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posted April 03, 2009 07:09 PM         

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Hi aquas (sun, moon, rising, venus, or any other planet) Since you have the aura of keeping it together, sometimes you have alot of stress going on on the inside. its hard for me to get you guys sometimes with thsi leo moon. However of course you are above showing emotions. My aqua moon man is under alot of stress, especially from this economy. and its kind of hard comforting him and letting him know i am here. he babies me when i am stressed, and it works for me and i feel bad bc i dont know how to comfort him and i dont want him to think i dont care! so i ask him if he is okay, he says oh phhtt! of course. but its written all over his face (you know, the blank distant expression thing) so what to do here? Nothing? How can i help him. dont want to ask too much if hes okay, he may get offended. so how do you aquas like to be comforted? or do you?

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posted April 04, 2009 08:24 PM         

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posted April 04, 2009 09:52 PM           

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My best friend has an Aqua Moon and Aqua Venus and I have an Aqua cousin, when they gets down, they either like to be alone or they talk about everything thats effecting them at some point and it's always best not to patronize with "Are you okay?" because they do kind of get annoyed with that.

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posted April 04, 2009 09:59 PM         

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Personally, I don't like admitting when I'm stressed out or if I have problems. If someone asks me what's wrong, my first reaction is to lie and say everything's fine and normal.

Let him come to you.

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posted April 04, 2009 10:56 PM         

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Well as an Aqu Sun/Merc (both squared Ura), I'm a bit like others when I feel down or that something is wrong. I like to brood and have my time. Aquarians do a hell of a lot of thinking. Space is very important to us because of this as is privacy. We like to solve our own problems with our own initiative. Best not to ever pester and try to guess what is wrong. Just give space, let them know that you care about them and that you are available to talk to them when they choose to speak.

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posted April 04, 2009 10:59 PM         

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amowls, that is just like him all day long to simply lie and say everything is okay. it is so funny, i laugh to myself! ya right! cheshirekat you ought to be an aqua expert by now with all that aqua around you. as a matter of fact he is at home today by himself, just seething as we speak. gotta be alone right now...while on the phone, his irritability and frustration come out in slight spurts, and then he realizes he is showing emotion and he goes right back to being cool. this is so entertaining. you gotta love aquas. EDIT: thanks, 23! well said.

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posted April 06, 2009 08:46 AM         

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With me I become very focused on what is bothering me and constantly think about the problem, turning it over my brain countless times. Depending on my mood, usually I need to talk it over with someone that I can trust, I usually need someone to listen more than give me advice. Then I like to be left alone to think and don’t want anyone to bother me, and get down right annoyed if someone interrupts my train of thought. Depending on what is bothering me I start to research the subject in hopes of finding answers and that triggers more thought process and even more “leave me alone I’m thinking” I hate being interrupted when I am in thinking mode! What I would like from my partner is to be willing to listen when I’m ready to talk and let me get it out of my head. And never minimalize what I say or tell me I’m over reacting that kind of stuff. What I need is understanding and don’t tell me what to do unless I ask for advice. Most of the time I just need a sounding board, and this is the worst time to lecture me about anything. Give him his space, be there when he needs to finally talk about it. You can do something for him that he likes and show him you care that way. Make his favourite dinner, rent his favourite movie or something he’s been wanting to see forever. If he has a favourite magazine you can pick up a copy of it and a favourite treat to let him know you care and are thinking about him. He may not want to talk about it, but he will appreciate any gesture that you make to show you care. Never push or pry, let him come to you when he’s ready. I know that I like to be pampered a bit, like a massage, some chocolate, etc….. and if you’re at that point in your relationship, sex helps too. Lol, just make sure the timing is right that’s all. If he’s responding really well to the massage, then you can “rock his world” and you will find that will help his mood a lot, works for me and for my ex who was an Aqua too. Hope this helps

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It's just another day in the life of Aquarius.

Sun: Aquarius
Moon: Aquarius
Venus: Aquarius
Mercury: Aquarius
Mars: Taurus
Rising: Cancer

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posted April 06, 2009 10:34 AM           

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Well I usually close off and get really quiet when something is bothering me or wrong, I don't want to talk about it right away at all..But after some time, I usually let it go..

Aqua Moon
Aqua Venus
Aqua Rising..

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