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posted April 07, 2009 07:44 PM         

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Who's harder to let go?

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posted April 07, 2009 07:47 PM           

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what do u mean? In relationships or grudges?

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posted April 07, 2009 07:50 PM         

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Both. Relationships and grudges.

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posted April 07, 2009 07:52 PM           

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I think VENUS. Mercury is communications. Venus is how we relate to others, how we love, and our values.

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posted April 07, 2009 07:52 PM         

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But mercury rules the mind too non?

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posted April 07, 2009 07:55 PM           

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yeah but I dont think it determines how we react emotionally to things. I think Mercury scorpio could point to someone who is a strong debater and will argue even if theyre wrong...but If I saw that alone in someone's chart, I would never think thats why they hold grudges.

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posted April 07, 2009 08:29 PM         

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Actually Savannah the Moon in Scopio or a Moon/Sun aspect to Pluto would find it harder to let go. Especially the moon, since it rules ANYTHING emotional (attachments etc) and the Sun is the ego. Venus can kinda been seen as to someone not being able to let go only in relationships but not in terms of Emotionally charged situations as the Moon rules ANYTHING and all emotions and the Sun is the ego. Blah I'm sorry if I'm being redundant...I've been studying accounting for hours and my mind is literally mush.

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posted April 07, 2009 08:46 PM           

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I have moon sextile pluto, i'm ok with letting things go. but my moon also squares uranus, so that might be it? my venus also squares uranus. its hard for me to get attached, but im odd, at the same time i am very loyal/devoted. (leo moon)

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posted April 07, 2009 08:59 PM         

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my friend has Venus in scorpio and Sun.

She holds on to grudges foreveeeeeeerrrrrr.
She isn't vengeful, but she never forgives or forgets a wrong done to her.
She also has pisces moon so she is very sensitive and feels like a victim when she is wronged in some way.

On top of that she always brings up how "they have wronged me"
Never lets it go I tell you.

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posted April 08, 2009 01:22 PM         

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Merc in Sco based on my observation of Libra and Sag suns who have Merc in Sco.

Venus in Sco should be more of an All or Nothing. Its either Yes (not hard to get at all) or No (impossible to get).

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posted April 08, 2009 01:57 PM         

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Letting go? Huh, what's that?

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Pluto sextile Mars
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posted April 08, 2009 03:40 PM         

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I have sun conj pluto and mercury in scorpio conj my 7th house angle and I never seem to let go, I can hold a grudge forever.

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posted April 08, 2009 05:40 PM         

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i always have it hard letting go! damn it!! lol its just soooo difficult. in reationships, i have only ever been in love once, and i have never let go to that person i loved. i do tend to hold grudges against those who have hurt me. if they apologise, id only accept it if i know its sincere. otherwise my grudges last forever. . i do have a revenge getting streak, someone who hurt me sooo hard that no one can imagine, you can bet i got my revenge, this is where my sadistic streak came in. it was that once, other times i keep it in and let it off as stupid immaturity and that they'll grow up from it. but once i got my revene for what someone did to me or someone i loved, i will never let go of that grudge it will be with me forever. i know it. im not easily swayed into forgiving someone. i do wish that i didnt but my emotions get to me soooo much. my emotions are intense and they are with e everywhere. loyalty is everything.

im a scorpio sun in 12th conjunct mercury, venus, pluto and ascendant in scorpio, sextile uranus and neptune, opposite moon and square jupiter.

mercury in scorpio in 1st conjunct venus, pluto and ascendant, square jupiter, sextile saturn and uranus

venus in scorpio in 12th conjunct pluto and ascendant, square jupiter, sextile uranus and neptune and opposite moon.

moon in taurus trine uranus and opposite sun and moon

pluto in scorpio in 1st, sextile saturn, square jupiter, conjunct ascendant in scorpio, trine chiron and square midheaven.

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posted April 08, 2009 06:20 PM         

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hmm..I dont hold a grudge,revenge is not my thing but I dont forget if they done wrong to me or fooled me..I dont allow them to do it again..I have mercury in scorpio..

I guess it depends on the aspects of mercury or venus..being in scorpio isn't enough..
mine has a trine from jupiter..holding a grudge is hard for me..plus I have a libra stellium and sag.moon..

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posted April 09, 2009 10:38 AM           

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I don't know much about grudges but Mercury in venus tends to not "forget" and plot for the right time to say something cutting...

Venus in scorpio may hold a grudge by withholding affection and love or "punishing" the lover by being unresponsive and cold in bed.

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posted May 12, 2009 02:28 AM         

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I have a Stellium of Pluto, Mercury and Venus in Scorpio (9deg-13deg), with the middle of this stellium exactly opposed to my Taurus ascendant.

I am obssessive, yes, but grudges aren't my thing. Unless it's something someone's done to somebody close to me... whether it's violence against my family/friends, or some sleaze hitting on my girl... don't even go there. I may not hold a grudge forever, but I'll definitely go out of my way to teach the person a lesson, then maybe forget about it after that...

However, I seem to deal extraordinarily well with people attacking/defaming ME. It just never seems to get to me, I invariably just feel sorry for the person. And I won't hold it against them in the future.

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posted May 12, 2009 02:53 AM         

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Answer is: Depends on a lot of things.

Having to choose, Mercury in Scorpio, if you assume Mercury to show thinking.

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posted May 12, 2009 10:02 AM         

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A guy friend of mines have Merc and Venus in Scorp and he is a author. He writes erotic books..Very good imagination might I add..

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posted May 14, 2009 09:23 AM         

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I have mercury in scorp. I`m an excellent forgiver and a terrible forgetter. It isn`t that I sit around dwelling on stuff, it just never really leaves me, you know. Even if I THOUGHT I was over it, just add tequila and heeeerrre we gooooo.....

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