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Topic: I am going to be living with this person
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wheelsofcheese Knowflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted April 14, 2009 10:34 AM
I'm going to be living with this 7 year old girl soon. She's my niece and I am not particularly used to children. I absolutely adore her though. I'm studying her chart right now, but I was wondering if anyone had any thoughts about her. Particularly in the way she might feel and how I can best react to her feelings with thought and care. She can sometimes clam up and is a thumb sucker and a bedwetter and has to trust to open up. She's moved around a lot and I want living with her to be a happy, stable experience. So any insight would be great!IP: Logged |
wheelsofcheese Knowflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted April 14, 2009 10:34 AM
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wheelsofcheese Knowflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted April 14, 2009 10:36 AM
Her birthtime is very accurate, she clearly wanted to be a Capricorn as she came early enough to scrape in.IP: Logged |
Peri Moderator Posts: 147 From: Ukraine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2009 12:54 PM
her afflicted Moon on DSC suggests she needs lots of appreciation and encouragement, she also has a stelluim in the 4th, she needs home and a loving family to make her happyIP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion unregistered
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posted April 14, 2009 01:52 PM
I agree with Peri, and your recognizing that she needs emotional support and stability is already a great start. I think you'll know what to do. The 4th house stellium and the 6th with the restless Aqua and Aries energy will make her cranky and irritable. My boyfriend has no water except his MC in Cancer and he is very sensitive.IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 103 From: The Strand Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2009 06:27 PM
Being surrounded by Aries Mooners (esp ones with a Mars at Aries point) in reality, she's going to be shouting out a lot of her emotions at times and she will esp so with that Moon-Jupiter square/Pluto trine (but modulated by Moon-Saturn sextile). Let her say her bit and let her get it out of the system. Be careful not to take offense to what she says, delivery is an issue I've noticed with Aries mooners and look behind that to the sincerity. She will seek a mother figure (Moon conj DC) and she will need a lot of freedom and space with the heavy Aqu presence. She might ask you a lot of questions and drive you crazy with her curiousity but try to satisfy her curiousity instead of shutting it down. I've noticed parents including my own who wouldn't answer questions. If that's the case, get a lot of intellectual material she can play with, eg kids encyclopedia sets etc.She will be very independent and mature to some point (Cap Sun) so it might be difficult to tell her what to do. With Aqu influenced people, it might be best to sow an idea in her and get her to follow your idea rather than outright telling her what to do. IP: Logged |
good girl Knowflake Posts: 83 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2009 09:33 PM
I think it's so nice you make such an effort to understand her and meet her needs. She is very lucky to have you in her life.What I would like to point out about her is that while yes she is one who needs to express her anger (which I believe will come quickly and go just as fast as it suddenly appeared)because of her aries moon and mars, but she also has a need for peace. Her libra rising isn't comfortable with disruptions and arguments, and with jupiter and mc in cancer, and cappy sun, she will try to protect herself from disruption and critisim....very sensitive and insecure. I think you should find outlets for her mars and moon aries...like sports or something that requires her some physical and otherwise release. Get her involved in a safe and positive way for her to hit,push, yell(cheering,shouting), and opportunities to lead if she is feeling charged. (maybe martial arts) Surround her with beauty, as a libra she will respond well to pretty and pleasant things simply being in her immediate environment. With saturn in gemini in the 8th(this is where she will resist because it feels threatening). I think you will be hard pressed to get this girl to open up verabally , but you can appeal to her desire to nurture and get her to open up emotionally by giving her something to take care of and love, basically something to mother, like a pet. (her jupiter in cancer is where she will expand and blossom) One last word. Her 3rd house ruler is squared to her moon/ and saturn is in gemini. Be sensitive to any feelings of being "stupid" or "dumb", this is one of her raw areas. I WISH YOU SUCH GOOD LUCK! IP: Logged |
wheelsofcheese Knowflake Posts: From: Registered:
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posted April 15, 2009 04:32 AM
Oh guys, this is great, thanks for your responses. They really chimed with what I know about her, and the suggestion for some physical activity and answering her questions is very very helpful. Luckily she has a rabbit already and there is no rabbit in this world better loved than he is, bless her. Along with the 30 or so teddy bears that she puts to bed at night. She's even got time for my old teddy bear.Clearly it is time to buy each of us pair of roller skates. Thanks again! Really appreciate it. IP: Logged |