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Topic: TRANSIT Party On My DESCENDENT...
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GemGemGem
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 06, 2009 08:22 PM
 
In just a few short weeks transiting Chiron, Neptune, and Jupiter, (yes all 3) will be conjunct my DC, ALL AT THE SAME EXACT TIME!!!!! And they'll be there for a while. OMG. It would be an understatement to say I'm a bit freaked out cause I have no idea what this will mean for me. Does anyone know what to expect or have any experiences with this? Am I going to get hammered? Why can't mean transits just leave me alone for once.  I'm already starting to feel lost and confused in my personal life. And just found out that a guy I gave a few pity dates to a while back told all his guy friends who I also happened to be friends with, that he slept with me, which us soooo untrue! It was humiliation times ten and tainted my reputation. Not to mention a huge betrayal since I trusted him as a friend. Then I got completely played by this guy who started out wonderful then turned out to be a lying, deceitful player. The depressing thing is I feel like this may be just the beginng of the awfulness. IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 87
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 06, 2009 11:24 PM
People MAKE there lives depressing because they believe transits are bad and going to affect them in a negative way.
So you subconsiously react to it..But really neptune is a neautiful planet in my eyes. I love neptune. And chiron and jupiter are positive planets too. Uranus just entered my 7th house and its square my moon and neptune my 7th house ruler.. I believe its going to be the most exciting and happiest time of my life because it will bring change and it will be a good change because i will make it good. And nothing wrong with foggy neptune if u dont see things clearly and see life has a fantasy place wearing rose coloured glasses.
LOL Lucky for you! Its worse seeing life as a mean cruel world And what does the rest of ur chart look like? Im assuming you have 25 degrees leo rising?
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Sun.. Cancer Moon.. Gemini Mars.. Cancer Mercury.. Cancer Venus.. Leo Ascendant....... Virgo IP: Logged |
GemGemGem
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posted April 08, 2009 10:02 AM
Belgz, the funny thing is, I didn't even know all these transits were going to be hitting my DSC, but sort of felt their presence already. My social life went from non-existent to utter chaos all of a sudden, and I kept wondering what it might be, because I was getting more and more stressed. I was thinking maybe Venus retrograde. I try not to let transits become self fulfilling negative prophecies, but this one I felt even before I knew about it. I only looked up my transit chart the other day, and noticed it then. All these planets closely approaching my DSC line. All of a sudden my personal life is crazy. I found out on Sunday that 4 of my good guy friends, who I've been hanging out with for the past year, all had crushes on me, and had been fighting amongst themselves because of it. I found out because one of them finally called me up and was yelling at me, telling me I'm breaking up their lifelong friendship, and to get myself out of the picture. The catalyst to this was the whole Cancer plork guy...when I dated him I didn't know he was friends with all these guys but apparently he's really good friends with ALL of them. So now they are p***** that I dated him. I have no idea what's going on, it was my impression that we were all just friends.Now I've lost my good friends, and my Cancer Plork. I also found out one of those guys told the others he had slept with me, when that is soooo untrue...and gross! I've read Chiron transits can lead to embarrassing and hurtful situations. Neptune, foggy and unclear situations and being deceived as well as self deceipt. And Jupiter, can be about overconfidence, and excess. I know there are also very positive qualities as well, but anything that passes through my DSC and 7th house squares my mercury, then sun, then eventually moon. So a lot of times I think I notice the negative energies more. But I know what you mean Belgz about not taking everything in such a negative light, or else it will be self fulfilling. God bless you for being able to be so positive about your transiting Uranus in your 7th, squaring your moon! It's a coincidence cause I just went through this transit myself, and honestly speaking it was very difficult for me. It flipped my world upside down, and uprooted everything I knew! I didn't even know the transit was going on at the time. I got married and divorced when Uranus transited my 7th, and when it squared my moon towards the end of the house, I was a mad woman. Screaming, yelling, just going beserk at my family for every little thing. My emotions and temper were so strong I couldn't contain anything. You are a lot more pulled together and much wiser than I am so I'm sure you will handle it with a lot more grace.  IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 7
From: The Asylum, NC
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2009 10:18 AM
Ugggh, I'm so sick of guys who keep friendships going for ulterior motives (ie. wanting to get into your pants, or expecting something ROMANTIC) . What ever happened to being genuine, or just appreciating the bond we have together?I'm sooooo sorry, Gem.  IP: Logged |
GemGemGem
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posted April 08, 2009 10:37 AM
Thanks Dulce! I'm so sick of it too. I really genuinely thought they were my friends, but they had ulterior motives. The guy friend who called me up basically said the guys didn't give a cr*p about me as a person, I was just another conquest, they just wanted me to be another notch on their belt. So basically meaning, I have no brain, no personality, and I'm not good for anything but a lay!That was like a blow to the stomach! It made me feel so cheap and worthless.
What hurts even more, was that my Cancer Plork was probably in on it too. I was just going to be a notch on his belt.
(Thank god I didn't sleep with him though! haha.) IP: Logged |
belgz
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From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2009 10:57 AM
wow what is ur moon sign in? im normally crazy without the transit but im very lucky neptune and jupiter are trine my moon at the same time. Neptunes keeping me soft and mellow and jupiter is giving me positive thinking power..The transit is exact now for me now and i feel good i planned a trip to new zealand suddenly (9th house moon) and then last week in a matter of 2 min i bought my ticket to europe. Im also moving house which is upsettin but i will get over it while im travelling i guess. ------------------
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GemGemGem
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posted April 08, 2009 01:35 PM
Belgz, my Moon is in Gemini....sign of a lot of nervous energy to begin with. I do think those nice jupiter and neptune aspects to your moon help a lot. I also moved during my Uranus transit, and travelled quite a bit! Moving is very stressful, so I'm happy that you can take this break and go away for a while. You could meet some unorthodox and interesting people on your trip! Is this a permanent move for you? Just beware of things going haywire in your new home and needing fixing. Things kept breaking down on me during that transit. Don't forget to get home insurance! Have a great trip! IP: Logged |
Diandra23
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posted April 08, 2009 04:05 PM
Gemdont feel so scared! look:my bf was having kiron and nept in his 7th when we met.we are happy together and in love. those planets are not bad at all. you can see so much good things:Neptune also stands for a spiritual bond/encounter;kiron is also about healing and jupiter is lucky!!! How bad can it be? that cancer seemed like a jerk so why bother with him? im sure these planets will do you great. IP: Logged |
GemGemGem
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posted April 08, 2009 04:23 PM
Oh Diandra, thank you so much for sharing that! It gives me hope! I know I worry too much about my 7th house, cause I haven't had very good experiences with transits there. Transiting planets there square my Sun, Moon, mercury stellium in my 10th house. Finding lasting true love and happiness with someone I can trust is one of the things I pray for everyday, but it hasn't come....It's ok though, cause I know it is rare. You and your bf are so lucky to have found it! IP: Logged |
Diandra23
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posted April 08, 2009 04:27 PM
i think the key is this:you will find that someone when you feel happy with Yourself.Feeling good with yourself.Not "needing" someone,but wondering how having a fullfilled and loving relationship would be.Just relax and let things flow naturally. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted April 08, 2009 04:37 PM
I do agree with previous posters here. And I do think you'll be fine. Having Jupiter in there isn't bad at all, hon, it's a good thing. Can give you a feeling of optimism. Neptune can be a pain, but your eyes are open, and Chiron can give you a chance to heal past wounds. Try and think of it as a gift. As long as you keep your eyes open. The guys you're talking about sound like they were attached to you emotionally....there's no need to view it as a notch in the headboard thing. Why do you put yourself down like that? It sounds like they were attached to you and even protective, and there's some need for closure and release here (Chiron, Neptune?)....the Plork...well, you know what I think of him. I think these transits are going to demand that you keep your eyes open....as in, be very clear with what you want with certain people, and how you project yourself to them. Consider yourself your own hall monitor lol....if you see someone loitering aimlessly through the hallways of your heart, demand to know their business ("Where's your bathroom pass?' LOL)...and if they don't have one, send them back to class, or assign them detention  IP: Logged |
Glaucus
Knowflake Posts: 163
From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 08, 2009 05:00 PM
I believe those transits can be in synchronicity with positive events if you focus on expansion,optimism(Jupiter) that involves,healing,holistic,teaching(Chiron),spirituality,
mysticism,inspiration(Neptune)involving others,partners (descendant) as well as involving your self,persona(ascendant)I think the transit can be excellent with working with others that have special needs of some kind too.....especially with the conjunction of Neptune and Chiron.
Raymond
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Lucia23
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posted April 09, 2009 12:37 AM
Ewwww, that Big Reveal about your guy friends SUCKS. I personally think the worst is over, and it's great that you know.Did you read Anne Ortelee's Weekly Weather column last week and this week? Someone posted it here, I think. She said we would ALL get "big reveals" and learn truths. (I did, and while I don't want to go into it here, I am still feeling sick to my stomach. Ewwww. It crosses soooo far past the Too Much Information line that it's like I can only feel it in my belly instead of in my brain.) You've learned a few very important things:
-some of your friends are a-hole players and not really your friends
-one of them is a creepy lying pig
-everyone thinks you're beautiful, sexy and desirable and would be proud to have all the guys in the city think you were theirs (By the way, tools though they are, if those guys just thought you were hot and dumb, or hot and unlikable, they wouldn't make such a big, time-consuming effort about it, believe me. Your Geminian wit, brilliance, and sparkle are part of why you are seen as a great belt-notch.) Anne Ortelee has a great quote: ""Make the most of all that comes, and the least of all that goes." I bet if you embrace that JUPITER energy, your whole world can get bigger in a new and beautiful way around now. Keep all the good parts, clear out all the bad parts, and go easy on yourself! IP: Logged |
GemGemGem
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 09, 2009 03:24 PM
MVM, I have a lot of Saturn energy in my chart, so its lovin' the hall monitor analogy! LOL!! This is what I can use whenever I'm feely confused or in a fog about someone. Ask myself, what is this person doing roaming my halls...does he have a destination, a purpose there? Where is he going? Or... is he just loitering around wasting my time and space. It's brilliant MVM!! Thank you! Glaucus, I agree with you about being of service to others during this transit, and it also being about spirituality and healing. I am trying a Yoga class today for the first time in 10 years. I will also have my first leadership meeting at an organization that mentors young teen moms at the end of this month. Thanks Lucia for that boost...I needed that! Yes, talk about "Big reveals"! haha. The other thing about this whole situation that surprises me is that I had NO idea that they were thinking along those lines....we were all just friends. How could my radar be soooo off, or am I just clueless? Maybe it's Neptune and the fog...who knows. And everyone is acting as if it was SOOO obvious, and I must have known the whole time. I know I have to let go of these people who don't serve a good influence in my life.... But I miss my Plork dearly...and he is in my dreams every night! So I see you had a big reveal as well! I'm so curious to know what it was that is so disgusting it makes your belly turn! But I completely respect your privacy in not wanting to talk about it here. I am definitely going to try to make the best of these transits...just never had 3 biggies on my DSC before. IP: Logged |
Glaucus
Knowflake Posts: 163
From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 09, 2009 03:38 PM
" I am trying a Yoga class today for the first time in 10 years. I will also have my first leadership meeting at an organization that mentors young teen moms at the end of this month. "
Those are great ways to use those transits! 
Raymond
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