posted May 20, 2009 09:06 AM
it seems that your problems could be reflected by the Venus square Pluto which is mainly an intense,deep love naturethe challenge of that aspect is to avoid obsession,jealousy,and possessiveness
the way to resolve the issues to transform,regenerate, and eliminate old patterns that aren't conducive to good relationships. It could also be getting over trust issues that stem from past betrayals.
in extreme cases, there could be potential for abuse,trauma in love,relationships but also it can get in the way of love and relationships.
The positive side is that the aspect can indicate the ability to be a catalyst,healer in relationships to be a force for transformation,regeneration. The ability to transcend by letting go,eliminating.
with it being in the 12th house
relationships are meant to involve sacrifice,selflessness,and spirituality
avoid secret,deceptive relationships as well as relationships that leave you to be a martyr and taken advantage of.
Raymond