posted March 27, 2009 02:16 PM           

WHat to say ppl...It seems that I come here only when I need advice. I am ashamed of it littlebit. Strange and heavy things happen. This retro venus or dunno what is messing with my mind and life.

I had wonderful relationship last year after really stormy years. We met last year in April, 2008.
Relationship was nice and smooth, with big plans, engagement, weeding and so on. Then suddenly she "exploded" and made breakup 2 weeks ago.
It is interesting that I am having tr. NN + Progressive Sun conjucting Sun/Moon midpoint + tr. Jupiter conjcuting Venus. At the end of the year Progressive Moon conjucting natal Jupiter in 5th house trining Mercury (ruler of the 7th house) + NN conjucting Mercury. This is only some amount of transits thar are occuring or will.

My data: 26th December 1976, 6:20 AM, Zagreb, Croatia
Her data 25th December 1978, 5:45 PM, Zagreb, Croatia

Can I ask a favour? Could somebody experienced make some comment? Is this over? If it is, what is then in the "store" for me?
They said I will get married in the beginning of 2009.

Thank you,

posted March 28, 2009 10:33 PM           

* edit: The upcoming transits and progressions you mentioned ... they DO look very promising, at a first glance. Hm. *

posted March 29, 2009 12:08 AM         

I checked to see if you have hard Saturn transits which tend to correlate with difficult breakups.

Transiting Saturn is squaring your Ascendant with 23 minutes of arc applying right now, and that can indicate restrictions,limitations,and possible separations that involve relationships.

Transiting Jupiter is conjuncting your Venus with 53 minutes of arc now,and that can indicate possible expansion,optimism involving love,relationships.
There is a possibility that you can be fortunate love whether she comes back to you or you meet another romantic interest.

When I saw your girlfriend's chart, I went "Holy Sh-t"

I looked at her Venus conjunct Uranus in Scorpio,and it is only 7 minutes of arc. It is the most exact aspect in her chart. Therefore it's a dominant theme. The theme is unpredictability,change when it comes to love and relationships. There is a strong possibility that her affections,love nature can be unstable and restless.

I also noticed that transiting Jupiter is squaring her Venus-Uranus conjunction,and that could indicate expansion of that unstable,restless love nature which could lead to breaking free from the relationship.

Transiting Uranus semisquare her Sun with 51 minutes of arc apply right now,and that indicates change,unpredictability involving her self expression,ego,vitality. Sun is also men in her life, and so it could indicates changes,unpredictability involving men.

I looked at the synastry

Your Venus is square her Uranus with 2 minutes of arc! That is the most exact aspect in your synastry. That indicates that she can be too unpredictable,changeable for you. She could make changes in the relationship which could be breaking up with you...it can happen suddenly. Uranus has to do with being sudden,unpredictable

Your Venus is square her Venus with 9 minutes of arc! That is the 2nd most exact aspect in the synastry. That indicates even though there could be a strong romantic attraction between the two of you, there can be major conflict in regards to the things that you love and value as well as how you express affection.

You have Venus in Aquarius oppose Saturn in Leo which indicates that your love nature can be very serious,but it can involve restrictions.

Your Venus-Saturn opposition squares her Venus-Uranus conjunction for a t-square which indicates that your serious,restricting love nature can rub her independent,unpredictable love nature the wrong way. This t-square indicates major conflicts in the relationship. She might feel that she needs to break away from you because she might feel controlled by you even though you may not control her...it's just the way she feels.

Tansiting Jupiter squaring that synastry aspect. Therefore you're getting a shared experienced transit that involves expansion which can be in the form of her breaking free from you with her being the Venus-Uranus person.

Your Sun semisquares her Venus with 17 minutes of arc and her Uranus with 10 minutes of arc. Therefore, your Sun semisquares her Venus-Uranus, and this can indicate your self expression can have conflict with her unpredictable love nature.

I would have never thought that this relationship would be a long term. Her almost exact Venus conjunct Uranus in almost exact square to her Venus seems like a short term relationship that can end suddenly.

You have Moon in Pisces square Neptune, and her stationary Saturn in Virgo is forming a t-square with it. So she can be restricting your idealistic,empathetic feelings.
There can be emotional suffering in the relationship. A t-square is a sign that the relationship can be problematic...especially if it involves Moon and Saturn.

Your Moon in Pisces forms a t-square with her Mercury in Sagittarius square Saturn in Virgo, and that indicates that your emotional nature is in great friction with her serious thoughts. You might even feel that she is too critical of you.

There are some serious red flags.

even your Saturn sesquiquadrates her Midheaven exact which indicates that you can be restricting,limiting to her

Maybe her breaking up with you is the right thing to do.

She is going through her Saturn Return....Transiting retrograde Saturn is conjuncting her Stationary Saturn in 3rd house...indicates reality checks,discipline,structure,tough lessons involving communications

Her stationary Saturn squares your Ascendant with 2'27 orb, and so she can be resticting,limiting to you.

so transiting retrograde Saturn is aspecting your synastry aspect of Saturn square Ascendant which indicate that you two go through restictions,limitations,and reality checks.

I think that you would be much better off with somebody else.

That's just my opinion.

You should follow your heart and do what you feel is right for you and your girlfriend.

I wish you the best of luck.

Raymond