45
Medium Coeli Aries 6°30'55
11th House Taurus 13°07'43
12th House Gemini 21°09'42
Hey it might just be me! LOL! Here's mine  in case someone was curious.
Sun Scorpio 20°13'38 in house 10 direct
Moon Gemini 1°16'59 in house 4 direct
Mercury Scorpio 4°38'48 in house 9 direct
Venus Capricorn 7°18'02 in house 12 direct
Mars Virgo 12°52'03 in house 8 direct
Jupiter Libra 27°04'43 in house 9 direct
Saturn Libra 17°16'52 in house 9 direct
Uranus Scorpio 29°46'00 in house 10 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 23°20'50 in house 11 direct
Pluto Libra 25°17'14 in house 9 direct
True Node Cancer 24°35'25 end of house 6 retrograde
Ascendant Capricorn 25°37'26
2nd House Pisces 5°58'16
3rd House Aries 14°02'55
Imum Coeli Taurus 14°12'38
5th House Gemini 8°34'58
6th House Cancer 0°59'15
Descendant Cancer 25°37'26
8th House Virgo 5°58'16
9th House Libra 14°02'55
Medium Coeli Scorpio 14°12'38
11th House Sagittarius 8°34'58
12th House Capricorn 0°59'15
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