posted March 31, 2009 12:02 AM           

Here are our synastry aspects of planets sun thru mars- as well as Part of fortune, vertex, angles and asteroids valentine, karma, psyche, eros, juno, chiron and amor. I'm keeping the orbs within 3 degs too

Mine to his:
sun sextile n.node (1deg)
sun trine vertex (2deg)
sun sextile eros (1deg)
moon square moon (1deg)
moon conjunct DC (3deg)
mercury square juno (exact)
mercury trine valentine (1deg)
venus opposed venus (exact)
venus trine MC (exact)
mars sextile moon (exact)
mars sextile mercury (1deg)
N.node conjunct sun (1deg)
N.node conjunct PoF (3deg)
N.node square vertex (exact)
N.node sqaure eros (1deg)
N.node sqaure karma (2deg)
chiron conjunct chiron (2deg)
chiron trine eros (2deg)
PoF sextile PoF (1deg)
Vertex sextile juno (exact)
Juno opposed mars (exact)
Juno square n.node (2deg)
Juno sextile amor (1deg)
Eros opposed mercury (exact)
Eros square valentine (3deg)
Valentine trine n.node (1deg)
Valentine trine AC (1deg)
Psyche opposed moon (exact)
Psyche conjunct amor (3deg)
Amor square juno (1deg)
Amor trine valentine (exact)
Karma sextile chiron (exact)
Karma trine vertex (exact)
Karma sextile eros (exact)
AC square venus (3deg)
AC trine n.node (exact)
AC trine psyche (2deg)
MC opposed PoF (1deg)
MC square eros (2deg)

posted March 31, 2009 09:23 AM           

these are the most significant ones:
I will put those in brackets, that I personally deem as significant, but which are outside IQ`s rules.

[venus opposed venus (exact)]

N.node conjunct sun (1deg)

[Juno opposed mars (exact)]

Valentine trine n.node (1deg)
Valentine trine AC (1deg)

[Psyche opposed moon (exact)]
[Psyche conjunct amor (3deg)]

Amor trine valentine (exact)

AC trine n.node (exact)
AC trine psyche (2deg)

posted March 31, 2009 09:48 AM           

Yeah there are saturn aspects, these are them.

Mine to his:
square moon (4deg)
conjunct saturn (exact)- he's 4mths older
square juno (1deg)
sextile valentine (exact)

His to mine:
conjunct moon (3deg)
opposed mercury (2deg)
sextile jupiter (exact)
opposed amor (1deg)
square psyche (3deg)

Again, these orbs are under 3deg

posted March 31, 2009 11:14 AM           

according to IQ, the Valentine / NN aspects would be better.

Valentine represents sacrificial, unconditional love.

posted March 31, 2009 11:17 AM         

The people l have venus/NN with it's more LOVE than attraction. It's a deep love.

posted March 31, 2009 11:33 AM           

Maybe the house plays a role? In what house do these Valentine / NN-conjunctions happen, and in what house the Venus/NN ones?
Also what house does Venus rule?
If it`s not the 1st, 5th, 8th (or even 7th) it might not relate to attraction so much.

If you use equal houses, Venus would rule your 4th and 9th house, right?
Well, the 4th house would definitely carry more of that intimacy / closeness-vibe than an erotic attraction-vibe.

In my case Venus rules the 5th house, and I definitely feel her as attraction-planet.

posted March 31, 2009 11:45 AM           

Venus/NN conjunction=Soul mates..

posted March 31, 2009 11:49 AM         

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Venus/NN conjunction=Soul mates..

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If that's the case, I should still be with my ex....jah.

posted March 31, 2009 12:14 PM         

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Well keep in mind I said that along with Venus/Saturn conjunction is super glue..And well you do know that all soulmates don't stay together, they all serve different purposes..Some for lessons some for love and lessons..You know how this goes..

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posted March 31, 2009 12:21 PM           

But I agree, Venus / NN of course is a very significant placement and it has much to do with the purpose / destiny of a person (as the NN is involved).

posted March 31, 2009 12:29 PM           

I agree thats why I mentioned the Venus/Saturn connection..but even with that there is other aspects that would have to take place..Dulce, were there any other placements that were strong..For me along with those other two were a couple strong one Sun cojunct moon, Venus conjunct moon, Sun conjunct Venus..As well as some other lower planet connections..And all that set aside you just kind of know..When you meet a soulmate the connection is like no other..Not always a garuntee that its gonna be eternal, but you always know the difference with a soulmate..

posted March 31, 2009 12:43 PM           

Astrologically speaking I think that it is necessary to have strong synastry bewteen the personal planets and angles, coupled with the so called "karmic" planets.

Personally I always look out for Moon, IC and the Nodes (lunar symbolism has a lot to do with the "soul"), coupled with the more romantic planets like Venus for example (if we are talking about romantic soulmates). Also ASC, as this is the point where "heaven and earth meet", the beginning of your existence, from the spiritual (12th house) to the physical (1st house). At least I think it could be like this.

posted March 31, 2009 01:19 PM         

Cosmobiologists and Uranian Astrologers view Midheaven as the soul,the
"I", the individual as well as the moment and minute.

To them, it's the most personal and significant point in a person's chart.
It also seems that they incorporate the meanings of the Imum Coeli into the Midheaven. They just see the whole Midheaven-Imum Coeli axis as the Midheaven.
They incorporate the meanings of the Descendant into the Ascendant. They see the whole Ascendant/Descendant axis as having to do with environment and relationships.
They see the north lunar and south lunar nodes as having to do with meetings,connections,associations. They view that whole as axis as just the node.

They don't differentiate the aspects, and so they refer to them as = Therefore, they don't care if it's conjunct the Imum Coeli or conjunct the Midheaven. They don't care if its conjunct the Ascendant or conjunct the Descendant. They don't care if it's conjunct the Midheaven or conjunct the Imum Coeli. They don't differentiate those conjunctions.

They also see the midpoints involving those points as significant.
Venus = Midheaven/Node midpoint is viewed as a soul love connection.

It really depends on the system of astrology that you use.

I do believe that the aspects to the Midheaven are very underrated in Astrology because astrologers tend to view Midheaven as just the career,social status.

if anything, the Uranian Astrologers view the Aries Point which is 00'00 Aries is viewed as like the Midheaven in regards to what they will be known in the world for.
Noel Tyl uses the Aries Point too,and he's not a cosmobiologist nor uranian astrologer. He does use midpoints extensively like them.

for example

my Aries Point
oppose Pluto - known in the world for intensity,transformation
oppose Uranus/Ascendant midpoint - known in the world for unconventional relating with others
square Sun/Mars midpoint - known in the world for physical activity

Raymond

posted March 31, 2009 01:50 PM         

It's all good

I was just pointing how mainstream astrologers and cosmobiologists,uranian astrologers differ in their views about the abstract points..especially the Midheaven and Node.

posted March 31, 2009 05:27 PM           

But I loved him, love is a strange thing!

Anyways, I dated that guy then got rid of him cos some of his behaviour wasn't too good. Since all the drama with the pisces I don't take crap from anyone- I even stopped talking to a friend who wasn't treating me right and hadn't for a long time.

You may have noticed I haven't been around here much, I wait until late in the game to look at the synastry, composites, whatever these days.
This guy 'floats my boat' in a way nobody has since the pisces and he comes with an added must-have bonus....

posted March 31, 2009 05:52 PM           

Its funny cos I wasn't actually looking for someone when we met, I'd been knocking men back actually LMAO its funny how being 'unavailable' is like a magnet to some blokes.

Also, my carry on during the pisces debacle WAS NOT NORMAL, obsession isn't healthy no matter what the details. Mine was part of a much bigger problem that had been building up for years and came to a head around the time. I focused on my heartbreak to avoid dealing with the deaths of 3 important people in my life, issues with one of my kids and childhood trauma issues (extra info came to light) that came back up and knocked me for 6.
In reality I probably could have had a relationship with the pisces for a while but I didn't let him know what I was feeling, I ignored him to his face a lot of the time and led him to believe I was just using him for sex. No wonder he found someone else, but when he realised I HAD liked him he wouldn't let me go. I had to cut the cord there and repeatedly tell him so. He's lucky I didn't tell his partner!!!

So if anyone seems to be focusing on relationships that hurt, relationships that can never be, please please take a look at OTHER things u may be avoiding in your life.

You may notice here I didn't get into too much detail with the synastry- personal planets, angles and a few asteroids only, with 3deg orbs. I didn't list every aspect or get into every other style of chart (draconics, harmonics, etc) because I don't feel like we NEED it. I think if it doesn't show up right away it won't, the rest of those things are like gravy- something gooooood added to whats already there

The composite I had read over at astro.com by Todd Neimann who has been spot on when it comes to reading composites for me. So I didn't post it here (way too much mucking around too cos I can't just post it directly lmao!)
Composite is good and it really reflects the qualities in our relationship. I was actually looking for some warning signs when I asked for it to be read but turns out theres nothing really bad lol.