posted May 08, 2009 02:24 PM         

I am worried...One of my friends who thought she was helping me made me go to a astrologer in Bombay..
He said that i had to break my marriage as we were not compatible..which was true and even we both did not want to continue our marriage...
my ex..Details Initails M.M S
Dob.29-07-1968 at 12:56 pm at Bombay India

Was my mars responsible for the divorce??
How will it affect me in the future...
Is there going to Canada specifically in my chart.

I have been to New york from 15th august 2007 to 6th february 2008...It wa very very bad...it was my most illfated trip..I went in search of happiness and i got betrayed there..My ex stays there...

My cousins are calling me to Canada...They say they have someone there whom i can remarry..

Is there remmarriage on my cards???If yes..will it be abroad again ???? WIll IT LAST....
(MAJOR PROBLEM GIVING ME SLEEPLESS NIGHTS)
I belong to a very well known family and would not like them to be at loss all because of marriage again not working

posted May 08, 2009 03:44 PM         

Will next time around work? Again, I'd say astrology will only symbolise the potential. It can't tell you what to do.

posted May 08, 2009 04:41 PM         

Only concern is the mars factor..I was under the impression that because of this mars factor, it would have harmed my ex husband..i need someone to please analyse this aspect..

Also compatibility was in question from his side as he was already legally married to an elder woman there..so i had gone in so much hope only to be disappoinnted..

hence so many queries..

posted May 10, 2009 05:34 AM         

also that saturn is very weak..
i am a novice..i got scared and hence thought that i must consult some professioanal...i belong to a community which does not believe in astrology...but a debacle in my life in 2008 made me turn to astrology..

I just want to know whether i will ever be happy in marriage, family life of my own and where is it that i need to be as in India where i am or any other country..i have an opportunity to be in canada, but i am hesitating due to this issues..as i facedthe debacle in US..

posted May 10, 2009 11:46 AM         

OK may I request you read the following questions carefully? And, give the answers regardless of astrology?

1. Do you want to be happy in marriage?
2. Do you want a wonderful family life?
3. Are you open to living in Canada?

If the answers to all three of above comes Yes. Then, You should go ahead and explore the guy in Canada without comparing someone else from past. You don't have to marry him but you can get to know him!

OK. If answers to above are No. Then, give yourself 10 minutes of meditation and decide whether you want positivity in life. If you decide, you want positivity.. then you should not worry about what your astrologer friends tell you.

Vedic's Mars interpretations are horrible and you should trash them.

Also keep the Law of Attraction in mind..The more negative you think, the more negative you shall receive.

It is also very unwise to compare a future guy with a past guy. No two people are alike. Let me ask you.. would you like this guy in Canada to fear you because of his Ex? No right, then why are you doing the same to him?

Either respectfully explore him, or, reject him upfront so that you can move onto exploring the next guy.

The answers to your questions are way more obvious if you remove your dependency on astrological predictions.