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MoonPixie
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posted March 18, 2009 03:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonPixie     Edit/Delete Message
...what's the first (astrological) explanation you come up with in your head?

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Peri
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posted March 18, 2009 03:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
afflicted moon

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gorgeousbutterfly
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posted March 18, 2009 03:56 AM           Edit/Delete Message
i think it would have to be a lot more than one aspect for me. but moon square Saturn seems to be extremely negative.

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MyVirgoMask
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posted March 18, 2009 06:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Half the population?

Wait, that's not astrological!

Moon thing, I guess.

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amowls
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posted March 18, 2009 09:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
Moon.

My friend hates his mom even though she seems like a normal, nice mom to me. And his hatred for her stems from the fact that she's "stupid" and he felt that she paid more attention to his sisters than him.

He has a Scorpio Moon (which can translate into jealousy issues if not nurtured properly) in the 4th (comes out in the home/needs to have a secure homelife/represents the mother). It's not really afflicted so I'm assuming it has something to do with their synastry as well.

He is also the type that sort of ignores his Moon completely (probably why his Moon expresses the negative qualities of itself). He's a Leo Rising/Gemini Sun so he really identifies with the Gemini part of his personality. So he makes himself be detached, even if he isn't truly detached.

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writesomething
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posted March 18, 2009 10:11 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Aquarius, Scorpio, Capricorn moon.
Moon aspecting Saturn or Uranus.

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Atlenta
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posted March 18, 2009 11:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message
moon sq/opposite/conj mars/pluto
8th/10th house moon

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted March 18, 2009 01:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Snubbed Cancer.

Not particularly deep explanation but that is what first popped into my head.

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cheshirekat
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posted March 18, 2009 01:53 PM           Edit/Delete Message
An afflicted Moon O.o with Pluto whipping it or Saturn suffercating it and Uranus driving it batty.

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katatonic
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posted March 18, 2009 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for katatonic     Edit/Delete Message
i think it has to be more complex than afflicted moon. though there were times i didn't get along with my mother for the most part we were close and friendly. i have moon opp sat/merc AND squ chiron.

ditto my daughter and i she has moon sq sat/pluto and venus(t sq) and i remember an astrologer saying she would have trouble with a controlling mother LOL not only do we generally get along great but controlling is the last thing i have been...and i'm not just being self-serving, so many people have told me i wasn't controlling ENOUGH!

sometimes uranus/moon contacts can make for a difficult relationship, mother is so hard to predict/inconsistent...

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posted March 18, 2009 03:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message
I loath my mother and dreaded being her child She is the biggest let down in my life - honestly speaking. My moon is in Cancer with aspects to Saturn, Mercury and Pluto.

She had me when she was only 19 and her maternal instincts never kicked in - she was way to young to have kids and really hates them.

The composite chart is a real nightmare.

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gorgeousbutterfly
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posted March 18, 2009 05:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message
My mother was my best friend, and i have moon in 8th house. moon in leo, and it has many aspects all harmonious expect moon square Uranus and Jupiter. I got along with her just fine too. it wasn't perfect relationship but it was a good one.

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wildwhiterose23
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posted March 19, 2009 12:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message
I have my moon trine my Venus/Mars conjunction. I admire and love my mom. She is in my eyes, a true survivor (came from a childhood of poverty with an abusive mother,then years later an abusive husband). She has power(Mars sq Pluto in her natal)

On the flip side, My moon is in opp to Pluto and square Jupiter. She can be manipulative at times. She is an intense person. Like a Mama Bear. As I get older I feel there is a fine line between wanting to still to take care of me to wanting to control my life. Still love her though and for the most part we are understanding of one another(we're both Libra Sun)!

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heart cakes
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posted March 19, 2009 01:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message
TERRIBLE relationship with my mother, though i love her a lot and have tried endlessly to be close to her. i have a very afflicted moon and in whole sign houses have 4th house NN and saturn in 10th, both of which also describe emotionally volatile parents.

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posted March 19, 2009 04:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message
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i think it would have to be a lot more than one aspect for me. but moon square Saturn seems to be extremely negative.

Moon square Saturn is my tightest aspect (0 deg 05'). My mom and I have a T-square that involves my Moon conjunct her Mars square both my Saturn and Mercury. My mom also has Venus square Mars in her natal chart, with her Venus conjunct my Saturn, oppose my Mercury and square my Moon.

Here's our chart:
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y89/VitaNuova85/astro_61gw_01_12_anonymous_anonymou.gif

I had a nasty fight with my mom just today. Both me and my little brother were traumatized. I almost call the cops; it's that nasty and heartbreaking.

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IXIEveryTimeIDie
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posted March 19, 2009 11:07 PM           Edit/Delete Message
I have moon SEXTILE uranus/saturn & i don't get along with my mother. My moon has no harsh aspects, just trines and sextiles.

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MyVirgoMask
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posted March 19, 2009 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, Moon/Uranus is supposed to be stressful. I have the opposition, and no other aspect to my moon. My mother and I did have a rather harsh relationship when I was growing up. Only now is it easing up a little, because I am starting to forgive all the crazy crap she's done and continues to do.

Moon/Saturn can also be really stifling. I think maybe the mother tries to control or something. My ex had Moon conjunct Saturn in the 4th. His mother had him tied to her apron strings and manipulates him thoroughly with cream-coated words and started to cry and claw at him every time he needed to relocate for work and he always complied.

It's not pretty behavior for a man in his late thirties, believe me. I don't think it's this aspect alone though. But that Saturn glued to the Moon especially in the 4th sure looks stifling!

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leapinglemur14
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posted March 20, 2009 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for leapinglemur14     Edit/Delete Message
my sis and i both have moon square saturn and my bro has moon oppose saturn. We all pine for her attention, love and acceptance.

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MoonPixie
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posted March 20, 2009 01:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonPixie     Edit/Delete Message
Personally, I have Scorpio Moon in the 1st house. It's in trine to my Sun-Chiron conjunction. I find my mother stifling and a big emotional burden. She is a Cancer Sun-Venus (conjunct my Sun-Chiron) with Scorpio Mars conjunct my Moon. Her Gemini Moon conjuncts my Merc-Venus conjunction, as well.

Overall, our relationship is horrible. I've posted about her before, so I won't get into details. She's just overbearing and has terrible control issues. You'd think that we would get along with all of our conjunctions and trines, but it's definitely NOT the case...

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MoonPixie
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posted March 20, 2009 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonPixie     Edit/Delete Message
Note: I was wrong. Her moon is NOT conjunct my merc/venus. It is in opposition to my Saturn/Uranus conjunction.

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heart cakes
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posted March 20, 2009 01:38 AM           Edit/Delete Message
oh yeah, how could i forget? i also have moon exactly opposed uranus which is another big part of it.

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enchantress299
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posted March 20, 2009 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress299     Edit/Delete Message
Major Cancer aspects is what I usually think of...

My dad has a Cancer moon and hated his mom, the guy I dated last summer was a Cancer who hated his mom (and unfortunately I found out that extended to other women as well), my best friend has a Cancer moon and hates her mom... The list goes on. I think they're the most consistent with that. I knew one Cancer moon guy that absolutely loves his mom, but he's about the only one.

I'm sure there are also afflictions in the chart as well, but I haven't looked that closely at their charts.

Someone earlier said Scorpio Moon, and I might agree with that, since my brother has a Scorpio moon and he dislikes our mother.

As for myself, I was irritated by my mother, but never truly hated her. She was always trying to turn me into a girly girl with her Taurus Moon, and my Aries Moon insisted that I be a tom boy, so we butted heads about that for the entirety of my childhood, but that's about it. I think she's fine otherwise, but I don't really cling to her either.

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Virgo Sun/Aries Moon/Scorpio Rising

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Luvly
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posted March 21, 2009 12:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message
My Mom is my ROCK.

She has SAG SUN, Scorpio Moon

I'm a Scorpio Sun, Pisces Moon with Mercury in SAG and soomething else in SAG.

My Mom is tough - she calls it as she sees it (being true to her SAG Sun) but she is wise and very talented at reading people....she has Mercury Capricorn.

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