posted April 27, 2009 11:51 PM         

My virguy has changed. He has been very active for the past month or so. He is more attentive and trying to make my life easier by doing practical things for me. If I mention, "I need to get...", he interrupts me to tell me he can do it for me. I was worried thinking that he felt guilty about something...that he had done something wrong.

But, he told me that everything was fine and that he liked I was letting him be.

Interesting answer, right? And it is true, I took time to take care of myself, did not call him or make plans and he started to come to me more strongly. As a matter of fact, I was in a mood where I was not caring about the relationship at all and now he wants to hang out at my apartment 3-4 times a week.
I also do not wonder about the whys any longer...."Why am I not his girlfriend? What is the future of this relationship?"

Nope.

Sure, we are not official, no expression of feelings has occurred...but things are moving better than a few months ago.

Nevertheless, his behavior is so good compared to 1-2 months ago.