posted April 13, 2009 09:42 PM           

I want to like him more but there are limits to what this Sag girl can tolerate. I've been going through the archives to glean information on these charming creatures, but I still have questions. Primarily, how should they be handled?

posted April 13, 2009 10:18 PM         

I read somewhere that Virgo only criticizes when they are interested, so maybe this is a plus. That does sound a lil annoying though, maybe even rude for hounding you about your choice of words. Good luck with this.

Where does his conjunction fall in your chart?

posted April 13, 2009 10:25 PM           

This is how I do things, maybe not the best advice for you:

If mabitch wants to eat her lunch off the floor, shout "orange" every other second, and shag rabbits...she can do.
Not there to tell her what to do, how to do, and what to say.... I am there to accept her as a human being, as she is.

If she does things I cannot stand, I will leave. I will control myself before attempting to control others.

Yes, Virgos can be like that, but check the Ascendant sign and what Sign the ASC ruler is in. That gives a better description.

posted April 13, 2009 10:48 PM           

His Moon and Venus conjunct my North Node. His Moon/Venus squares both my Sun and Moon (Gemini).

Haha, Kick It. Point taken. His Ascendant is in Cancer.

posted April 14, 2009 06:58 AM         

** dump him

** ask him to write down what he just said

** read it back to him and ask why he hasn't punctuated correctly, and just LOOK at his messy writing

** tell him it's your floor (rented or otherwise) and from now on you're going to charge a toll for walking on it

** tell him he's got the cheek when he's not so great in bed

** tell him you're building up an immunity to germs so that you can be the healthiest 90 year old in your city (that will really appeal to him)

** tell him to take the carrot out

** you can use the strategy I use on my partner when the criticism starts - say "Well, go find another girlfriend that sweeps the floor better than I do"

What should I do when he starts nagging?

Any of the above

Will he get mad if I tell him off?

No. He'll take it as an opportunity to intellectualize the reasons for his statements. In fact, he'll love it that you want to talk about it!!

Can he take criticism?

What? Criticize a Virgo? Why???? They're perfect enough, as it is!!! He will see it as character assassination.

What's the best way to cheer him up?

Cook a super healthy dinner served up in candlelight, with soft background music in a perfectly tidy home. Make sure the bathroom is clean, and there is a clean towel to dry hands with. DO NOT leave a crusty bar of soap on the sink (Unless you use this as a strategy to end the relationship).

Can they be distracted, and if so, how?

Start talking about the latest research on how coffee dulls pain and can prevent prostrate cancer.

Does he ever stop analyzing?

You already know the answer to this

Well, that's my slant on it. I'm trying to understand your dilemma from my Virgo stellium and Sag Moon point of view.