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Topic: Commitmentphobes of the Zodiac?
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hikoro Knowflake Posts: 121 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 09, 2009 06:26 PM
So, iyo, who are the commitmentphobes of the Zodiac? I have mars in Aqua. Moon and asc in Taurus Jupiter and house 11 in Pisces Uranus and Saturn in Sagittarius Neptune in Capricorn House 8 in Sagittarius House 9 in Capricorn House 10 in Aquarius Chiron and House 2 in Gemini I find that I want commitment but I want to sabotage things too. As in, I want to annoy the person to death so they can break it off. When it gets close to breaking it off, I mellow and get better (oh, don't want to lose him) but again, I get anxious and when things start getting too good then I want to make the person break it off again. I also like reassurance. People have called me a commitmentphobe and I am now reflecting on this possibility. IP: Logged |
augentier unregistered
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posted April 09, 2009 06:36 PM
last guy i was with is like this. pisces sun, taurus moon, aquarius venus and mars. he cares, wants it, but always pushes it away. i think that he thinks being in a relationship means losing his independence or a part of himself. people like you guys need to realize that relationships are about co-existing not molding together ------------------ Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon IP: Logged |
Lara unregistered
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posted April 09, 2009 06:47 PM
Aquarius and Sag for me.. either sun/moonIP: Logged |
rubi001 Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 09, 2009 07:04 PM
mearies sun aries moon hikoro- you and i are a lot alike. i do the same thing, if a guy i know likes me a lot, i try to become this awful boring person so he'll step away, then when he does im like "oh snap i gotta make him like me again" vicious circle. but it keeps things interesting.
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amowls Knowflake Posts: 4 From: Falls Church, VA, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 09, 2009 07:18 PM
Ha you'd think I'd be a huge commitment phobe:Aquarius Sun Mars in Sag Uranus/Saturn in Sag DSC in Sag Venus square Uranus and Saturn Jupiter in 11th house But I always like having a boyfriend. I feel really anxious without one. My Moon is in Libra in the 5th. Sometimes though I just want to be single so I can sleep around. I kind of curb that desire by flirting a lot. My friend Selma has never had a real boyfriend. Guys are always all over her and she dates one for a month and then gets bored with him. She's even still a virgin (which is astounding if you look at her). She's an Aries with a Gemini Moon, Venus in Pisces square her Moon, and Venus square Mars in Taurus. I don't know what her rising is. IP: Logged |
gemlike unregistered
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posted April 09, 2009 07:30 PM
harsh uranus aspectsIP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 27 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted April 09, 2009 09:38 PM
Venus in sag and sag rising, also hard moon / uranus aspects in the natal. (Speaking from experience as those are mine and I have problems w/ commitment)IP: Logged |
gorgeousbutterfly unregistered
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posted April 09, 2009 10:16 PM
venus square uranus moon square uranus thats me, i'm scared of commitment, but i the person just has to be very special, then i can i think. IP: Logged |
Inner depths unregistered
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posted April 10, 2009 12:31 AM
I am the owner of a Sun Uranus opposition Square to Mars. Uranus trines my Asc. I was engaged 3 or 4 times and never walked down the aisle. I used to take great pleasure in being successfully single but things do change.ID IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 559 From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat! Registered: May 2009
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posted April 10, 2009 05:54 AM
me has Sagi Sun/ASC/Venus/Neptune, Aries Moon and Leo Mars (that form a grand trine). My chart ruler Jupiter is in the 7th house opposing my 1st house stellium, and i think it's part of my confusion with my idea of love relationships?since i was a kid i had unusually radical ideas about love and relationship... i'm not exactly a commitment-phobe and i love having someone to adore. but as soon as a "relationship" becomes something that has the feel of semi-permanence, i feel so dull... i never ever cheat, and am very royal to my partners, but most of the time when i'm dating i'm bored as hell. that's pretty terrible. having all these planets in fire houses makes me very restless. currently i live with my bestest best friend with whom i have really really great sex with. roommate + best friend + great sex that's kinda like having a boyfriend, and yet i have the freedom to say i'm single! and i feel good saying i'm single not because i want to pick up guys with that line. i just like being free, woohoo! also i find the fact this situation may end any time once one of us start dating slightly exciting, though that'll be a bit sad, too. uncertainty is a door to new things, and it's always there to open if i feel like it. would this make me a commitment-phobe? IP: Logged |
evander Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 10, 2009 06:05 AM
I am seriously doubting astrology when it comes to this. I can't commit at all as in I've never been seriously involved... and scorpio90's brother got married. The difference between us isn't even a day. ------------------ sag sun, cap moon,sag mercury, aries mars, scorpio venus IP: Logged |