posted May 02, 2009 09:48 PM         

It sounds like you're going through a difficult time, however IMO Saturn transits are a time of cleansing. Saturn is like a chimney sweep that gets rid of the fakes & flakeys. The disappointment/s feels harsh, but most of what remains in your life after the transit is authentic.

posted May 02, 2009 10:16 PM         

In Saturn's case, the lessons involve "keeping it real", being practical,grounded,mature,disciplined

Saturn transits are reality check transits.
Saturn transits are like "enough is enough, I am through putting up with this crap"
If there is a Pluto transit involved, it can indicate a time of eliminating things that are no use to you.
If there is a Uranus transit involved,it can indicate a time of liberating yourself from what's holding you back and being independent
If there is a Jupiter transit involved, it can indicate a time to expand beyond your horizons and being free
If there is a Neptune transit involved,it can indicate a time to let ego issues get washed away and being more selfless

I know that Saturn transits can seem to suck. Transiting Saturn was squaring my Neptune and was opposing my Moon last year. My exgf broke up with me. I also had transiting Stationary Pluto square my Pluto, exactly conjunct my Venus/Node midpoint which indicate a time of eliminating what's no useful whether I like it or not. Transiting Uranus was trining my Venus,and that indicate a time of changes involving love,relationships.

I really made a mess of that transit, I fought against being dumped, and I made these transits harder than I had to be. I had a hard time letting go....especially with my having Sun,Mercury,and Venus in Scorpio.

I was in unhappy in this relationship,and I wanted changes to be made. It really was becoming an unhealthy relationship for my exgirlfriend wasn't doing anything to make our relationship better because she was focused on her mom's feelings and disregarded mine.

Now I realize that I am lucky to get out of that relationship. I know that I deserve much better.

You do too. Transiting Saturn is about keeping you real. Then you can be no-nonsense about relationships.

Reality checks are what Saturn transits are about.

posted May 03, 2009 11:06 AM         

I'll have it conjunct my Venus soon. It's already squared it and my Mars, and believe me, THAT was ugly.

posted May 03, 2009 05:56 PM         

I have hard Neptune aspects natally

I think hating the transits just makes the transits worse....because you focus so much on the negativity. I think law of attraction can be helpful when it comes to dealing with hard transits.

posted May 04, 2009 03:29 PM         

Saturn's teaching you responsibility and maturity in love. All these men who are coming in and out of your life, each have an important lesson to teach you. By having so many men in your life as opposed to the usual Saturn limiting men in your life, it may be to teaching you to have more discipline and discretion in who you allow into your life. Saturn is teaching you to be the bouncer at your own door.

Things will get better. Through these disappointments, you will learn a lot about yourself, and your relationship patterns! Be introspective. Good luck!

posted May 05, 2009 01:02 PM         

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Thanks for all the help you guys. I really identified with what deliverance said about it sweeping everything clean. Yeas it's sweeping my social and love contacts clean because they were fake to begin with. I know this is all good in the long run, it just hurts like hell right now.

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It will pass, don't fret Scrappy. Saturn transits make you so much stronger & wiser. Keep your chin up x