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Topic: Honestly honest
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Writesomething Knowflake Posts: 677 From: meet me in montauk Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 01:37 AM
What are the mercury signs and aspects of people you found to be extremely honest and blunt? I dont think jupiter is always the culprit...jupiter I think humor.My close friend has: Mercury cancer. Mercury conj mars. Mercury trine Pluto. Mercury opposite Neptune. Pluto in the 3rd. Scorpio on the 3rd house cusp. I find her to be brutally honest about things despite the neptune aspect. She doesnt sugarcoat anything. IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 01:43 AM
Well, I have Mercury in Gemini trine Jupiter in Aquarius and I'm very blunt. IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 135 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 01:53 AM
I am the most honest and sincere person you could ever hope to meet. I will make your life easy by the things I say, because you will know it is coming from 100% truth. No guessing or wonderings of ulterior motives when others are with me, no sir!IP: Logged |
Writesomething Knowflake Posts: 677 From: meet me in montauk Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 01:58 AM
thats refreshing to hear, carl. what are your placements? IP: Logged |
carl Knowflake Posts: 135 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 02:10 AM
Haha, I am kind of being sarcastic. But I do consider myself to be pretty honest still. A little blunt sometimes. I tell little white lies for ***** and giggles. Sometimes I am a bad liar, I laugh a lot when I do. Mercury sag. 0.17 degrees Mercury Sextile asc (according to astro dienst, but how is that possible if my asc is CAP, 26.59 degrees?) (No other Merc aspects) Pluto = House 9 Pluto in the 3rd. Aries on the 3rd house cusp. IP: Logged |
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 144 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 02:25 AM
Mercury and Mars can do this to a person, but add it up to the entire chart. Mine is part of a T-Square involving the Ascendant, NN and Venus. Jupiter? First house with Neptune. Quite often I sit and think that life is too short to not take the opportunity to tell someone what you really think. As I've got older I've managed to use more tact and pick my moments better. I don't always get it right I will confess. This configuration also gives me some work in the anger management department. IP: Logged |
amowls* Knowflake Posts: 127 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 02:37 AM
I tend to sugar coat things. My Mercury is retrograde in Aquarius in the 9th, sextile Uranus and Saturn & Mars, trine Moon & ASC, sextile Jupiter.My Libra Moon does not like confrontation. I think for one to be brutally honest they have to not care about the social consequences of their words. IP: Logged |
Cheshire Kat Knowflake Posts: 95 From: Wonderland Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 02:47 AM
My dad is brutally honest, he has a Libra Sun/Taurus Moon, I'll have to check where his mercury is later.Anyways he is the most blunt person in my life he had no qualms telling my Cancer sister she was fat after she gave birth to three kids or that I am a "failure" when I don't do things right the first time. There are other things but sometimes I think his blunt honesty..is arseholic.. His favorite phrase is "I call it like I see it"..and he really does to..my ******* Gawd he really does.. IP: Logged |
Love Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 02:54 AM
Two people who I would consider very honest have their Mercury in Sagg and in Taurus.The one who has it in Sagg also has it conjunct Neptune so I think there were times when he was dishonest mainly because he was having a hard time being honest with himself. But I always felt that he was giving me the most truthful answer he had. His other placements are: Mercury (9th House): Quintile Moon Sextile venus Semi-Sextile Jupiter Semi-Square Uranus Sextile Pluto Square Ascendant My current boyfriend is the someone else who I consider to be a very honest person. His Mercury is in Taurus, exactly conjunct Jupiter. His other placements are: Mercury (4th House): Sesquisquare Moon Semi-sextile venus Square Saturn (loosely) Opposite Uranus Conjunct Chiron Sesquisquare Ascendant
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carl Knowflake Posts: 135 From: China Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 03:10 AM
I read Love's post about sag merc in aspect with Neptune.I am confused. I have Sag in Mercury 0.17 degrees I have Sag in Neptune 29.32 degrees Would that not be a sextile or some kind of aspect? It isn't mentioned on astrodienst. IP: Logged |
Coffee Knowflake Posts: 338 From: Leeds Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 03:14 AM
Thats me. Not too blunt, just not very candid.Aries rules 3rd, with Mars conjunct Uranus. Maybe fixed signs on ASC as a starting point. Brother and sister are very much like this. Brother is very blunt. Same chart. IP: Logged |
aquarian/scorpio Knowflake Posts: 50 From: Middle Earth Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 03:55 AM
I'm very blunt and honest person sometimes my friends will ask me a question/opinion on something and when i give them an answer they don't expect..i just say well if you do not want to hear the truth don't ask any questions, simple. To a degree i am sensitive but if i can't say how it is i rather not speak at all because i don't want to lie and you do have to when and when not to speak. I have always had this trait but in the last year or so it has intensified. I also cannot stand people who expect me to sugar coat things and if i suspect YOU are sugar coating that gets me kinda upset because its just ungenuine to me. (11H)Mercury in Aquarius square Pluto/Moon in Scorpio (0), sextile Mars in Aries (0). I blame the square to my Mercury. EDIT: Gemini on the 3rd House Cusp 3H empty. Also when being honest you don't have to be rude or brutal just keep it diplomatic but everyone reacts diffrent to everyone. IP: Logged |
aquarian/scorpio Knowflake Posts: 50 From: Middle Earth Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 03:59 AM
Carl that would be a semi-sextile but it maybe to wide for one therefore it will not be taken into account on astro.IP: Logged |
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 144 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 04:12 AM
Mercury Square Jupiter is an interesting one. The one in my house seems to need to fill the air. Just like the imagery suggests. But sometimes the thing to say is nothing.
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lechien Knowflake Posts: 22 From: Germany Registered: May 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 07:22 AM
i USED TO BE incredibly tactlessly blunt. if i had to tell, i told without any hesitation the plain truth and truth only... and believed that it makes everything simple in life...but i learned my lessons and now i understand that people often times don't want to hear the truth and it made my life complicated. though i still don't understand why they prefer to get hurt (if the subject is potentially a hurtful truth to them, that is) doubly and triply through the discovering of lies than just instantly be done with knowing the truth... i still don't sugar-coat things, but i learned to shut my mouth when need be. it's made my life much simpler... but i still prefer people be honest with me than telling me what they think i want to hear. or whatever. i have... Mercury in Capricorn in the Jupiter ruled 1st house, opposing Jupiter in the 7th. trine Chiron in the 5th, and widely conjunct Sun by 6.5 degrees. i guess 1st house Mercury opposistion chart ruler Jupiter says it all? IP: Logged |
Choc Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 07:38 AM
From what I've seen so farMercury in Sagittarius/Scorpio/Aries Strong Mercury/Mars or Mercury/Jupiter aspects Perhaps a bit of Uranus thrown in the mix. IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 38 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 09:06 AM
I have Mercury in Aries/8th house conjunct Venus and Moon. It's hard for me to lie, and I'm often honest, but I'd avoid telling the truth in a direct way if it hurts the other person. >_<IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 334 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 10:07 AM
Someone told me the other day: ' I can always count on you to tell it like it is, keep it real & not sugar coat things.'Mercury in Taurus, conjunct Chiron 3rd house. mutually recepting Venus in Gemini. Taureans in general are known to be blunt, short and straight to the point. IP: Logged |
Geocosmic* Valentine Knowflake Posts: 74 From: New York, NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 01:02 PM
Saturn is the honest one, he's blunt and not codependent at all. That's why he rules the "cold, hard, truth."Jupiter is a philosopher who wants to identity "the truth" in a philosophical manner. There's a difference between being able to identify truth and telling the truth. Jupiter identifies it, Saturn is it. IP: Logged |
Nyah Knowflake Posts: 17 From: Europe Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 01:07 PM
My take on this in general would be:A blunt and straight-forward person, he tells it like it is but never mean to hurt anyone, he is just very honest - not rude: - Sun/Mercury/Mars in Taurus, Venus in Gemini. A blunt person who sometimes just do it to provoke people, and is also sometimes intentionally hurtful: - ASC in Sagittarius, Moon in Aries, Venus in Aquarius. Mercury Square Pluto/Saturn. In general, people who I think tend to be blunt has Aries, Taurus, Sagittarius or Aquarius in them (or an irritated Scorpio ). I think Aquas (with some fire in them) can be blunt just because they don't seem to understand what impact their comments can have on peoples feelings. I've experienced at least 3-4 Aquas with a tendency to say blunt things in a cold detached way, but they don't even realize it unless you tell them IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 420 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 01:40 PM
oh gosh, i'm insanely blunt! I'm not sure there is blunter than me I have mercury conj sun in 3rd/TAURUS not aries!!!. Mercury also squares exact my AC in Aqua. Mars in taurus/4th. IP: Logged |
Writesomething Knowflake Posts: 677 From: meet me in montauk Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 02:29 PM
Interesting responses.IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 318 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 02:35 PM
i can identify with having learned that the "plain truth" is often unacceptable. with merc in virgo conj saturn i also agree with geocosmic!! but i HAVE learned to speak the truth with a little tact (sometimes at least!) over the years.i find merc in sag blunt to the point of rude (or crude) and frequently for the sake of being "right"...merc in cap, hard to fool but whether they out and say it probably depends on other factors. of course many of them are aqua or sag suns so out it comes!! and that's the other one - aqua sun, prodded by saturn AND jupiter, has a hard time filtering their truths for the general public! IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 420 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 02:41 PM
Me too Katatonic... i have real problems with that problem. For me the truth is paramount, whatever!I will always speak it and will always expect it. IP: Logged |
Taurean_Scorpion Knowflake Posts: 24 From: Santa Monica, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2009 03:03 PM
I have a Taurus Mercury Opposite My Moon,I think Mercury in Aries, or any mercury aspected to Mars would make someone blunt. Cancer is on the 3rd house cusp and I have a Scorpio Moon opposite my Sun. I am blunt at times but it comes from wanting the absolute truth. I don't like to sugarcoat anything but I am pretty tactful at the same time. added* I think I get my tactfulness from my Mercury in Taurus, but my bluntness from Mercury Square Mars. IP: Logged |